TOS's exH
ceph
15 years ago
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TOS, I have a couple of questions about your ex.
I understand that he was a great dad when your kids were small, but I'm wondering when that stopped/slowed. Was it when his depression hit, or after you two split up?
How old was he when you two had your first child? How old was he when your guys split? How old was TOW? (Just trying to get a clearer picture of him and his parenting turned lack-of)
And I'm wondering one thing about you, again not any sort of attack, just wondering.
You tell us quite often about how he used to be a wonderful father, but do you tell your kids that?
I ask because I know you tell your kids he is a (this is my paraphrase, not your words) "foul adulterer who willfully destroyed our family"... So I just worry they're getting a one-sided skew of the person he is and that they have made their decision to not be involved without the whole story.
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