My primary care office rarely has a DOCTOR
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Comments (24)A few years ago I went in for a colonoscopy. I was in a lot of pain and the girl taking the info. out of the clear blue sky asked me what bank I used. Yes, a red flag did go up...but I was in pain....and thankgoodness did not give her the correct bank. Gave her one with mortgages. Sure enough, identity theft. They used my name and address to try and break into this bank. Did it all on the computer. The bank just sent us a letter stating the change in the pin number had been changed. This was the day before Thanksgiving. We called the bank and told them this was fraud. They have the nerve to tell us that they didn't know if we were really were who we said we were and had to be at the bank the first thing in the morning after the holiday to cancel this account. I was furious. I now go to the sheriff's department. Couldn't even go up to see him...just talked on the phone down stairs. He said, (I quote) do you know how many people we have working on identiy theft???? I said. NO...He says "Your talking to him". Can you believe this. Well, we stopped the theft and since a crime was not committed, they could do nothing about it. Plus, we don't know what computer she used to do this. Think about this. She did everything from a name, address, and bank. I could not tell the doctor about this because if I identified her, I could be sued since I would be accusing her of a crime. I should have sent a letter without identifying myself but didn't. I'm disgusted with myself I didn't. I was stupid and pain or no pain I did not use my head!!!! But I never never never give out my social. Also, why do Doctor's offices need to know where you were born. My theft was just giving an address and a bank. Think what they can do with your address, age, date of birth and where you were born. I'm saying this because tomorrow I'm going to a new doctor and they have already asked where I was born on the phone. I stopped the conversation before they were completed. We are being paranoid, but I've had this theft twice now. The first time was my credit card. You are not safe in a doctor's office. You really don't know who these people are you're giving this info to. Give as little as possible. 's...See MoreHow to chose Primary Care Provider?
Comments (7)I think it's really difficult anymore and I am a nurse (well, retired now). I've known some dr's who had lots of personality & pt's loved them, but from my observations would guess they might have graduated at the bottom of their class. And likewise I've seen dr's who were absent the day personality & communications skills were passed out, but their clinical expertise was superb. I suppose a recommendation from a friend, another dr, nurse, or medical professional is ~~probably~~ the best way to find a new dr. (but just be sure s/he is on your insurance plan). I think it's important to look to see if the Dr is "Board Certified"... it indicates a higher level of expertise, whether Family Practice or Internal Medicine (& either is fine, imo). I also prefer that my PCP be in a group practice rather than solo practice. When an emergency arises, I want someone who can access my records. Interestingly, my former PCP (internal med dr) did not, as a rule do the Pap smears & vag exam. You had to go to a Nurse Practitioner who was with another associate in their organization. I personally thought this was ridiculous ... I want a "one stop shop". LOL. My dr left that practice & moved elsewhere & I haven't yet been to the dr who took his place, so I don't know if that is still the case....See MorePrimary Doctors
Comments (13)What pharmacy is it? I do not think any good pharmacy would allow a Dr. to sign your prescription and back date it. Where I go when I sign and the person does not know me ( and most of the gals do know me) they have to ask for ID. If it is a chain like CVS etc, you can put in a complaint to the main office, I did with Walgreens because of a problem with the one in AZ while traveling. I hope you find another Dr and pharmacy that you are happy with. Is there a Costco near you? How about a CVS? Good luck Marie...See MoreDad's scary primary care physician
Comments (36)Even having been in the medical profession for many years myself, and being married to (the world's best and kindest) family practice physician for the past 35 years, it's difficult for me to give you any better advice than you've already received here. My heart hurts for you, Pink! You're in a situation that's mentally and emotionally draining and, yes, you're right in thinking that it's probably only going to get worse. Having know many, many physicians, both professionally and personally over the years, I have to agree with your assessment of your father's primary care physician. I've sadly met many like him. I worked briefly for two very much like him years ago. Egotistical and never able to think of women as equals in anything. They very much tend to talk down to you . . . or if you're working with them, order you around like a servant. I would place no hope in getting him to change his stance. I'm sure that he would view it as challenging his competency . . . and greatly offend his over-large ego. Is there any chance that you can talk privately with his cardiologist about this? I have no doubt that he is well aware of this other physician's reputation. With him being chief of staff, he probably isn't in a position to rock the boat by calling him on the line about your father. But, now that he is seeing your father as well, many specialists are willing to step in and counsel their patients or perhaps gently suggest something other to help his mental health. One more thing. The chief-of-staff position in a hospital is almost always an elected by peers position. Generally, it's just for a two year term. But, in a very rural hospital that may have problems attracting other docs because of limited population, it may (sadly) be for much longer. I hope, in your case, he's out soon. Take care of yourself first, emotionally as well as physically. Keep a separate log, signed and dated on your father. Meds prescribed and whether filled or not filled; taken or not taken. Emotional and physical abuse against you or others. Doctor's appointments and outcomes. Hours in bed daily, etc. Be specific, and not emotional in keeping it. This may become very important legally, as well as medically....See More- 11 years ago
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