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I think I Like Mom Better...

19 years ago

So because this forum can get so charged with really heavy discussions, here is a light story that happened to me one day in the car that I thought I would share.

One day, I was in the car with my two younger stepchildren. After my middle step-child had pushed all the buttons of the world (he talks back like no other!), I told him that as soon as we were going home, he was going straight in time-out. You know what he said?

"No offense, but I like mom better"

I just about died giggling. His timing couldn't have been more precious. I'd say I like mom more too if I had to go in a time-out! But my response had nothing to do with that. Instead I said, "ABSOLUTELY. Your mother will always have a place in your heart that nobody is ever going have. Mothers are very special..." The youngest chimed in saying that mothers are always loved more no matter what even if you loved someone else, and I reinforced that too, that you couldn't even draw a comparison or needed to because moms are just special that way. I told them how I LOVE my step-mom but that my mother, even though she has been gone for so many years, still occupies that slice in my heart that is only made for her.

And then the day went on. The little guy went an did his time-out, we had all the activities happen as they normally do... but at night, he came up to me, sat in my lap and threw his arms around me, "I love you" and gave me a big kiss. "Oh, I love you too, little man!". Nothing else was said, but I am sure that that burst of affection was a direct response to the conversation we had had earlier.

I think it's so hard for children really to understand their allegiances, as if loving one person makes you love the other less. But by having that conversation, it nearly made it OK for him to accept that he loves his mommy like no other, even if he loves me a little bit too! You know what I mean?

That's all for today. I just wanted to share this story because it makes me smile every time.

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