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Thursday Update

16 years ago

Good morning...

I read through everyones messages yesterday and wanted to thank you for all your support!

I do need to clarify though....Megan signed away her rights to the girls, and the dads (there are 2) have no rights either they signed their rights away at birth or shortly after.

So right now we are the girls legal guardians which is different than adoption....I am sorry...I was confused about that too. We got a phone call from our lawyer saying everything was legal and I took that to mean final...things won't be final until March. Sorry that was my fault.

I talked with our lawyer this morning because after we read through everything even thought it made sense to DH..I thought it meant it was final.

Either way since Megan signed away her rights she can not come back after the girls. Which is what mattered to me.

I also spoke with her about using names and details on this website and she said it wasn't an issue. I printed everything off and she stated that there was nothing I or anyone else had posted that would "hurt" us if it was taken to court.

I am no longer posting anything of Facebook because I know Megan is on Facebook but I really doubt she even knows about this. I think if she knew about this site we would ALL know she was here.

School starts on August 30. We are on the count down at our house. We will be taking Tanna to and from school until we feel it is safe for her to ride the bus.

Comments (121)

  • 16 years ago

    Chemocurl, you're better than this.

  • 16 years ago

    They just seem immature to me.

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  • 16 years ago

    I'm not quite sure what Chemocurl's problem is. At least she stopped ruining the threads by posting those white font zzzzzzz's that scrolled the threads over. Stupid.

    As for photos - they prove nothing. Remember how Tahni used to post photos of her "niece" wearing outfits people had sent her? Turned out to be her next door neighbor's kid.

    Well, just as a reminder to all who think questioning things on the internet is just not nice, here's an interesting read.

    Just saying.

    Here is a link that might be useful: Faking Stories on the Internet

  • 16 years ago

    Thumbs up Susan!

    Thumbs up to you too Tally. I knew there was a name for this.

  • 16 years ago

    Fragrant Rose

    {{gwi:10757}}

  • 16 years ago

    There is a name for this, and it is definitely a possibility on any message board. I've seen it many times.

    Just because people question a story doesn't make them mean. The balance is always the risk you'll hurt an innocent person (remember the witch hunt over the anonymous e-mail to RedClayGirl and the accusations towards a totally innocent poster who hadn't been on the board for years?)

    It's a tough line to tow, but believing everything without critical reasoning may be just as hurtful in the long run.

  • 16 years ago

    Tripartite

    {{gwi:10744}}

  • 16 years ago

    Replete

  • 16 years ago

    Pink Charm

  • 16 years ago

    I've thought of RedClayGirl often Tally. I remember the uproar well but darned if I remember the rest. LOL CRS ya know.
    Your last sentence is so true. I see quite a few people that were warning of sharing too much information online are now in a uproar. Lots of people can be hurt in different ways with this.

  • 16 years ago

    Bravo, Tally and Susan. Thank you for being resonable.

    Chemocurl... some awesome pictures.

  • 16 years ago

    Wabash

  • 16 years ago

    Eyes for You

  • 16 years ago

    I'm hoping everything she posted is true,there some lucky little girls if so. There has been others that have posted on here that we have asked addresses for so we could send a little something to help out. With three little girls coming in so quick and having not being prepared you would have thought she would have been glad to receive a little something from the ones willing to send it. Other then the fact you would then have her real name and address and maybe this is what she didn't want us to know. If this is all true i'm so happy for the children if it's not i'm sad she had to make the story up.

  • 16 years ago

    Actually chemocurl's photos annoy me more - she obviously doesn't care about anyone with dial up.

  • 16 years ago

    She's spamming and trying to suppress the discussion by burying people's comments.

    The highest form of Forum policeing.

    No, clearly she doesn't care about you or anyone else for that matter.

  • 16 years ago

    I posted these comments on another thread and have no responses....how come? If I were FW I'd be emailing my supporters like crazy....crying my eyes out. If she's not corresponding with any of you...well, that tells me something, too.
    (Chemocurl....you're behavior is infantile.)

    "I got a dollar that says she isn't corresponding with anyone. Am I wrong?"

    "I have an idea. FW....I know you're reading this...so, since noone seems to be able to email you (?), why don't you skim thru these posts and start sending your daily updates to the interested readers who are waiting with bated breath? You really shouldn't disappoint them, no?"

  • 16 years ago

    I don't see anybody DEMANDING legal documents, do you? I just suggested an innocuous, boiler-plate, alternative that would present clearly the very existence of those three little girls, rather than them being at this point, well, three puffs of smoke, AND I just said that's what I'D DO...for a great ha-ha moment. AND if there's any pedophile-porno people out there, desperately lurking for those "little girl pictures" that some people are suggesting be posted, they'd be bored out of their gourd & move on. Kill two birds with one stone, so to speak.

  • 16 years ago

    I'll repeat my posts as well above since Chemocurl tried to bury them, especially regarding posting pictures:

    "As for photos - they prove nothing. Remember how Tahni used to post photos of her "niece" wearing outfits people had sent her? Turned out to be her next door neighbor's kid.

    Just because people question a story doesn't make them mean. The balance is always the risk you'll hurt an innocent person (remember the witch hunt over the anonymous e-mail to RedClayGirl and the accusations towards a totally innocent poster who hadn't been on the board for years?)

    It's a tough line to tow, but believing everything without critical reasoning may be just as hurtful in the long run.

    Well, just as a reminder to all who think questioning things on the internet is just not nice, here's an interesting read...

    (Disclaimer: I am not suggesting anyone here is doing this, but it never hurts for people to be aware of the possibility)


    Here is a link that might be useful: New York Times 1998: Faking in Internet Groups

  • 16 years ago

    (Chemocurl....you're behavior is infantile.)
    Thank you...if you are attacking me maybe the other attacks will stop

  • 16 years ago

    zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

  • 16 years ago

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  • 16 years ago

    What a childish display. If I had a kid in my house that acted like this Chemocurl, I would send them to their room to continue their tantrum in private. They are always allowed, but should be done where no one else has to see them.

  • 16 years ago

    one more down

  • 16 years ago

    Don't respond to her. She thinks she's being noble.

  • 16 years ago

    I assume the spamming is to either fill the allotted amount of responses or to get the entire thread deleted.

    You'd be better off letting people have their say and letting the thread die naturally then angering people even more and having multiple threads pop up, which will happen if the thread is removed or filled up with nonsense. People have the right to their opinions and posting pictures of flowers and random text won't change or stop that. It just makes more work for you.

    I would hope you have better things to do on this beautiful weekend.

  • 16 years ago

    She thinks she's being noble.
    At least all the attacks have stopped, except for those directed at me

  • 16 years ago

    The funny thing is that if this thread reaches 150, we can always start another. RFLMAO.

  • 16 years ago

    Hmmm, passive-aggressive much?

  • 16 years ago

    Boy Chemocurl, talk about losing respect and credibility!

    You have certainly accomplished that.

  • 16 years ago

    keep the attacks coming...let's sink this ship

  • 16 years ago

    The funny thing is that if this thread reaches 150, we can always start another. RFLMAO.
    Exactly

  • 16 years ago

    Chemocurl

    What makes you the forum police? You don't like what is being said here then do what you and others have been preaching SOB

  • 16 years ago

    As a former dial-up user, I really feel sorry for others who have it when something like this happens. Gifs, jpegs, all that inane nonsense just ruins it for them.

    Of course, purposely bumping a topic is against the rules, as I'm sure we all know.

  • 16 years ago

    What makes you the forum police? You don't like what is being said here then do what you and others have been preaching SOB
    I thought the forum police whined to the powers that be and got threads pulled...my mistake I guess.

  • 16 years ago

    Of course, purposely bumping a topic is against the rules, as I'm sure we all know.
    Yes, and a lot of name calling that went on, was also against the rules too...Keep 'em coming

  • 16 years ago

    Thanks Tally for posting that NY Times article.

    A few years ago, I came upon a well-known "health guru"---now dead but his books & products live on---who was clearly in the "duping delight business" as Dr. Feldman so well put it. And that's what originally got me into genealogy, and then doing volunteer searching for out of area residents with local ancestors, after learning the ropes with that guy.

  • 16 years ago

    "But don't ask others to scroll on by without comment.)Why not? Why can't one just read something and SOB without making a comment? Some people just like to stir the pot.LOL

    "Did you really believe the kids grew so fast they outgrew their clothes in a month?"
    UUUUh,yeah!We have twins and they have been known to outgrow a lot of clothes in a month's time.Not unusual at all!And,if these children were under fed and under nourished I can definitely see that happening.Kisa have rowth spurts where their shoe size will change over a period of a few weeks.If you have kids you would know that!Not something that should send up any red flags IMHO!

  • 16 years ago

    Not something that should send up any red flags IMHO!

    I so agree!

  • 16 years ago

    There's a pattern here, CC. When you like something that's posted, you let us see your positive response. When you don't like something you post cr@p. If that's not policing, then I don't know what you'd call it. You really should get over yourself.

  • 16 years ago

    It's not so much the validity of single incidents, but rather the overwhelming number of amazing occurrences within a short time frame that is causing the skepticism.

  • 16 years ago

    You really should get over yourself.
    Thank you.

  • 16 years ago

    I'm still waiting for someone to say here or email me that FW has poured her heart out to them. No response? No comment?

  • 16 years ago

    I'm still waiting for someone to say here or email me that FW has poured her heart out to them.
    Why would she email anyone and pour her heart out after all this? Sheesh...

  • 16 years ago

    Sheesh, CC...think about it, will ya? If I enjoyed telling people every little detail of my day...day in and day out...I'd be emailing people thanking them for their support. I'd say screw the doubters and either keep posting here or send updates to the people who are really interested in following the story. Just disappearing is not logical since alot more people believe her than not. Believe it or not, this not the "KT According to CC".

  • 16 years ago

    I see I was wrong. Chemocurl, you're not better than this behavior, after all.

  • 16 years ago

    Believe it or not, this not the "KT According to CC".
    LMAO...Ok...whatever..................

    .I'd be emailing people thanking them for their support.
    Like a new mom of 3 has all the time in the world to do that...sheesh.

    I really don't blame her for not posting or for being in touch with anyone here...she owes no one anything.

  • 16 years ago

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  • 16 years ago

    Bye bye for a while. I'm going back to bed.