How tragic, Stacy. Will you be going to the court, too? I hope that Lee doesn't know where Stacy is. I do imagine that her parental rights will soon be terminated, as well, and I'm so, so sorry for you and the children. But - as you know, Kasey has chosen this lifestyle for herself. I'm not saying she's a bad person. She's made bad decisions and her children have suffered for it. I hope that they're doing as well as can be expected in foster care. I applaud you for your "tough love" when she didn't come home (to your home) the other night. You stood up against enabling her; good for you. Keep us posted; we're pulling for you. Suzieque

She has taken a big step Stacy and can only go up from here! I will keep her and those babies in my prayers,and you too.I know how hard it is on us moms when our kids are hurting.Looking forward to lots of pictures.I'll bet those little ones have really grown.Did they ever figure out what was wrong with the baby?

I am hoping she does I think the whole wide world is saying prayers......she told me again today mom I am doing it this time (course how many times int he last 12 yrs have I heard this) but never has she gone this far...I am so proud of her......I pray that rehab bed gets open sooo soon becuz that will just makeher taht much stronger!!!! Thanks again everyone.....when I find out the charges for sure I will post them! Stacy

My heart goes out to you in your moments of despair which is totally understandable when you look around and see so many with their children on the right path. Know that you're not alone, go to Al-Anon please. Addicts are just people who can't stop doing what they do. We can relate to them if we think of giving up foods we love or cigarettes or coffee etc. It's not easy and it's not because we're weak, it's because the yearning is ruling our brain. I will pray that your Kasey can find the strength to realize that she's on the road to losing more than just her children. In the meantime you need to surrender to God. Know that He is on your side. Do what you can to make yourself accept and realize you had no part in her addiction, it was just a very bad choice that has it's grip on her. Way down inside her, she yearns to stop but the drugs rule. Say your prayers and then just let it be. You're a good woman and she knows it. She loves you but the drugs are making her love them over others. In time I feel she'll recover. God bless you and your husband.