What Should A Person Know Before Leaving Home?
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Should I leave SD home alone?
Comments (9)I can understand how you feel -- my stepdaughter stayed with us last summer (on break from college) and I will not allow her to stay here again (my husband supports me because she went out drinking every night, went through all of my closets, drawers, etc. and stole my belongs -- then, of course lied). So, my question is are you concerned about leaving her alone because of her age or because of what she might do alone in your house (mine came for a lunch w/Dad and her grandmother for Christmas and I asked my husband to promise he would not let her out of his sight....he didn't! Nothing was stolen.) I guess the part about he told you and didn't ask bothers me.....I mean I have made demands to my husband about her NOT coming, but he fully understands how she totally violated me this summer and disrespects him so he agrees (lunch at Christmas was a compromise! If she comes into my house, you promise to watch her and not let her anywhere near my closets, jewelry box, etc!). If you think she is ok to be alone and won't do any damage, I don't think there is anything wrong with it at all. In fact.....do you have someplace you could go visit for a week or 2?! It sure ain't easy for us stepmoms, is it?!!!!! (I do have a great stepson full-time though....so I do see the value we/they can bring, but when it's bad....it's pretty awful!)...See MoreShould I leave something for the buyers of my home?
Comments (50)So many good comments, and I love a "dilemma" that has to do with generosity and decorum. Warnings about the protocol between buyer and seller and any future impact are of course warranted. I've bought and sold 8 homes over my many years and the transactions and relations were often different (but fortunately never bad). They were either "expected", or beyond what was expected. I never balked at the expected, but smiled with the unexpected. When we downsized a few years ago we left historical history/photos/blueprints, small supplies of all tiles, paint marked for each area, extra custom cabinet shelves, all appliance/fixture docs and maintenance schedule with contractor/repair specialist info., fixture pieces and parts (marked in boxes). The "extra" gift from us was born from an inquiry in the process about a "tree swing" in the front of the house that we politely explained (with photos and stories about it's meaning to our family) could not be included. It was an old swing, hung from what we called "The talking tree", that was quite frankly not in the best of shape, but nonetheless, too meaningful to our family to leave behind. We decided as a family that we would purchase a new one and hang it (big project that our boys took on) for the new owners. This was also a way for our family to pass the torch. Our boys spent a day before the move hanging the new swing on the talking tree, and they placed a big bow on it (wish I had that pic). New owners were genuinely moved....See MoreShould we spray paint the house interior before we Move-In?
Comments (10)Thanks! Unfortunately, this is our "forever home" for now, and I can't imagine living in it as is. If the wood were nicer, sure, but it will be tough otherwise. At the very least the window trim (which is new) will have to be painted, and the basement apartment panelling too. We overpaid for the house because it's in a great school district, so for future I don't think many individuals looking for authenticity will be interested in our area (lots of cheaper options elsewhere). The next buyers our home will attract will be young people with kids who are looking for the least expensive house in the most expensive neighbourhood, much like we were. That age group will likely want something more modern. At least that is my thinking! I would hate to devalue our home, but at the same time if it's not going to make a difference I wouldn't want to cater to a "niche" community. What do you think? Is my reasoning sound? (Really I am new to home-owning and the market so I may make some faulty assumptions)....See MoreI need to know if I should open up a staircase or leave it enclosed
Comments (23)In order to make an informed decision, I would have a professional take a look, so you know what you would be getting into structurally and cost wise. An option could be changing dining room side only, but have to consider symmetry, especially with arch going into living room. Perhaps it wouldn’t necessarily have to be entire wall as well. No matter what you decide (leave or change): - I would highly recommend painting the hall, staircase and living room the same color as dining room. - Lighten the stairs (see below) and change runner to something lighter/more interesting - A gallery wall could detract from the staircase’s narrowness, as the eye will be drawn to wall - Add a great ceiling light in front entrance If it were me, I’d first make these updates and then you can always reconsider. You may be happy with how the stairs feel, as well as the whole space in general; lighter, fresh and more cohesive...See Morejoyfulguy
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