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Comments (12)Hi ravencajun and silvervista, Thank you so much for this information. I read it and was shocked to see this. I immediately sent this to my son and told him to tell his friend who was recommending it. He has downloaded Malwarebytes and SuperAntispyware. I told him when he first mentioned it that Malwarebytes was a great program and he downloaded it but his friend was saying it was better than Malwarebytes and I thought I never heard of it before and that is why I posted it here. I figured if there was something wrong that someone here would know about it. Thank you so much for letting me know about this. I am going to also call my son to tell him that I have sent him the links about this program, so that he won't miss it. Genes, I will also send him the message, as far as his computer is concerned I really don't know what he has but I do know it is a Dell Computer and newer than mine. I will let him know how to find this out if that is he is able to boot up. Right now his wife is having health issues and the computer is at the bottom of the list for now. This has given me a chance to warn him before he did anything. He said that he ran Malwarebytes and SuperAntispyware and didn't find anything but, his friend got on his computer and said he had trojans and something else that I can't remember off hand. The people who built my computer wanted to put McAfee on here and I told them absolutely not and I told them to put Norton in instead. Afterward they started recommending Norton because they found out that it did a better job. Sometimes these computer companies don't give you a choice and that is why I preferr having one made and then I do have a choice. Thanks again for the heads up, it is greatly appreciated. thirdfrt!!!...See MoreSon leaving for college
Comments (8)I just kept telling myself that this departure to college and growing independence was what I had worked for all these many years. This is being successful. This is working. This is what we all need. This is success..... It is hard, no doubt about it. But it is also exciting. So now start planning for an easy transition. Be sure he knows how to do laundry. At my university, all the freshman boys wore pink underwear. I would sit in the laundromat waiting for my laundry to finish, and every fall watch awe struck freshmen pull their pink underwear out of the washing machine along with the college red sweatshirt. All the school sweatshirts were red, and thus the pink underwear! Also, find some twin extra long sheets for him, and create a kit of laundry stuff and first aid stuff, including what he should take if he catches a bad cold or has an allergic reaction to the gunk in the air up there. Call the university and ask whose ATM is located ON their campus. Then open a joint banking account for him there early enough to receive his blank checks and ATM card before he leaves. He will be walking to campus and to classes in rain (and snow???) So be sure he has some kind of weather clothing in the way of shoes and an umbrella or rain coat. Assuming he will be living in a dorm and it is allowed, buy him one of those little refrigerators (unless his roommate is already bringing one). Send him up with a set of silverware and a plate and bowl and mug for feeding himself in his room. A cheap, tiny microwave might be good too. The dorm rooms seem to have only a bed or kitchen type chair you can sit on to study. Buy him one of those bed pillows that looks like the back of an easy chair with arms to help him snuggle in for study sessions. You can find them at Target, Sears, BB&B, etc. The day he leaves or the day before, mail him a care package of his favorite cookies and snacks so that it will arrive the day after you deposit him there. I always called my daughter on Sunday evenings. I heard about the weekend fun and about the school week ahead. I offered lots of dating and socializing input then, and hopefully it helped her adjust and stay on an even keel....See MoreSon Waiting a Year Before Going to College
Comments (4)Have discussions with him. Share about how you want him to take this opportunity to learn more about managing his own business. However, having said that - it's HIS life. It sounds to me like he's doing well working, being responsible, and he did well in school. In some countries, kids are encouraged to take a year off after high school to travel and see the world before they decide what they want to do with the rest of their life. Many, many kids go to college and waist money partying and not taking the opportunity seriously. I went for one year, quit for a year (over a boy - don't ask), then went back and got my degree. My brother didn't go to college after high school. He went to work, got married, had a couple kids, THEN went to college and became an electrician. He makes good money and takes good care of his family. University studies aren't for everyone. Actually you are forced to take many hours of general ed. classes that often don't even interest you. Believe me. It is hard to study for something that you don't even care about. The important thing is that he gets some kind of education or skill development after high school so that he is marketable and can find good employment and advance in his career. He can take classes later if needed or desired. Just keep the lines of communication open....See MoreCall out to Sueb20
Comments (5)Sue, I wanted to share a little bit about my story. I was diagnosed with scoliosis when I was about 16 (almost 17). I had a 17% curvature, as I recall, which is more than slight, but not terrible I guess. I had basically finished growing and the wisdom at the time (1970s) was that I should live with it. I am now in my early 50s and I have suffered from lower back pain from time to time, and as I have gotten older you can definitely see the curvature in my back when I am not wearing a top, but it hasn't been that bad. I have always exercised my back to keep it flexible and strong - probably the best advice I got when I was younger. But the reason I am writing this is mostly to give the advice I really wish I had when I was younger - yoga! I have been practicing for 10 years and it has been so immensely helpful to me - not just for my spine, back pain and flexibility but also in understanding how my spine relates to the rest of my body. Two years ago, I attended a 2-day yoga for scoliosis workshop with Elise Browning Miller and it was incredibly informative. What I found most interesting is that there were some younger people (20s/30s) in attendance who had much worse curvature than I did who had not used braces or surgical corrections but who had faithfully practiced yoga to manage their scoliosis. This has to be done under the care of someone with specific training, but since then I have seen a PT who has also helped me with some exercises to help me manage my spine. I hope this might be helpful to you and your daughter....See Morechispa
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