My primary care office rarely has a DOCTOR
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WWYD? Formerly smart doctor now has dumb/rude nurse.
Comments (34)I still don't have a clue how the hospital found out that I needed the test -- that baffles me. But they knew at the time they called to schedule that the insurance would cover it, and by the time I showed up for the test, they had an estimate ready for my co-pay. All of this before the doctor's office even bothered to call me back to tell me that I could schedule the test myself. Honestly, I'm getting the feeling that this nurse just does not like me. She doesn't follow through in a timely manner with anything the doctor orders for me, avoids speaking to me when she can, and is downright frosty when she's forced to interact. I think the idea of writing everything down is a good plan. I'm going to do that, then bring it up to the doctor the next time I see him face to face. I worry that he might "take her side", but then I think it's ridiculous that there ARE sides. I'd hate to lose a good doctor over this but, at this point, I am almost eight weeks into trying to find out what is wrong and I feel like his nurse is compromising my medical care -- so what do I really have to lose? Thanks for your help and support....See MoreDad's scary primary care physician
Comments (36)Even having been in the medical profession for many years myself, and being married to (the world's best and kindest) family practice physician for the past 35 years, it's difficult for me to give you any better advice than you've already received here. My heart hurts for you, Pink! You're in a situation that's mentally and emotionally draining and, yes, you're right in thinking that it's probably only going to get worse. Having know many, many physicians, both professionally and personally over the years, I have to agree with your assessment of your father's primary care physician. I've sadly met many like him. I worked briefly for two very much like him years ago. Egotistical and never able to think of women as equals in anything. They very much tend to talk down to you . . . or if you're working with them, order you around like a servant. I would place no hope in getting him to change his stance. I'm sure that he would view it as challenging his competency . . . and greatly offend his over-large ego. Is there any chance that you can talk privately with his cardiologist about this? I have no doubt that he is well aware of this other physician's reputation. With him being chief of staff, he probably isn't in a position to rock the boat by calling him on the line about your father. But, now that he is seeing your father as well, many specialists are willing to step in and counsel their patients or perhaps gently suggest something other to help his mental health. One more thing. The chief-of-staff position in a hospital is almost always an elected by peers position. Generally, it's just for a two year term. But, in a very rural hospital that may have problems attracting other docs because of limited population, it may (sadly) be for much longer. I hope, in your case, he's out soon. Take care of yourself first, emotionally as well as physically. Keep a separate log, signed and dated on your father. Meds prescribed and whether filled or not filled; taken or not taken. Emotional and physical abuse against you or others. Doctor's appointments and outcomes. Hours in bed daily, etc. Be specific, and not emotional in keeping it. This may become very important legally, as well as medically....See MoreNot easy to reach my doctor's office by Phone
Comments (4)When you say "reach", do you mean "reach by phone" or "reach by car"? All of the doctors that I see only see patients on certain days of the week, and on other days they are at other locations, perhaps seeing other patients (one was a professor), but I am not sure. My primary care doctor is in Pacific Palisades and most of the other doctors are in Santa Monica or Westwood (UCLA). It would be more convenient if they were in Marina Del Rey or Culver City, but UCLA only has emergency and after hours clinics in those locations. My primary care doctor in Pacific Palisades has associates in his office there whom I could see if necessary, but I choose to go on the days he is available....See MoreHow long would you wait in a doctor's office?
Comments (58)Ok, a little spin on this. I added my doctor's appointment to my calendar from their reminder notice. Monday, June 6th at 11:30am. So I show up and checked in with the staff member at the reception desk and took a seat. Forty-five minutes later I went back to to the staff member for a polite version of "WTH". She double checked to ensure she checked me in and then informed me that my appointment was not until 1:00pm! I said, gosh, wish you had mentioned that to me when you checked me into my 1pm appointment at 11:30. She "didn't notice". So, not sure how the 1pm appointment was added to my calendar for 11:30 but I sure wish she had let me know I was an hour and a half early to my appointment so I could have gone to lunch, shop, or whatever. Such a waste of time. Bottom line - I am never early and hate waiting. Worst of both worlds!!...See More- 10 years ago
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