Oh Jeanne, how thoughtful of you to think of our son! His unit was deployed to Afghanistan last weekend and it's been very tough for me. Just yesterday we heard that four more brave soldiers had been killed over there and instantly we've leap-frogged into an entirely new kind of life, along with every other parent, family and friend of a service person over there ~ waiting now to find out if our own loved one is ok. If you haven't seen my thread over on the Decorating forum, I'm adding the link below. Last week DH & I won first prize in a local raffle. It was a sports car. We needed to be at a big presentation in the park on Sunday to receive it. This was part of the Blue Star Mothers & Gold Star Mothers event to honor service men and women, and veterans. We ended up donating the car to the Gold Star Mother's building fund, which is an incredibly worthy and much needed thing. You might want to check out the info on it in my (below) thread. Anyhoo, thanks for your kind thoughts and prayers. Lynn "Lynn's Thread on Decorating forum"

The best news,just as we all hoped! Dexascan is a piece of cake - I used to do them when I worked in the Rheumatology office. Bone-building drugs may be prescribed, but they work slowly, so 6 weeks one way or the other won't make a huge difference. There are lots of reasons you can have osteopenia or osteoporosis - drug therapies, both chemo and steroids, being too thin (being under 127 pounds is a marker for risk), family history, early menopause, low calcium and Vitamin D, and the list goes on. For now, take care of yourself, be a good girl and do what the docs tell you to do. We'll all be here, thinking of you and cheering you on until those crutches are tucked away in the closet.

I hope she gets the care she needs. It's very scary as a parent to hear these stories. Even if your kid isn't on the social media, the other kids are and "talking" behind her back and she knows something is going on. Schools need to stiffen the penalties for cyber-bullying as much as physical bullying - I don't know, maybe the state has to get involved, if it takes charging kids with a misdemeanor, or issuing restraining orders to prevent driving another kid to suicide then that's what it takes! DS is 15, has always been a thoughtful, sensitive, private kid with a few close friends, not into the "popular" activities but seems to be happy, is definitely busy with Scouts, track, and church. I don't know what other kids may be saying about him, but at least he doesn't know either - or doesn't care. He is going to camp counselor training in a few weeks, and then to National Youth Leadership training for Scouts, hopefully next summer he will get a job at the Scout camp. OK, I'm bragging I guess but I think he's a good role model, and I *think* he's not at risk for depression. DD is 5 years younger and starting puberty - she has 2 very close friends, and watching others coming up to her after school concert she seems to be "popular" but again doesn't have the same interests as many her age (she's also almost a year older than everyone else in her grade, both kids are Nov birthdays and we decided to start DD later than DS since he had been in daycare/preschool and was an early reader, she was a late talker/potty trainer). She's more sensitive to peer pressure - I suppose girls usually are? I wouldn't pull her out to HS unless I thought there was a serious problem, I want to wait to see if she keeps/makes friends in middle school. I hope that keeping her in Scouts will help - if the leaders can keep a group of girls aware of the problems that bullying can cause, and keep them believing in their own value in spite of other people (peers, even some siblings and parents I know of) telling them otherwise. Girl Scouts just doesn't seem to be as organized as Boy Scouts though, and not too many girls seem to keep up with it through middle and high school, from what I can tell by the size of the troops in our town. But "mean girls" start early - DD ran into one her first day of kindergarten. Add a mean teacher, and in 1st grade she was begging me to HS her! At least 2nd - 4th she has regained her love of school, is actually disappointed to have only a few days left this year.

Hi Veta, It was caught early. Some tumours were found a couple years ago during an examination, and he had them removed. During his 3-month examinations, they were found again, in fairly quick succession, a few more times. More surgery to remove them. His doctor suggested the bladder removal, since they keep coming back, and quickly. He sent Wally to a specialist, for a second opinion. He agreed, and said that his bladder looks "very angry". He was scheduled for this surgery, and got 'er done.