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Comments (3)I would love to come Dances, but it's just too far away this year. :) One of these days I hope to make it to your area to visit. I bet you're going to have a great time, take lots of pictures, and yum Lasagne sounds like a total winner!!!...See MoreBusy Weekend in Windsor
Comments (10)Enjoy your weekend, Anne. Give our regards to your sister ... I hope tat she can change her outlook to being more positive about her current situation. Hi MarieND, I was surprised to hear that you were near Windsor ... as I thought that you live in North Dakota ... which, last I heard, was quite a long way from southern Ontario. Maybe the tectonic plates that lie under the continents have been moving again! Actually, Windsor is south of Detroit (well, south-east), that surprises many, but the Detroit River runs south-west in that area, between Lake St. Clair and Lake Erie. If you have a Road Atlas, check the south-western end of Ontario or the Michigan map, especially Michigan cities. Did you get the same snow that southern Alberta and Saskatchewan did a few days ago? Said to result from weather disturbances in Montana and Wyoming. ole joyful...See MoreMy Old Rollerskates
Comments (21)My dad was a big fan. We went to a lot of games. Bay Bomber fans although one of the guys from our speed club skated for the New York Chiefs. LOL I had a bit of a crush on him. Now thse games were wild, like old hockey games. The fights, the spectators getting into it, people throwing things. Now days you'd be thrown out. Our world has gone so PC. My brother went to the training club once in a while. i couldn't wait 'til I got old enough but stuff happened by that time. I got kicked off the floor at the second rink often for playing roller derby. In fact I had a nick name. I was small,fast and fearless. Played with the guys 6+ older than me and they showed no mercy nor I them. I would low and quick and come up from below get them just above the knee on the side. can you say charley horse? LOL Lots of people thought I could have a career with Roller Derby at the time. I was only around 12 then though and too young. I still have my Snyders both my dance pair and my figure pair. I also have my old speed skates. They were Hyde boots with with a single action plate and wood wheels with free bearings. None of the hi tech speed stuff they have today. We skated without helmets or guards. Just jerseys,shorts and tights. If you had a real uniform the only padding was light weight at the knees. Anyone remember the powder on the floors? We used to have to work it in before sessions. Then if you fell you got it all over yourself. During artistic practice most of the boys wore black pants. No jeans back in those days. Lot's of spotted pants at the end of the session. LOL Girls skated bare legged in those short skirts. Pleats for practice most of the time. Most of us had some ugly floor burns healing most of the time. By the time DD started skating the floors were "roll on" (the blue stuff and no more powder. Outfits got stretchy and the girls wore hose. I remember putting her in Leggs Sheer Energy size A pantyhose because they were small enough to fit over her little 5 and 6 year old body. Actually she wore the same size all the years....See Moreventing my guilt, extremely long
Comments (33)popi, both myself and my siblings are so happy my mother did not die alone. But I did feel awful at first that even though I was right there, the last thing she saw was my panicked face, and I wasn't even holding her hand, which probably would have been so comforting to her. My DH had stepped out into the hall momentarily to prop our door open so the paramedics would find us easily when they arrived. So I was alone with 2 crying kids and desperately trying to talk to the 911 operator. I planned to comfort her right after I got off the phone, not realizing that her last moment of life was passing in front of my eyes. Had I known that, I would have held her and said "I love you so much Mom, you were the best mother ever" instead of kind of yelling at her "Try to relax Mom, the paramedics will be right here!" So don't feel too bad that you weren't physically there when your mother died, because even though I was, I wasn't actually comforting her as she passed. I think that's something we can't always control and I'm o.k with that now. She knew how much I loved her, your mother did too, and that's what really counts. mammie, please don't worry that your mother was seeing something terrible because of the look on her face before she passed away. I think that some people are fortunate enough to just kind of lose concsciousness and then slip away without any awareness of anything about to happen. In my mother's case, she always hoped she'd just pass away in her sleep some day. So I believe the frightened expression was more of momentary fear of how she would pass, since she was obviously aware it was happening, and definitely not that she saw anything terrible at her moment of death. shay13, my condolences for your mother's recent death, the pain will become less intense as time passes. I'm not 100% sure which anti-anxiety med my mother took because it was 5 years ago. I know that she took the pill to relieve her anxiety, and unfortunately she passed away before it kicked in, but I don't believe it CAUSED her death. I do have the pocket guide for perscription drugs and Ativan doesn't list any side effects like loss of consciousness or cardiac arrest. I believe the fact that your mother never regained consciousness after her last blackout was not related to you giving her the anti-anxiety medication. Remember that you didn't give your mother an overdose of it, and her doctor who perscribed it was aware it was to alleviate anxiety when she sensed she was about to pass out. So I doubt he'd prescribe something that would risk her not returning to consciousness afterwards. I didn't intend my post to stir up any sense of guilt in those of us who tend to second guess things about a loved one's death. To shay13 and anyone else, I no longer hold any guilt for anything related to my mother's actual death. My post was strictly related to my guilt from continuing to lie about it to my siblings. I just felt that if I was expecting you all to take the burden of guilt off my shoulders, I'd just give you the whole story of what happened. We plan our regular visit to my sister's house between Christmas and New Year's. My other siblings that also live in Windsor all come over for a family gathering on Dec. 29th, because that's the day my mom passed away and we like to have a big crowd and play games and laugh, knowing how much our mom would love that. Just turning to all of you at the KT has really helped to relieve my guilt about lying to my siblings. I felt it would be much better to reveal the truth to a large number of people who could take the burden from my shoulders and throw it away for me, than to reveal it to four who would just place it upon their own. I'll let you all know how the visit goes, and Happy Holidays to everyone in case I don't post any other threads before then....See More- 18 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
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