Open Shelving... Love/Hate Relationship
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Open Shelves -- love them? hate them?
Comments (38)thanks for all the input -- very helpful in thinking about this decision. I just wrote a long post that got eaten before I submitted, so I'll be brief. ctycdm, that is a gorgeous kitchen! magsnj, your pantry and space is so charming - the blue cabs are adorable. We don't have a pantry space in his home (1957 house), so we're having to be creative with our cabinet layout. I think we're going to do a modified version of open shelves. I really do love the look, and I think functionality wise they work for us (I too get sick of opening and closing cabinet doors), but we're lacking cabinet space in this kitchen. It's just not that big. So, we're contemplating a smaller cabinet with a shelf underneath for storing everyday items like plates, cups and wine glasses. It would look sort of similar to the henrybuilt ones that iheartgiantschaunzers posted or maybe even something like this (our cabs won't look anything like this, but this is just the general idea): [[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/mid-century-modern-suite-hampstead-transitional-home-office-vancouver-phvw-vp~4309142) [Midcentury Home Office[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/midcentury-modern-home-office-ideas-phbr1-bp~t_732~s_2115) by Vancouver Interior Designers & Decorators i3 design group Another design we're considering is (kitchen is not my style, but just an example): [[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/tarrytown-house-asian-kitchen-austin-phvw-vp~101835) [Asian Kitchen[(https://www.houzz.com/photos/asian-kitchen-ideas-phbr1-bp~t_709~s_2102) by Austin Architects & Designers Webber + Studio, Architects Still working out the design kinks but this thread has been very helpful, so thanks!...See MoreI hate her...I hate her......I hate her
Comments (6)I feel the same way about my husband's exwife. I am custodial stepmom of 3 chlldren. My husband has always had custody because the exwife decided one day she no longer wanted to be married or a full-time mother. Before I came along she constantly dumped 99% of her time on my husband, he of course never said no, she had full control of her old household only she lived in a differnt place and had her own life. It was a very unhealthy situation. My husband just never stood up to her, he struggled to keep a full-time job and take care of 3 children. I give him tremendous credit because many men in his situation would not be able to take on that responsibilty. Well, then I come along, we get married and all of a sudden she begins to take a deeper interest. Mainly because I would not allow her to control my household and my husband began saying "no", She always used us as her babysitter, whether it was a work meeting, an exerecise class or a European vacation. She has been nothing but a major PIA, she wouldn't pay child support when my husband enforced the order she opened a full blown custody case, suing us for full custody because she did not want to financially support her children. We also have a screwed up schedule. During the school the chldren visit their mother Mon&Tues 4-8pm with alternating weekends. During the summer they visit her Mon-Wed 4-8pm with alternating weekends. The exwife wanted some crazy, they live with her 3days one week, then us 4days, and the next week it was the reverse. Mind you, she only had a 2bedroom condo. All three children sleep in the same bedroom. 2 girls 13&10 and a 8yr old boy. The master had enough sense to reconize that the living arrangemnents were not appropriate and would not grant anymore overnight visits except for the already standing 2 weekends a month. The schedule is crazy. The exwife is crazy. She teaches the children it is ok to lie to us. She is NOT supportative of myself or my husband. She has harrassed us to the point that she is not allowed on our property, she can not contact us by phone, she may only communicate via email, unless it is an emergency related to that day's schedule, then she may leave a message on our cell phone. She would call my husband at work and pull him out of meetings with the CEO of the company for some nonsense question. HE would get numerous calls on a daily basis. I never saw 2 divorced people talk on a daily basis. We have insulated ourselves as much as possible but everyday there is some new issue. She never returns clothes that the kids wear over there, one day she sent my ss home with no shoes on. She won't take the kids to baseball games and then tells them we did not give her the information. I could go on and on. But your words say it best I HATE HER!!!!! If I had hindsight my posting would be alot differnt. I would be like that one woman who used to be involved with a man with children. Trying being involved with a man who has custody of his children. The rewards have been few and far between. I have lived this from the first day I moved to where my husband lives (I moved from a different state). So the entire two years of my marriage have been filled with this crap. My husband's relationship with his children has also suffered terribly. I was divorced for 11yrs before I remarried and never experienced one ounce of the trouble I have in this life, and it isn't even my divorce. The best advice I can give you is stand your ground. Say NO, she is responsible for her custodial time. It took my husband a long time to be able to say no, it is very easy for me. I know that he is still uncomfortable with saying no but I help him, Remember you can't let her control your life. Good luck, God Bless. I understand, it's one hell of a way to live....See MoreLove/Hate relationship with wood paneling
Comments (48)Another poster here who has painted paneling and never looked back. DH found our home on the first day it was listed. When I did a first walk through, the dark paneled wall in the LR was going to be a dealbreaker for me. DH assured me that once it was painted, it would look totally different. As soon as we made settlement, one of the first things we addressed was that one wall in our LR. DH was right. Also, I agree with painting your ceiling the same or one shade lighter of the wall color you choose, should you decide to paint your paneling. Having huge windows on our first & second floors, our views are similar to that you posted. Our home is situated on a 3 acre wooded property. With regard to the hardwood floor, I will tell you that I've had 100 lb labs since I've lived in this house (2 & 3 at a time, LOL), and hace never had a problem with their nails and the hardwood. We also have an inground pool and the dogs together with many different aged kids over the years who've spent plenty of time in, without making a pitstop to dry off before taking a run into the house. No damage whatsoever. I would live with the paneling for a bit. Then, if you both hate it, either give painting it a whirl, or totally remove it and hang drywall. I really don't see the benefit of removing the paneling to sell. Sadly, IMHO, installing drywall in those spaces will just serve to make them appear as those in many development homes, which isn't what I believe you're looking for either. Great points were made about the large windows and issues with lighting despite them. I've dealt with that in my own home. When you live in a wooded setting, you need to address avoiding a black hole look at night as well as any daylight issues with large expanses of glass. Please keep us posted (w/pics) on your progress. Congrats on the new home. I love the privacy that our property affords us, as well as the awesome views of the changing seasons and all sorts of wildlife. Enjoy!...See MoreRoses & My Love - Hate relationship for them...
Comments (19)PinkPearls -- ARE you in Texas??? If you are in TX, here is a list of ARS rose societies in TX. Pick the ones that are closest to your location, and ask them. (If you are NOT in TX, Google "Local ARS Rose Societies in *.*" and try one of them.) Texas: Austin RS Austin TX Joseph Baiocchi jbaiocchi[at]sbcglobal[dot]net (512)350.8903 Bastrop County RS Taylor TX Vernon Harris vernharris[at]earthlink[dot]net (512)281.3104 S. Central Collin County RS Plano TX Claude Graves claude[dot]graves[at]att[dot]net (972)989.5708 S. Central Corpus Christi RS Crophus Christi TX Gaynell Torgerson gaynelltorgerson[at]gmail[dot]com (361)224.2326 S. Central Dallas RS Rowlett TX Debra Bagley dlbo319[at]msn[dot]com (972)431.5459 S. Central El Paso RS El Paso TX Prestene Dehrkoop presdehr[at]elp[dot]rr[dot]com (915)751.3631 Pacific Southwest Fort Worth RS Crowley TX Connie Taylor gargate[at]aol[dot]com (817)478.1643 S. Central Golden Triangle RS Orange TX Clyde Davis clydedavis[at]att[dot]net (409)988.8661 S. Central Houston RS Houston TX Mary Fulgham mfulgham1[at]att[dot]net (713)668.4054 (713)294.0351 S. Central Lakes Area RS Kirbyville TX Carolyn Horn crlynhorn[at]hotmail[dot]com (409)420.0432 S. Central Red River RS Gordonville TX Sandra Haynes Shaynes[at]solbroadband[dot]com (210)601.1066 (210)861.1066 S. Central San Antonio RS San Antonio TX Margaret Ware wmware[at]swbell[dot]net (210)698.8440 S. Central Waco RS Waco TX Eddie Anderson ed[dot]ander[at]mygrande[dot]net (254)744.2018 (254)776.9716...See Morelaughablemoments
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