Seller lying about death in house?
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Comments (16)I'm not a diplomat I always get in trouble when I go do the UN thing.......... pack of...........diplomats! Yuck! I did however pass one of these people on the street a week ago and we nodded 1st time in 5 years. She asked me to co sign a loan and I was a bout to side step it but hit the iceberg head on. I knew she was in a 12 step program for debting and whe she said why would'nt I co sign this loan I told her my train of thought could only infurriate her. Go ahead try me "well I know your a recovering alcoholic and drug addict and If you asked me to score some heroin for you and pick up a six pack on the way to your house I would aslo have to refuse! So I can't be part of your debting! This person got me my current job and garden spot heavy load! This person owes the world and was divorced when she dragged her husband into her chaotic finances! A polite nod is as far as I want to go!...See MoreHow do you question CL sellers about their furniture?
Comments (7)The more you look on CL, the more you see the same thing bought because it was cheap- and that eliminates most of the stuff on CL for me. I only consider the piece when it is different and that indicates more of a chance of quality. I also mostly look and buy vintage wood pieces which no one wants because they aren't PB or RH. The older pieces are better made. And the prices are good. And I have recently found some lovely newer upholstered or older reupholstered pieces but the wrong color for me. Looking at CL is a hunt and a gamble- I found a lovely looking dining set with gorgeous chippendale chairs in a lovely looking room in the photo. The house was beautiful the people couldn't have been nicer, but the chairs had been abused by their young children and would have taken too much work and they were not old and were not worth the time. That was a 60 mile round trip. We enjoyed the drive though! Now that being said, a cheap set as long as it's clean or cleanable and/or paintable and can be tightened if wobbly in my mind is perfect for a first apt. I never ever consider buying anything from a photo with a messy dirty looking background living space- but a messy garage or storage unit is ok. And I usually don't travel more than 20 miles. Which doesn't get me very far to the other side of town. So for the right piece I will travel more especially since gas prices are down....See Morejinxed about buying a home
Comments (20)dlynn Just want to clear up a few issues on Brain cancer. It does not always "take time to even know what type of brain cancer he has or if he has options or is terminal" as was quoted above. Things usually move rather rapidly on this kind of diagnosis, especially after someone collapses at work and is referred to MD Anderson. I lost my eyesight in a matter of a few hours one day a few years ago. Within a week I had an MRI, was diagnosed with 2 primary brain tumors and had surgery to remove the larger one encompassing my carotid artery What I meant was that it doesn't happen over-night. With my dad, they didn't speak the word cancer for 3 or 4 days, but he didn't have an exact diagnosis for close to a week. With the adult brain cancer - it was mentioned, but they weren't sure. It was weeks before he was seen. I'm not familiar with either hospital they took their son to, so I don't know if they're able to diagnose a brain tumor as cancer from an ER visit. I'm glad that you made it through and are alive to speak about it. You were very lucky. their adult son collapsed at work yesterday and they were at hospital w/him all last night. Diagnosis: brain cancer. They are taking him to M.D. Anderson in Houston ASAP and just want to pull the house off the market... dlynn--your post says your diagnosis happened "within a week" which I think proves part of what I said--that it is not likely they knew from an emergency room overnight stay that their son has brain cancer--I am pretty sure no biopsy was done and I doubt a cancer specialist was on-call that night. If a mass was seen in r-ray or MRI, they are probably going to MD Anderson to have tests done to tell what kind of tumor/mass/ it is--whether or not it is malignant, what the treatment/prognosis is...it took more than a week for our son's biopsy to be diagnosed properly as Hidgkin's disease and not non-Hodgkin's lymphoma or another disease. I would think they probably did an MRI and saw some thing; were told there was a mass and that they'd need to go to the cancer center to follow up on whether it is benign or malignant. And it is very likely that due to the unknown nature of the illness of their son, they may want to reevaluate their decision about selling, moving to apartment, and having home built. This is probably true. Since they don't know about the tumor, they want to focus on their son. Who knows if this son has a history with tumors to begin with. At this point in time (and I know few would agree with where I am coming from) I think we are being played by them and their realtor (and maybe ours too)--to get out of the contract. Why--don't really know...maybe because they are hedging their bets, or got a better offer, maybe because they did not want US to get the house--my realtor was just a little too perky when she called to tell me the contract was ready...I dont see that the situation calls for "perky". I suspect your realtor is playing you because she doesn't believe this right of first refusal idea will work and is a waste of her time, but also feels that she has to do it. She was "too perky" on the phone because she was trying to go along with a bad idea. I have to agree. I went looking at a house yesterday with my realtor, talked a little about this; my realtor also said she'd leave them be. Your realtor could be feeling uncomfortable about doing this right now. Have you vented to your realtor like you have here?...See MoreSellers Unfazed by Reality (another deal's death by appraisal)
Comments (21)... DESERVE to be low-balled! By both you and the appraiser! What kind of hoser allows his family to live in a house with obvious (and CHEAPLY corrected) WIRING faults? And the FURNACE thing, WTF? I know of AHJs in the northeast that will DENY YOU A C.O. for such lack of major infrastructure! Throw in the shabby roof and it would require ALL my self-control to not be openly snide with such sellers! You "done good" to just remain civil. Perhaps these sellers hit the HELOC "ATM", but spent it on everything BUT the house?... like maybe... recreational chemicals? =:O Very odd situation... as noted above, you might be picking up this same house in a foreclosure auction, not too far in the future. Feel for ya inexplic... buying a home for your family to live in naturally gets more emotional than looking for an income property you'll never spend a single night in. Next time be working a few in parallel. Nothing wrong with that in a buyer's market. PS: Don't do the long letter thing anymore... casting pearls to swine. But DO tell us more about the seller's appearance, behaviors, nervous tics, etc. ;')...See Moretibbrix
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