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16 years ago

That's what Jammer ask me this morning. And I told him "no, but I would." As I can really use your prayers and good thoughts for awhile.

I have a malignant tumor and have been driving back and forth to the city for tests & dr visits lately. My oncologist thinks that I will probably have radiation and low dose chemo for 6 weeks to shrink the tumor and then have surgery. But I have to get all the tests done first.

I'm very happy with my doctors and their staff. And I really don't think I will mind the drive to San Antonio (2 hour round trip) every weekday for 6 weeks. I may think differently about that after the first week. LOL

Those of you who know me well will know that I'm not a worrier and can honestly say I haven't wasted one minute worrying about this. I'm lucky to be surrounded by wonderful family, friends and co-workers. And I feel fine.

I will keep you all updated. And thanks for any prayers and good thoughts for me.

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JoanMN
16 years ago
Oh, MaryAnn, what a shock. YOu have my prayers and best wishes. Oh, and here's some hugs, too. ((((((((((((MaryAnn))))))))))
JoanMN
Cherryfizz
16 years ago
Maryann, you have one smart DH for knowing that we at the KT would help carry you through this with all of our love and support once you told us just like you have done with many of us.

Sending you out all the good healing thoughts I can muster.

Anne
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Greetings again, phoggie/Mary. In my earlier post I appeared to be unaware of some info that you appeared to have posted a couple of hours earlier, so much of what I said was not useful. If you want to take a good portion of the things from your current home to furnish the one where you will live in future, I have a suggestion that might be relevant. Son's sister/my daughter moved from near Toronto, on the north side of Lake Ontario, to Phoenix a few years ago, and son and I were discussing yesterday the cost of moving her goods: I'd thought that it was something over a dollar a pound, and he said he thought closer to a dollar and a half ... ... so I suggested that we should have bought her an old school bus, then we could have packed it for her, she could have driven it down there, and sold it after getting her things moved into her new place. Or, if the rules governing licensing required really different criteria, buying one there and driving it up, loading it and driving it back. Perhaps you might be interested in buying an old school bus, packing your goods into it and driving it to Burlington. Then check with (former)/friends to try to find some farm or rural person nearby who'd rent you some space at nominal fee to park it for a time, until you have found a place to live on a permanent basis. When one considers the monthly/quarterly cost of renting a storage space (or annual - and which period does one choose, up-front?), using the school bus idea might not be such a bad idea. There'd be an additional benefit of handling all of the stuff twice instead of four times: saved effort (says a guy with a streak of laziness) and less possibility of damage/breakage. I'd thought of suggesting that, should the contract for sale of your current house fall through, that it might be a good idea to do some checking as to whether that arrangement had been satisfactory. But when I heard that your former husband's son was in a related business, I was fairly sure that he'd have been aware enough of the local housing market to have ensured that you weren't being taken. With regard to the lady who has the house that she's talking of sharing ... how about finding a reason, whether real or imagined/manufactured, to visit there for a few days, or, probably better, a week or so, so that you could stay at her place and get an idea of her lfestyle, including an idea, even if vague, of the financial end, and whether you might feel comfortable with it. ole joyfuelled ... who doesn't have to buy gas for a school bus P.s. I've been saying for some time that it makes sense for several singles, especially senior ones, to live together. Advantages: -intellectual stimulation helps keep Alzheimer's at bay, -shared chores would enable one to continue to live independently longer, -each person would eat better than tea and toast for some meals if living alone, -increased safety: if someone has immediate trauma, as long as one can call, there's someone there to help, plus -they could triage: decide whether we can handle this situation in-house; or we call this person's caregiver to handle the situation; or call 9-1-1- ... right now!, -there's be a major cost saving over buying a smaller home/condo, renting one's own apt., etc. ... and a major one over entering a residential home and certainly over a nursing home. That cost saving would enable them to afford to have someone come in to take care of much of the cleaning and housekeeping. o j ... who lives alone
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so glad the kids are stepping up! make sure you tag the stuff the buyers want...think of the time with your friend as a "re-nesting" time... be sure to discuss some sort of living plan...for instance mom thought she was doing a pal a favor by doing laundry together, but her pal had a certain way of doing things and it was a sort of a big deal...actually it was for the best as they would have had a difficult time if she'd moved in full time... mother ended up buying a mobile home from a family friend...not a bad thing in hot and dry las vegas! she really loved it and had house guests often (it was 2 br double wide) it was the first house she'd ever had...we were apt dwellers while i was growing up... remember the old addage..one day at a time...it really works!
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I am so very sorry to see this Patti, and extend my sympathy to you and your family. You will continue to be in my prayers. Tami
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Jodi_SoCal
16 years ago
MaryAnn,

Only good, healing thoughts coming your way from me. Keep that positive, worry-free attitude, it was carry you far.

Jodi-
trinitytx
16 years ago
You go girl!! Kick it in the butt.

Please keep us posted....and yes, I bet the drive will get on your nerves..just think of us all in the car with you.

Trin
kiwidj
16 years ago
Hope you've got a BIIIG car MaryAnn cos there's gonna be alot of us KT'ers along for the ride with you! Crank up the music and know we're with you every step of the way! (((MaryAnn)))

You know I was thinking of you guys a few days ago and I've been meaning to ask how Jammer's been doing after his health scare?
Granlan_TX
16 years ago
Mary Ann, if anyone can pull this off, you can. You do have the right attitude to face what's ahead. Keep it up!

I dread the drive for you. I was so lucky to have my chemo and radiation doctors just minutes from my home.

Add me to your support circle and let me know if I can help in any way.

Lots of Granlan Hugs
grinch_gut
16 years ago
Hugs to you! Stacy
marilyn_c
16 years ago
Maryann, I admire your strength and courage. I will be sending lots of positive thoughts for you, and I know that you will beat this.
jenni_ca
16 years ago
MaryAnn I am so sorry to hear that you have to go through this.
Your attitude is wonderful and that is more than half the battle.
The treatments will all be over before you know it.
You will be going into this with an awful lot of thoughts and prayers my friend!
petaloid
16 years ago
I went through it 18 years ago, and I'm fine. My mom went through it 7 years ago, and she's fine.

I'm sure you will be too.
imabest
16 years ago
Marynn know that you are in my daily thoughts and prayers
hugs Imabest
mikka_north
16 years ago
(((((Hugs)))) (((((MaryAnn)))))

The power of being positive is amazing. You have an amazing outlook, and that will bring you though whatever comes your way! We are thinking of you!

Rosie
aprilflower
16 years ago
(((MaryAnn)))

My prayers are with you, and all of the extra positive energy I can muster is coming your way for when your tank needs topping off!

april
Happy_Go_Lucky_Gayle
16 years ago
Prayers and hugs to comfort you.

Look what a wonderful backup group you have here at the KT.

Gayle
carol_in_california
16 years ago
I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
LorifromUtah
16 years ago
Of course I'll be thinking of you MaryAnn.
My prayers will include you too.

Where is the tumor?

Lori
Mickey15
16 years ago
Maryann, Hugs, and I sent you a mail through your my page.
Tammy
koda04
16 years ago
will be keeping you in my prayers and hugs for you and jammer
shell1989
16 years ago
You're in my thoughts and prayers!! Keep that positive attitude!! That's half the battle!
caroline94535
16 years ago
((((Mary Ann and Jammer))))
hounds_x_two
16 years ago
Your approach to this "bump in the road" is awesome. Know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Nita__AZ
16 years ago
Sorry you are going through this MaryAnn. What an awesome outlook you have!!! Keep your chin up and you will beat all the odds I have no doubt. I will be thinking of you daily and praying for you.
IndianaKat
16 years ago
My thoughts will be with you and your family Maryann. Your bravery and calm are amazing. Continue to be strong.....

~Kathy~
okwriter
16 years ago
MaryAnn,
I will most CERTAINLY be praying for you! I wish you didn't have to go through this, but I'm also thankful that you were diagnosed and have good treatment options. Keep up the positive thinking, and please keep us posted if/when you feel inclined. You have many caring friends here who will be cheering you on.
Rita in Oklahoma
Vickey__MN
16 years ago
Add me to the list of people who'll be praying for you!

Vickey-MN
katclaws_mo
16 years ago
Sending my Special Thoughts & Prayers as well.
mcmann
16 years ago
MaryAnn
I haven't been here all that long but I learned very quickly that the KT is a wonderfully caring community. I'll be sending my prayers and wishes for a speedy recovery along with everyone else here on the forum.
heatherinohio
16 years ago
I am sorry to hear that you are having to go through this. That is a whole lot to think about. I pray that all goes well for you.

I was going to suggest Christmas music but you mentioned that. LOL! I like to turn my radio up really loud too! If you hear Frosty The Snowman blaring from some ones car this next month, it might just be me. :)

((((Hugs))))
sandy_in_ia
16 years ago
((((((MaryAnn)))))) You are in our prayers!!!! This has been kinda of a rotten year for you and Jammer! When it rains...it pours. I agree with so many here, it is your attitude that will get you the farthest!

Let's see......will one of the Christmas music CD's be Trans Siberian Orchestra??? *G*
kim_okla
16 years ago
Maryann I will be thinking good thoughts for you.
pris
16 years ago
Add my hugs & best wishes to the list. I don't envy your drive every day but I would do the same. There are some excellent Doctors and medical facilities in SA. That's where I go for anything medical. Thank goodness it's only about an hour away for me and I don't have to go every day (yet). I echo the sentiment regarding attitude. Maintaining an upbeat attitude and healthy lifestyle helps the body heal and recover. Make sure you get all the proper nutrients to help keep you healthy. And, remember, this too shall pass.

((((MaryAnn)))
jaybird
16 years ago
(((((Mary Ann)))))) and you will for sure be on our prayer lists. Be careful in your traveling too!
kacram
16 years ago
well, Dagnabbit MaryAnn! You just couldn't stand not being part of the club, now could you?!? You, know, we don't really WANT any new members of our club! lol

I will be thinking of you, you DO have a great attitude (as MUCH as I HATE to admit it in public! LOL) And I fully expect to see you and the JamMan on your big ol' motorcyle tooling up I~5 to visit Jenn, Kat and Terri! lol

(((((Mary Ann)))
des_arc_ya_ya
16 years ago
Well, AllNight, since you're not the type to say it, I will..."Well, sh*t!" There now, don't you feel better already!? LOL

Tell Jammer that turn about is fair play and now it's time for HIM to baby YOU for a little while!

My prayers and good wishes go right to ya, girl.

Come here when you want to talk or vent or laugh or cry or do whatever comes naturally!!
maryanntx
Original Author
16 years ago
LOLOL Yaya! Do you know me, or what! It must be my Southern Baptist upbringing shinning through??? Although I have been known to let loose with a few colorful words when necessary. *S*
brenda_in_tx
16 years ago
"It must be my Southern Baptist upbringing shinning through??? Although I have been known to let loose with a few colorful words when necessary."

Aren't all SB's that way???!!! I sure am!!!!

;-)
peachesncream
16 years ago
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Warm hugs.
junkyardgirl
16 years ago
I went through the radiation to shrink a breast tumor, and was supposed to have surgery afterwards, but the radiation took care of it. Good luck, and I'll keep you in my prayers.
gingertn
16 years ago
I hate that I missed this, I'm so sorry to read this news. I will pray for you and am glad you have such a wonderful attitude - hang in there!

ginger
bettyswwa
16 years ago
You will be in my thoughts and prayers, Maryann.
joyfulguy
16 years ago
Greetings, Mary Ann and Jammer.

I, too, am sending good thoughts and hopes your way, Mary Ann.

Along with some warm hugs. ((((((Mary ann and Jammer))))))

And prayers to the One who loves us with a limitless, everlasting love, that things may go well with you and that complete healing may be forthcoming.

During a recent discussion on the causes of a someone's enjoying good health, someone suggested that good genes help a lot.

Someone else said that a positive attitude, feeling at home in this precious world that God has given us was very important.

And someone else said that taking care of one's body, mind and spirit were very important components, as well.

It appears that you've done well on most of those counts, so far. Keep up the good work.

ole joyful
jae_tn2
16 years ago
Special thoughts and prayers go out for you to have a complete and speedy recovery!
Julie
kayjones
16 years ago
Mary Ann, please know that I am praying for you to heal from this malady - keep your good attitude. Email me if you want to talk.
mariend
16 years ago
Sending those hugs and prayers. My DH is on Chemo every other month now to keep his under remission. His is in the lympth glands and seem to be shrinking. He too has a positive attitude, and the dr says that really helps.
Good luck
marie
minnie_tx
16 years ago
I hope you got my Christmas Card!!

hugs
maryanntx
Original Author
16 years ago
Minnie, I did get your card and loved it! For several years I have planned on making some like it, but I think I need to buy several boxes after Christmas so that I can use some to cup up.
It was really neat!
roseluver
16 years ago
Mary Ann, I am a 15 yr. cancer survivor. I know only to well what you will be going through. I had chemo and radiation for three months. I only had a 45 minute commute each day and drove myself. Like several others have said keep a positive attitude that is half of the battle. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and do keep us posted.
User
16 years ago
Maryann I'm sending you my prayers and best wishes to get through this! My friend across the street is now going through a second bought of cancer - it's hard but just keep thinking we are all here pulling for you and wishing you a speedy recovery! I love reading your posts. If you have a tired moment ahead of you I'll understand.
LOL and ((((((((((((((((Maryann)))))))))))))))))))))
Peggy
maybee_gw
16 years ago
My thoughts, too, are with you. I'm not sure how I would feel about that drive...I'm thinking with some good music on the radio or some good CD's it wouldn't be so bad. You might think about going to the library and getting some books on CD to listen to while you are on the road.
grittymitts
16 years ago
With such a tremendous outlook, you're surely on the road to win this battle! Prayers being lifted from the piney woods of far N. E. Tx.

Suzi

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