Whenever possible, the only resting meat gets around here is resting on a fork on its way to my mouth. But in reality, as others have suggested, once finished, plated, plate loaded with the other stuff, it winds up "rested". I too want my meat hot. And I prefer well done, since I have teeth and appreciate using them. And "well done" does not mean it has to be tough. Once the pink is removed, it's well done. I don't like meat to be squishy. That's why I don't like mushrooms. Don't like spongy/squishy schtuff. Too many people try to flash fry things that wind up overcooking it and making it tough. Got a cousin though who will heat a cast iron pan as hot as possible, throw in a steak, immediately flip it, immediately plate it and eat it. Crunchy outside, madcow inside... :) Oh, and with poultry, I'm different, I know, but I don't like it nicely sliced. I prefer to "chunk" it. Pull off nice big chunks of meat. If, for instance on a turkey you pull off the big part of the breast, I might cut that into 2" thick slices. And eating it cold too, I just like to grab a "hunk" of turkey! Been that way all my life. Not sure why, but just one of my many quirks.

My way of cooking boneless breasts works on charcoal grills, gas grills, and stove top in a cast iron skillet. It will be moist. Start grills with heat only on one half of grill. Take breasts out of frig and rub with evoo. Do not salt. Salt pulls moisture out of meat. I salt and pepper at the table. I do not use any marinade other than evoo. Place on grill with the thick part toward the heat, but on the side with no heat. Lower lid on grill. Turn over occasionally. Cook until 165*. Do not go over 165*. You can stop a few degrees short, it will rise resting. Remove, cover lightly, and let rest for 5 minutes or so. If using cast iron skillet on top of the stove, just heat on high. Add chicken and reduce to medium. When brown on one side, turn and cover. Turn occasionally until done. I love this for checking temp. https://www.thermoworks.com/Classic-Thermapen?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI96zp7ujx2wIVRjqBCh0ypQFPEAYYAyABEgLOK_D_BwE

@Carl Arnold, welcome to the cooking forum! And if you really are a person trying to join in, and not trying to drive traffic to some outside website (why I mentioned no link, but sometimes there's a post that's sort of on topic, and the link comes later), you really are very welcome. As Sherry said, we have problems with bots. Your post was overwritten—very beautifully—for this kind of message board. Your follow up was more normal in tone, but unfortunately the new AI is capable of it all. That said, while we do run to older females in traditional families, we try not to exclude our younger, male, non-binary, non-traditional, unique and diverse posters, and it's right to call us out when we fail in that. Your point about cooking roles being more dependent on individual skills than gender is on topic, and an important POV, no matter how many of us have experienced the calcified classic gender roles in the title of the post. I bought a little table top barbecue last year, and have a littler freestanding one that's cute, but harder to use, and generally too small. I'm not really into outdoor cooking, and don't live in a climate where it's necessary. My little barbecues make my menfolk snicker. They have big and bigger gas grills to cook on...but really only for outdoor parties. I don't get the point (it not being an outdoor kitchen for all cooking in too hot and humid for indoors weather). I think barbecues should burn charcoal and aromatic wood chips to be worth the bother. I use a chimney starter. Barbecues are bad for the air quality, however, so mine are minimally used. The ”outdoors” cooking for us is not a gender thing determined by cultural norms, just a combination of attitudes and druthers that fall that way, informed by weather and circumstance.

As to cooking turkey so its not dry, when cooking a turkey bird in the oven I usually use a Reynolds Oven Bag in an appropriate size for the bird. One time use, seems to cook more quickly than standard roasting, easy cleanup, so tender and juicy that it falls off the bone (both white and dark meat), resulting turkey juices easy to contain and use for gravy or whatever. The only slight disadvantage I've found is that if you're more interested in nicely roasted and crispy skin rather than a nice tender and tasty bird, you'll likely be disappointed. To that end, we cook turkey to eat, not to look at and take pictures of so no problem there. Too, the cooking bag probably won't work worth a flip if you usually stuff the bird with anything but the typical seasonings (onion, celery, half an orange, salt/pepper, fresh sage, etc.). Traditional cooking method? Probably not but once you try it, you'll make it one of your go-to methods.