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Mary Ann's funeral

14 years ago

I am a good friend of Mary Ann's. We have kids the same age and because of their bond we formed a tight bond as well. We formed THE BREAKFAST CLUB and met every Thursday morning for coffee. I knew she was in a discussion group so I found it and saw all the wonderful comments about her. It comforted me to read your kind words. She talked to me quite often about her discussion group and many times when I needed an opinion on something she would say "I'll ask my discussion group". This group meant alot to her. Her service was today. She looked beautiful and wore a beautiful green jacket ensemble with an angel pin attached. She also had a bookmark in her hand, pictures of her grandchildren and the infamous troll doll CHEMO SABE in the casket with her. The song they played was I HOPE YOU DANCE by Lee Ann Womack. One of her childhood friends played the piano and sang AMAZING GRACE and HIS EYE IS ON THE SPARROW. The message reminded us that we will one day see her again and she is cancer free and her work on earth is complete so the Lord called her home. I miss her and I want to call her and ask her advice like I have so many times before but this time I would ask her "how do I go on without you"? I saw her last on Thursday before she joined Heaven on Tuesday. She was still insisting she was fine but I could tell she was tired. I feel she was ready for her new beginning on the other side and for her I am rejoicing. The flowers at her service were numerous and lovely. She touched everyone who ever knew her. Thank you for allowing me to write on your forum about her. She is and always will be MY HERO!

Comments (31)

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you and our prayers are with her family and friends. Please feel free to join us and keep in touch.
    Marie from ND

  • 14 years ago

    Mary Ann was special to all of us.

    My thoughts, today, were of Mary Ann, and I apprecite your sharing the service with us.

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you for sharing details of her service. I almost feel like I was able to be there.

    Please join us again.

  • 14 years ago

    It was so nice of you to come here to tell us about MaryAnn's service. She was a special lady. Please join us here at the Kitchen Table.

    Linda

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you Lisa. thank you so much.

    ((((Lisa)))))

    we heard so much about the breakfast club and how
    she enjoyed meeting with all her friends every week.

  • 14 years ago

    Oh, how sweet of you to search us out and tell us all that, thank you so much, Lisa.

    You were so lucky to have been a good, close friend of MaryAnn's, and she was very lucky to have you, too. It's obvious how much you care about her and her family.

    I hope her family and friends are able to remember all the good times and use those memories to help deal with the pain and the loss of such a dear sweet person. Hugs to all of you, Lisa.

    Jenni in CA will be touched to hear that Chemo Sabe was with MaryAnn through all of this. She made her for MaryAnn. And the bookmark was very apropos, too, being such an avid reader.

    *sniff*

  • 14 years ago

    Yes thank you for sharing .I am so sorry for your pain .

  • 14 years ago

    Lisa,
    Thank you so much for the news of the service. Mary Ann often spoke of the breakfast club and what I remember most was that she often said "we laughed and laughed". There was a lot of joy and friendship in her life.
    Mary Ann will be deeply missed.
    Please consider joining us. Any friend of Mary Ann's is certainly someone I'd like to hear more from!
    Gardenspice

  • 14 years ago

    How kind of you to take the time to find us and give us some details of Mary Ann's funeral. She really was a special lady and the two of you obviously shared a close friendship. Thank you and I'm sorry you have lost a good friend.

  • 14 years ago

    Oh, Lisa, thank you so much for finding our forum and sharing all of the details of the service with us. I had the pleasure of meeting Mary Ann and Jesse several times and my DH and I had the added pleasure of getting to ride motorcycles with the two of them in Eureka Springs, AR.

    She spoke often of her friends in the Breakfast Club and I know she will be dearly missed there as well as at the KT.

    Good, healing thoughts going out to all of her Texas friends.

  • 14 years ago

    So very sweet of you Lisa to "talk" with us today. It means so much.

    Thank you and you're welcome here any time.

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you for sharing. Although many of us have never met, we cherish our online friends.

    Praying for all of those who loved MaryAnn.

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us, Lisa. Mary Ann was such a special person. When I think of her, and think of the challenges I cannot remember Mary Ann every complaining or ever saying an unkind word. She left a mark on this world, and it is a beauty mark.

  • 14 years ago

    Lisa thank you so much for sharing this with us. Thank you also for the wonderful email about Chemo Sabe going on this journey with her. I am very touched and very very proud that something I made for her meant so much.
    She was a very special lady and will be so missed by so many.
    My hearts is heavy with hurt but I am grateful that MaryAnn is at rest.
    May God bless her and take care of her

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you Lisa, it sounds like it was a wonderful celebration of MaryAnn's life.

  • 14 years ago

    (((Lisa)))
    Thank you for posting.

    You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    Charlotte

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you all for your kind acceptance of my posting on your forum and I am glad my post was warmly accepted by you all. I appreciate your kind words back to me also. I know Mary Ann would have wanted me to share this day with yall and to be her voice to let jenni ca know that CHEMO SABE was a tresured item and to let yall know how truly special each and every one of you were to her. In writing about her and reading your posts it has helped ease some of my sadness because I feel as if I am among friends here. Thanks for all the invites to join in your discussions and I like to think Mary Ann orchestrated this whole thing with me finding her on-line friends! She was good at things like that. I am not sure I understand all about this forum stuff but I sure want to learn. I am sure it will be fun as I know she enjoyed it very much and in a sense it will help me still feel connected in someway to her. I would love to share some stories about her with yall if you're interested and I would love to hear yours as well. What was her name on here? Is there a way to find things she wrote on here?

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you for sharing this with us. What a wonderful friend you are. I did not know Mary Ann very well. Just what I read here on her posts. But I did very quickly learn that she was a very courageous lady who was always upbeat and treasured her friends and family.
    I am sure we would all be very happy if you visited here as one of the KT. I'll move my chair over a little so that you can sit next to Mary Ann's and share some stories.

  • 14 years ago

    Oh my Lisa, I'm so happy you found us. Thank you for sharing with us the funeral service. I love that she has a bookmark with her. She and I shared a love for the same kind of books.

    Mary Ann's user name here was MaryAnnTX.

    I too will miss our KT friend terribly.

    Jodi-

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you Lisa for filling us in on the beautiful service that was held for MaryAnn, that was very sweet of you to do that. I know how difficult it must be for you to lose a very dear friend.
    At the top of this page in the little slot followed by the word 'search' I typed in MaryAnn TX and came up with some of the posts she had responded to. The forum at that time was called the the garden and flower craft forum. The posts I read dated back 2004 and 2002.
    Maybe some of the others have more info for finding her older posts. I just did it to see what would appear.She commented on painting rocks, and grapevine wreaths.

    June

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you Lisa for filling us in. Mary Ann was special to all of us. The Kitchen Table dates back probably close to 20 years now, if not over 20 years. Some of us have been here since the very beginning. Many of us have met other KTers in person. There have been some very special gatherings over the years. Many laughs and tears and oh the stories we could tell you. JoAnn has made a website to try and capture some of our special moments so that we don't lose those memories. Please feel free to check this link to learn more about us.

    Here is a link that might be useful: KT Gathering Place

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you Lisa for finding us and sharing. My heart, as many other's here still finds this all so hard to believe. I feel very blessed to have known MaryAnn. She touched so many lives with her sweetness and kindness. I know we will never forget her.

  • 14 years ago

    Lisa, you probably already know about MaryAnn's website, but here's the link-

    This is from the get-together in Iowa in 2003. There are some funny photos and stories, we had so much fun. MaryAnn and Jesse drove up in her snazzy black car. YaYa was hobbling around with a broken ankle and strong men like Jesse (we call him Jammer) came in VERY handy!

    Here is a link that might be useful: The Iowa Contingent...

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you so much for sharing about her services. And please feel free to share any MaryAnn stories you have. I never had the honor of meeting her but still felt a kinship through the KT.

    Shirley

  • 14 years ago

    Thank you, Lisa for sharing with us.

    Please join us.

    Ron

  • 14 years ago

    We appreciate your taking the time to find us and let us know about the how beautiful MaryAnn looked and the details about the service. As someone said, your description was as if we were there. Thank you for that.

    Some of my favorite memories of MaryAnn was in the early days when she joined the forum, I was talking about finding a new make-up and there was a long discussion about it. She sent me a 4 in. paint brush and some spackle, lolol.

    I had the pleasure of meeting her at one of the get togethers and she was the same sweet lady that I'd gotten to know online.

    We shared something in common which isn't fortunate for either of us. We both have had cancer and we exchanged emails and cards quite often, both of which always made my day.

    Again, thank you for thinking about us. It means a lot. She was a very special lady who will be missed very much.

    Gale-TX

  • 14 years ago

    Flamey, thanks for posting that link for Lisa. I had to revisit and thoroughly enjoyed each page. Got to save it to my Favorites again on this new computer. :)

    Even though I had smiles, I also had tears seeing how many have left empty chairs since that get together. ;(

    Missing Mary Ann and so many today.

  • 14 years ago

    Oh I was out of the loop and just found out that she passed. My condolences to you and for her family. Lost my mom in June and know the pain that cancer causes.
    Hugs and thanks so much for sharing..she will be dearly missed.
    Kathy

  • 14 years ago

    Lisa, Thank you for taking the time to post. Although I never 'met' Mary Ann, your description of her service and obvious love for her make it readily apparent why so many felt about her the way you do.
    Welcome to the KT!

  • 14 years ago

    Lisa...thank you for finding us and telling us about Mary Ann's funeral...I haven't shed a tear until today cause I've been fighting it...it just didn't seem real to me that the lovely woman I met 7 years ago is gone...and to that damned cancer...it's taken to many people I love and MaryAnn was one of them...well I can barely see to type...you made it all so real...but in a good way...I know you'll miss her cause I sure will...

    Come back and join us...we're always looking for new peeps to fill the chairs around our table!!

  • 14 years ago

    Lisa, I didn't know Mary Ann, but after reading your post I wish I had gotten to know her. What a wonderful friend you must have been to her. She was probably so thankful for such a person in her life. Your post touched me deeply and brought tears to my eyes. God Bless You!!

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