Getting ready to remodel the second floor, where to start?
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Comments (6)Patricia Lanza recommends building a bed 18-24 inches deep. It will condense a lot. My original bed is now level with the surrounding lawn. Aim for four times as much brown (high carbon like chopped leaves) as green (high nitrogen like fresh grass clippings, kitchen scraps, fresh manure). She alternates 2" layers of peat with 4-6" layers of everything else. I did not put much peat in mine. Also she adds things like a sprinkling of bone meal, wood ashes, and blood meal.Expect the original 18-24" to shrink to 6" over winter. I made a big mistake last year by topping two new beds with about 6-8" of fresh steer manure. This seemed to harden over winter and the layer of fall leaves underneath did not decompose as they should have. This spring I made large holes which I filled with good compost/soil mix and planted winter and summer squashes and tomato plants. Over the summer proper decomposition has taken place. I don't want to make this mistake again but otherwise I'm not fussy about how thick a layer is. Kitchen scraps get spread in a section then covered with grass clippings. This spring we got a load of manure I thought was too fresh for spring planting so I have been using it in the compost bin. I found the original 'perfect' composted horse manure on Craigslit and went back again this year. The man just charges a nominal fee to use his tractor to load our utility trailer. He puts wood ash and kitchen scraps in the pile over winter and must turn it with the tractor bucket because in spring it is beautiful, black stuff. I continue to watch Craigslist and the farmers market bulletin for free manure. We have plenty of our own grass clippings now and enough leaves in the fall. According to the compost calculator posted, I'm way too high in carbon. Looks like I need to add more nitrogen sources. At the same time I made the lasagna beds we started a traditional asparagus bed beginning with digging out an area. Anyone in their right mind would not do it this way but my husband has a new used backhoe and was willing to do anything that required a backhoe. This still required adding layers of composted manure and grass clippings. Maybe it isn't fair to compare an asparagus bed to a vegetable bed but the lasagna bed doesn't require any machine work. There's no tilling. No turning over. This is second year for the original beds which have produced nicely. Due to long, cold wet season in New England some of our neighbors gave up on their gardens. Others complained they were too muddy to work in. Drainage in mine is great despite having swampy areas in the lawn (we're next to a boggy meadow). I guess I can trust the earthworms to do the soil cultivation. We did not need to buy or borrow a tiller. I plant closely a la square foot method so just hand weeding is required. The soil doesn't get compacted because I rarely walk on it (the two original beds are too wide which I will change for next spring)....See MoreAlmost ready to start and getting cold feet!
Comments (19)Is it "normal" to get a sinking feeling every time you think about building a home? Of course not. It's normal to feel nervous about the project's enormity, the expense, the logistics. But a sinking feeling means this is not what you want. You might like parts of the house, but that is probably not enough. The fact is, you will have to put a huge amount of effort, money, commitment into a project that will end up with you living where you don't want to live, in a house and "yard" too much for you to deal with. And at an age when your health and energy are not likely to be trending upward. You will continue to resent his not following up on his commitments. He's getting his dream and you're gonna pick up the loose ends. No WONDER you have a sinking feeling. Just for a moment, and just to yourself, think about whether or not you can back out now. And how you would do it. I think you may already be too deep into this to back out now--for whatever reasons you've agreed to it. What would happen to your relationship with DH if you called a halt to it right now? (I'm not suggesting you answer any of this here; just to yourself.) If you can't see a way out of this, then what would it take to make it go better for you? I think you could assert your right to not have to work to age 70. If he's willing to handle it by himself, it's his dream--let him work for it. Or, let that be a real good reason to scale down the house. Just say you're not willing to work past 62 or whatever. He can run the numbers to see how to scale back the house accordingly. That will get you 2 big things you want: a smaller, more easily managed house and an earlier retirement. While you're having that discussion also tell him that the project has to be scaled back because you're not willing to be annoyed all the time, and scared by living in the midst of undergrowth, and you will need a bigger monthly budget to hire things done. (What was his plan for while he's away for 3 months?) I don't think he's been realistic about that and you haven't confronted him about it. Does he know how much you resent picking up the pieces for him and waiting for him to get around to things? Or, focus on how he's too busy working to consistently get the maintenance done and should plan on letting YOU hire it done; so in his free time he can play country squire or whatever he dreams of. Did you just agree to all this because you can live in a really nice house? Because other than that I don't hear you wanting any part of this. Until you come clean with him about ALL of your reservations, he will have no motivation to start planning realistically so that YOU will also be happy living his dream. (Or as happy as you are capable of, given that you basically don't want this.) This isn't just a house; it's your entire life. Especially since you work at home. That sinking feeling you have is a warning signal. I really hope you'll tell him now, while he has some motivation to make concessions and provisions and to scale things back. If you don't tell him now, he will have zero motivation later. And all you will have is the sad consolation of being right about the fact that he would disappoint you--again....See MoreGetting Ready to Remodel!
Comments (13)Just a few updates on our project so far. It seems to be moving along pretty well... Taking out the uppers on the peninsula really made things feel more open. No going back now... Someone enjoyed the cabinet doors being gone... And helping, he's been such a hard worker... All the old is gone. After this, I redid a bunch of wiring, probably my least favorite part New cabinets going in (PS I really like the Ikea install process. Hang your rail level and straight and the cabinets follow suit and things move along quickly!) More cabinets, and a microwave With some doors/drawers in No picture, but last night I got all of the cabinet boxes hung on the sink wall. New appliances are coming tomorrow, and hopefully flooring in the next couple days. So far, things seem to be progressing pretty well. We also picked out a backsplash and counter. Backsplash is a mosaic sheet of some glass, white, and marble looking tile, and we'll go with a marble looking countertop....See MoreWood floors on second floor impossible in remodel?
Comments (13)Are the stairs existing or already in place? If not, there's no problem at all using wood flooring on the second floor and designing proper, code-compliant stairs. If the stairs are existing, do you want to have them removed and re-installed to correspond with wood flooring? The other option for existing stairs is to refinish or recover the existing stairsso as to meet code dimensions based on wood flooring on the second floor. This is a design issue. Solve the design and then have your builder install what's necessary. Don't ask your builder to design a new solution since he's told you it can't be done, which means he doesn't want to deal with it....See Moreprairiemoon2 z6b MA
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