Sigh. All right already! I signed up. I was hoping to not get addicted to a second pond forum, but if I have to, I have to. *grin* :) Mary

I love Frost! He's one of my top favorite poets. But I didn't know he said "If couldn't laugh we would all go insane". Glad to know where it comes from. I only knew the below song has it in the lyrics. I also didn't know about the hell thought he has. That is totally what I believe. I don't care if I am "sinning" in your eyes. I care if I am sinning, but just not what you think about it. And if you are, I don't care, because it's not my life to live. I'll love you anyway! because it aint up to me. Here is a link that might be useful: Buffet's Change s in Attitudes

Couple of days is pretty fast. Even when dead plants generally don't disappear in a couple of days. Duckweed does die on its own but isn't suppose to sink. So assuming someone with a new didn't remove it my guess would be something ate it. No goldfish or koi in the tank I assume maybe a duck? However they normally make a pretty big mess.

This site hasn't been the same since Spike started charging for it. A lot of folks left then, and it has never recovered. I wish it was more active too. I thought it might get better after the sale of the site, but it hasn't.