I feel lost- help!
A. Porter
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Comments (21)I think it depends on how much you want to be in control and how much control you want to relinquish to others--both have pros and cons. When we redid our master bath last year it was my first experience using a designer so I was clueless about some things, as much as I have always enjoyed design. We picked things out swiftly, just going to one or 2 places she recommended. For example, for the counter she took me to the stone retailer she uses. He had a small showroom/warehouse with samples and I picked my counter from there. I had no idea at the time there were massive stone yards with hundreds of granites, etc...For the tile, I found an accent tile I liked and just went with a coordinating tile the woman at the tile shop recommended to us. And I just used the contractor she worked with. Well, the job took way too long (2 months) and have found out just now with the kitchen reno they did the plumbing incorrectly. Do I like my bathroom? Yes. Is it love, love, love? No. I am using a contractor for my kitchen (we couldnt have done much with it layout wise unless we wanted to tear down walls and neighborhood just doesn't warrant a major overhaul). Contractor also has design experience, but after bathroom designer I didn't want to leave one "stone" unturned. I went to every stone yard and tile place within a 25 mile radius. I didn't want to be in a position to make decisions or pick things out in a few minutes or just from 1 or 2 places. I did use the kitchen cabinet place he recommended and the owner, my contractor and I spent an afternoon at the house going over every cabinet, which features, etc...Some people prefer 10 choices to 1,000 and are happy when a designer says "here are 5 floor samples I think will work" and you pick one. I wanted to get a broader scope of everything available, then choose for myself. I am using the fabricator my contractor recommends. I did all the appliance research myself--with a lot of help form this forum. With an infant, a designer might be the way to go if you are in a hurry to get things done. But I would do some legwork on my own first to get a sense of everything that is out there so you aren't making hasty decisions....See MoreFeeling pal's pain -- lost out on some office space.
Comments (9)Yes, you may be in for a shock. Major roads (such as 31) have higher base rent psf. ;D Thanks. btw, be careful when someone quotes you a psf price. Ask them if that includes CAM. Many will quote you X then you find out later that doesn't include CAM, which can run $1-$5+ psf more. The smaller sf of the property, the higher CAM will be psf. We always give quotes for base rent and CAM - why would any decent landlord (or real estate agent) try to trick someone. If you find a space that doesn't need any build-out, but you still need to paint, etc ask the Landlord if he will give you 1 month free rent to get the space ready. Some may even give you 1 month free rent instead of offering to do any build-out (they don't want to be bothered) without tacking the month onto the end. When a lot of build-out is needed, if the tenant is strong, we may chip in but then tenant pays us back X a month for X months. Another option, we don't chip in at all, but give them X off the rent for X months. It's a win-win when a space is filled and the tenant is strong. In the old days, shopping centers rarely did or helped with any kind of build-out. (Office buildings almost always do.) Now, more are willing to help in some way, even if just a little. But do be careful about asking - nothing is worse than a tenant that doesn't know when to stop asking. Landlords will walk away rather than having a PITA tenant to deal with for X months!...See MoreHelp unpacking?-I feel like I'm just moving stuff back and forth
Comments (25)Hi Ash- Some people are great at the packing and unpacking and set up thing. Some are not. God gave us all different gifts. Perhaps one of things you may need to help you find places for your things is a closet system. Maybe not a fancy expensive closet system, but hooks and racks and dividers,etc. Maybe you need shelves on which you would place your books and certain collectibles. If your kitchen storage is minimal, maybe you need a pot rack from which you can hang pots and pans. attractive cookware looks nice hanging from the ceiling. Just remember to rinse them before you use it each time. If there isn't that much storage in your kitchen, maybe you can screw in little cup hooks to the inside of your kitchen cabinets for your measuring spoons and measuring cups, that will clear out space in your kitchen drawers and cupboards. There are myriads of tips like these if you do internet searches for small kitchen tips or small kitchen hacks, or small apartment tips and hacks, etc. You can raise up your bed in different ways giving lots of storage underneath for whatever you need storage for, out of season clothing, office supplies if you work from home, whatever you need extra storage for. HOWEVER, and I I put this in upper case letters not to yell at you but only to emphasize the following point to you, you don't want to start to do things piecemeal and then get yourself in a worse situation by doing things like buying containers, or setting up inadequate shelving and then making a whole lot of holes in the wall in the wrong places. It seems that at this point you are a bit overwhelmed, and could use some guidance. That's why there is a profession called certified professional organizers. No, I am not touting them because I am one. I have friends that have used them , and they raved about their services. You don't necessarily need to use them for the placement of every piece of paper unless you want to. You can decide what service(s) you want from them. If you need for example the shelves and pot racks and closet system, they can figure out what type and they can arrange for people to set that up for you, or you can install it yourself. once the organizer figures out what you need. You and she/he can meet and decide what will work for you. Now here's the thing, you need to be really honest with yourself and decide what you need. Can you get by with one meeting and someone writing you a battle plan ans you can follow it all by lonesome? Foreelz as the kids say these days? Or do you need more of a guiding/instructive hand? The fly in the ointment here is not a fly but a virus. It might be difficult to find a professional organizer that is working now. On the other hand, they may be really needing the $$, and may have a mask of their own, or can get one or order one, and so can you and you can do your preliminary talks on the phone and Facetime or Skype or whatever with videos/photos , etc. And you can stand 6 feet away from them. Or even arrange to be out of the apartment when they come over if that's what you both agree to, just remove your jewelry and money and Picassos. And you know, the more orderly your place is, the easier it is to keep it clean! Good luck!!...See MoreMy kichen vision is blowing up, feeling lost
Comments (10)For someone who’se not fastideous, as Marie has very definitely stated, I would not suggest butcher block…no matter what is applied to it. Marie, I hear you, and agree about quartz. It’s fake, platic-y, and dead looking, compared to real stone. And, it’s not fool proof, as you noted. While not a fan of plastic counters, in your case Corian sounds like the perfect fit. Just because your builder hasn’t had a request for it in years, shouldn’t mean he wont honor your request now. If it means that much to you, stick to your guns. As for granite…the lighter granites tend to be more porous, and need more frequent sealing. Doesn’t sound like a fit for you. However, if your builder can get his hands on some honed Virginia Mist, that should suit you. Except for being on the dark side, it has a lot of depth, and is impervious. It should be able to handle your ”sloppiness” without a problem. Another choice, would be quartzite…a very durable real stone, (unlike quartz), available in many very light, whiteish patterns. Quartzite tends to be more expensive, so it may not be in your budget. Did you really mean that the builder upped the costs of your build, by $100,000?? Or, was it $10,000? I know the cost of materials has increased a lot, but $100,000 on a 1200sq. ft house, seems out of line....See MoreA. Porter
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