Wow what amazing pictures----It always amazes me when I look at all the windows and try to imagine just how many lives are tied up to those buildings--- I think I've already told you about the book "Time and Again" by Jack finney. This man goes back in time and they used The Dakota for the experiment ---I think you would love this book. great pictures of old NYC. Florence

Sorry it took me so long to come back, I have been busy. He says he is still happy and loves me with all his heart. But I think since I was in a cheating marriage before I see things that I do not like. He does not think that if he lies to me about small stuff that it is ok. I do not see it that way. Lies are lies, holding out on telling me the truth about small stuff makes me wonder what else he is not teliing me. I told him before we got married that he could tell me that he loved me all he wanted, but of he was not honest with me all that love meant nothing. I went through that before. Saying I love you is easy, showing it is harder. I know he has taken off from work when I was working by looking at his paycheck and seeing that he has used up some his vacation and sick time. I wonder where did he go what did he do. He has a lock on his PC so no one can get on it. I do not think he understands that doing these things makes me wonder. I tell him everything, I have nothing to hide.I know that he goes on my PC to see what I am doing....lol. I guess with us not having sex that often does not help. Since we have been arguing a lot about the remodel of the kitchen and the nasty things he has said to me I do not feel like I did before. How can I? I do not feel that he respects me and my thoughts and ideas. And his love making seems to be all about making him happy. We do not have conversations like we use to, because he does not listen to me. We are not the freinfds that we were before the marriage and him taking over my home. It was mine before we married. Now he makes most of all the decsions,he wont let me do much. He is always telling me that I dont know what I am doing. OK this one was long enough. Thanks for the advise. I will take all of it and think of what to do or how to talk to him.

I call the dogs into the bathroom and shut the door so, no on can escape. I have a hand held shower and I sit in the shower with the dogs to bath them in my Swim Suit. That way I don't get a "ring" around the tub. (And my Back doesn't hurt from bending over.) Shower them one at a time and towel them off. Lay the towel in the floor and they dry themselves the rest of the way. Then I take off my Swim Suit and shower. By that time everyone is dry enough to go into other parts of the house. Then they go wild. Gayle

Beverly, I have his motorcycle here at my house along with a ton of other things LOL...I really miss him after having him with me since he was born....it's been hard not having him here with me now!He was my little road buddy from the day he was born we went everywhere together, and cooking buddy, and loved to watch scary movie buddy..... and play on the computer.......... and his games.... I taught him how to work the computer when he was just 1yrs old...he is excellent working electronics......far beyond his age! Red