What was I thinking--light sofa and grandkids!!!
Lisa Hayes
12 years ago
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Comments (60)This is a great thread! Years ago, when our oldest son was only 2 1/2, we were looking out his open bedroom window, watching our downstairs neighbour wash his van in the driveway below. As the neighbour was finishing up, our son yelled down to him, "Sandy, your forgot to wash the roof!" Sandy replied "Oh, that's okay, I don't have to look at the roof" Son responded, "Well, I do!" A couple of years ago, my DH was making homemade pizza with our two young grandsons, aged 3 and 5. While he was stretching the dough, his hands covered in flour, he playfully touched the nose of the youngest grandson. The older grandson looked on horrified at what grampa had done to his little brother, so grampa asked if he would like flour on his nose, too. Older grandson backed away, spread his hands, and exclaimed "what is WRONG with you!" Another time, my DH was getting ready to go over to our oldest sons' house. He came in to the room wearing a rather odd looking fake suede vest over his shirt, that he had bought himself years ago. I mentioned that it made him look a bit like a cowboy in it. He didn't agree, and thought he looked quite dapper. Shortly after arriving at our sons house, four year old grandson entered the room, and asked "Grampa? Where's your horse?" And other one, out of the mouth of our oldest son. When he was four years old, he was hospitalized with idiopathic thrombocytopenic purpura, and had to have daily bloodwork to test his platelet counts. On about the sixth day of this, he marched up the nursing station and stated quite forcefully to his doctor that was sitting at the desk writing in a chart, "I am going home today and I don't care WHAT my bloodwork says!" Fortunately, his results were finally good, and he did come home that day....See MoreDesign for Empty Nest Home that "Expands" for 5 kids with grandkids
Comments (44)You would still have much empty space behind these doors. That is almost a little creepy to have that much space that sits empty under your roof...like a deserted hotel. Whether your house is big with a lot of out buildings or big with a lot of unused rooms, it adds up to being a lot to maintain and have it empty most of the time. It is almost a little sad and a little creepy. Two empty nesters waiting with a big house for all the kids and grandkids to come..... Realistically, for most people, they are not going to all come that often. They have their own life, careers, friends, other side of the family, etc. Maybe you should save your resources and use them to go and visit the kids and grandkids at their house and maybe have a rented place once or twice a year for a big family vacation. Otherwise, you are going to be two people living in a big empty house. Retire and travel and maybe take a kid or two with you, for experiences with grandma and grandpa. If you have a place that they all are expected to come to every time ,they may get to resent it because maybe they really wanted to go somewhere else or do something else. yet they have that obligation to you because you went and built that big house.......... and they are expected to do that, every holiday. As the grandkids get older they will have other areas of interest outside of the family and other obligations to school programs, sports, camps, etc. And, don't forget that you will be getting older, too. Life will change for you too. You might want to rethink saddling yourself to the commitment of a large piece of property that requires attention as you retire. Instead of anchoring yourself and your family there......go places with them and without them. You might find that the family memories that you create at the rented beach house with all of the cousins, aunts, uncles, etc. may turn out to be richer memories than of everybody dutifully gathering around a 30 pound turkey at the holidays at grandma and grandpas. Plan a vacation at Disney, or take a couple of the older ones on a trip to Spain, or arrange a ski vacation with them...whatever your means allow or your inclinations are. You could, maybe, consider retiring to some place that has some amenities and attraction so that there is something to do when any do come to visit, and maybe you only need a more reasonable sized house for a smaller crowd....See MoreAm I petty what do I do with the couch pillows?
Comments (34)I have to wear supportive footwear due to arthritis in my feet. I never go barefoot. Well, maybe for a few steps on the beach. Anyway, I live on a farm with lots of animals (and don’t have severe diarrhea despite the bacteria). I have farm shoes in the mud room, so change my footwear to do chores. But if either my husband or I are working outside and need to dash into the kitchen for a drink, we do so without removing shoes. It’s a tile floor that gets quick mopped a couple times a week (swiffer wet is awesome for this task). The whole “no shoes in the house” is just silly, as is the habit of allowing pets on the furniture and in beds. WRT the original question, dogs are much easier to train than men, so decide whether or not you are going to trade your relationship for a couple of pillows. Which do you value more?...See MoreI ordered my sofas today
Comments (14)Love your colors. My office needs an update and I especially like your carpet choice. But also the teal sample, the pattern.... I made the mistake of putting a television and mans chair in here so DH could watch TV and not be at the other end of the house if I was working evenings. Lots of his friends will dash in the back door to check sports scores when I wouldn't necessary have sports on behind me. And - the carpet in this room was white. Notice I said was. Desperately needs to be replaced, it's no longer coming clean and I really can't banish his friends. I agree it would be lovely if you could arrange to have all in place when you return next Fall....See Morepps7
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