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Have you found help from any agencies/organizations?

20 years ago

We have been going through some rough and trying times with our son (my ss). We have tried many times to get help, and we have failed. Private counseling (group, family & individual) and trying (struggling) to work with the school to get him better services and even placement in another more individualized facility, has failed. What do you do with a kid that is willful, impulsive, short sighted and oppositional? Who simply chooses not to do the things expected of him and live by the morals and values that society operates by? (rhetorical questions)

My big question is, has anyone found any organizations that provide support and guidance in dealing with troubled/difficult kids? I am just curious. I have found that other parents are not interested in discussing what is going on, and when they do, they donÂt know how to handle it. ArenÂt there any professionals that can give guidance on an educational, social and individual basis? I can really see that there is a need for this service in the community.

The only person responsible for your child is you. The Schools are ONLYresponsible to provide an education. If the kids behavior affects his/her ability to learn, you have a leg up and can fight the school for services. But the Schools are not going to willingly help, because they donÂt want to pay for additional services. There are "Child Advocate" organizations, legal services on a sliding scale, to help fight the school. But if your child does not qualify for educational assistance, where do you go then? How do you find leads on programs/services to help your child?

Our school system has a growing number of ADHD/ODD kids that are quickly falling through the cracks because they donÂt/wonÂt provide services or have plan on how to deal with them. Something needs to be done. The schools have, see and work with our kids for 30 hours a week. If there is a problem, they have the most contact with the kids to see it, and work with the parents to help the kids. (I am not saying that it is the Schools responsibility to handle/resolve problem students, but I do think that they have a responsibility to be more forthright in assisting the parents on getting the help they need.)

Please, If you have taken the time to read this, pls give me a note. I really want to know what other parents/relatives are thinking.

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