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tell me about your worst date...

Sally Brownlee
12 years ago

I was thinking of my ex today and our first date...

He picked me up for dinner and a movie. The first thing you should know is it was pouring rain all night...

We went out to eat - I remember it was Ponderosa. I spilled my drink in his lap. He handled it like a champ. (Years later, I KNOW he would've walked out)

Afterwards we went to the movie theatre. When we got there, still sitting in his Bronco, he asked me if I would mind keeping his keys in my purse? Sure. At the last second I decided to not take may purse in, so I tucked it under the seat and we went in.

In the lobby we ran into the guy I had just broken up with (and was avoiding)...let's just say that was kind of awkward.

I fell asleep during the movie...

When we went out to the car (in the rain) he asked for his keys...umm, they were still in my purse, locked in the car. Like a gentleman, he told me to wait inside while he tried to get in. He eventually had to break his wing window to get in. It was well past midnite till he got me home.

He still called for a 2nd date, so I must have done something right.

I still laugh about that night.

Care to share your worst date?

Comments (45)

  • softball_80
    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

    Sounds more like HIS worst date, not yours!

    I can't remember having any really bad dates. You'd be better off asking some of MY dates....

  • carol_in_california
    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

    It was a blind date when I was about 18....we went to the snow and I tried skiing. On little narrow skis. I made it down the hill but couldn't get the hang of using the rope tow to get back up.
    I hate the cold....the guy was a jerk. He sped down the mountain and I got carsick.
    Why, oh why didn't I just say no when my friend offered to set me up with a blind date???

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    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

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  • minnie_tx
    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

    Brought to mind a high school incident.
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    last modified: 7 years ago

    LOL Great stories. I have nothing to add,
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    I guess my worst date was back in the 90's. I had just gotten divorced and was anxious to get a new social life. I called up (did not have a computer or internet at that time) one of the supposedly reputable dating services. Found a guy that lived fairly close and we started talking on the phone together. After being convinced he was pretty harmless, I agreed to meet him for coffee and then an outdoor concert. I was shocked to find he looked JUST LIKE Homer Simpson. Now, I wasn't expecting Tom Cruise, but I just couldn't get my mind around dating Homer Simpson. Nice guy, but needless to say, never saw him again.
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    last modified: 7 years ago

    My worst date was a blind one that my friend
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    last modified: 7 years ago

    He gave me a hug and started licking my face.
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Thanks Dolly for my morning wake-up laugh!!

  • Sally Brownlee
    Original Author
    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

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    last modified: 7 years ago

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    I went to Yokohama to meet Sue's boat in early Oct. - she said that had I not been there to meet her, she'd have gone home to Mother - we took a boat to Korea and we were married there in mid-Oct., went on a local none-too-thrilling honeymoon, then Sue moved in to the menagerie with Clare, Irene and Cheryl, Miriam, Dawn and Susie (who'd been our flower girl).

    Shared house with them for just over three months, till their home was finished ...

    ... and Sue and Irene found it somewhat difficult to speak for the next four years.

    So - there is something of a distasteful part of the story, after all.

    We were together for 11 years, 2 kids ... Sue took internship in hospital food serice, became second-head, later head of food service in a local psych hosp. (the one where mom had spent part of her time in hosp.) for twenty years.

    They talked of closing hers or another one in a nearby city, so Sue took early retirement. Had a ball for about 10 years.

    Ironically ... she contracted colon cancer, fought it for something over a year and died at 66, almost six years ago. The kids said at that time that had she retired at normal time, it would have been the year before ...

    ... and I added that she'd have been sick for most of that year.

    Another sad part of it is that we scarcely spoke for 35 years apart.

    How sad - life's too short for that.

    ole joyful ... most of the time

  • trinitytx
    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

    I forgot of one, that probably was well worth forgotten...
    A boy I went to high school with called and asked me out on a date. I really hated dates, but agreed to go out.
    He asked me for directions to my house, and I told him I lived across the street from one of the big time football jocks from school. He said, yes, I know exactly where you live, it must be next door to the retarded guy.
    I said yes, that is the place.
    When he came to pick me up, I made a point to have him meet my brother....the "retarded guy" he had spoken of earlier.
    I did go out with him, but did not say one single word to him the whole night. I ditched him not long after the date started, and left with a group of my friends....that did not mind I had a "retarded" brother....

    I hope he learned his lesson..

    Trin

  • chisue
    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

    Our next door neighbors set up a date for me with the son of friends. His parents wanted him to get out and date more. Today I'd question it, but I was only 21.

    He was 30, very nice looking, well groomed, well mannered, drove a lovely car. He was *pleasant*, and we had a nice dinner. He walked me to my door and shook my hand. He called for a second date. I wondered, but I went. About the middle of the evening I figured out that I was 'cover', and he was in-the-closet gay.

  • elisabeth_rose
    12 years ago
    last modified: 7 years ago

    This wasn't really a date, but it was awkward and weird. And funny! It was my first year in college, and a group of friends got together to go to an outdoor concert. In the group were two guys that both were interested in me. They were both nice guys, but couldn't stand each other, and I had zero romantic interest in either one of them. On the way home, I ended up sitting in the back seat between the two of them. After a while one of them grabbed my hand in the dark. I tried to pull away, but didn't want to make a scene, knowing that if the other guy saw this, there would be problems. I just wanted to get home! Well... pretty soon the other guy took my other hand, and there I sat, not knowing if I should laugh or cry. Instead I got annoyed, and brought both my hands (and theirs) in to my lap, and linked their hands together while I pulled mine free. The expressions on their faces was priceless, and they pulled their hands apart like they had touched fire. Not a word was said, and neither one bothered much with me after that.

    Elisabeth

  • jupidupi
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    When I was in college, I lived in the kind of house that gets rented to college kids -- not in the greatest shape. It needed electrical work done, and the landlord sent an electrician who spent the day crawling in the attic and all the rooms. In other words, he really knew the house by the time he left. The electrician was young, with an almost angelic face. Not really my type, but when he asked me to go out the following night, I thought, "Why not?" It soon became obvious that we had very little to talk about. When I asked how he'd spent the day, he told me that he had gone target shooting. Okay.... Then he said that his favorite thing to shoot at was pictures from Playboy Magazine. Yikes! When we got to the crowded club, I said I was going to the ladies room and slipped out the door. I spent the night cowering in my house with the lights out, afraid he would come in and hide somewhere. About a year later, I saw him and he said, "Remember me?" Fortunately I was with a friend, a huge gay guy who sensed that I was afraid. He played the perfect jealous redneck, telling the guy to "quit talking to my girlfriend ."

  • wildchild2x2
    2 years ago

    When DH and I were dating we decided to go to San Francisco for the night and do the whole "tourist thing" (we're both SF natives) just for a fun date night. Dinner at the wharf, wax museum, some tours, ride the cable car etc.


    Well we ate at Alioto's. Had a nice seafood dinner. Then we went on some trolley thing and then on to the wax museum. It was there I started to shiver and sweat. I was a tiny little thing at the time and those peasant dresses with the elastic under the bustline and little puffed sleeves were in fashion. Mine was long and made of a flowing shiny jersey fabric. I mention the dress because my flat abdomen puffed out to pregnancy proportions. I told him we needed to get out now. I vomited all across the bay bridge. He took me to the ER and we stayed their all night while they tried to get my acute food poisoning under control.

  • User
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    My older sister set me up on a ‘date’ when I was still at school, by inviting one of her classmates over.

    So as not to be rude and tell him ‘Ewwww, no thanks,’ I decided to go in the bathroom and pretend to be violently sick. My sound effects were helped by emptying a beaker full of water down the loo every time I heaved.

    Not content with that, I also put soap in my eyes to make them red and watery for my grand reemergence.


    Unbeknownst to me, another one was set up by my Dad and my new Stepmum while I was still living with them. She knew a photographer and apparently he’d taken a shine to me when we’d met once at a ‘do’. He travelled more than 200 miles for his visit, arriving with a lovely bouquet and cheesy grin.

    I said I’d just remembered I had to go pop and see my Nan (who lived down the road) and off I went.

    I made sure my ‘pop’ lasted long enough for him to get the message and start his return journey without any further input from me.

  • dedtired
    2 years ago

    I went out with a guy who was really, really tall, like closing in on seven feet. He took me to a lovely restaurant where they had dancing. Okay, so I am picturing slow dancing, hopefully not too close. Unfortunately, the music was fast and lively. We get up to dance and he is flailing himself all over the dance floor. His wingspan must have been nearly seven feet, too, and his arms are flying everywhere as he gyrates around. Everyone is watching him in amusement and I am in utter horror. Thought the evening would never end.

  • chisue
    2 years ago

    Fun to see this thread revived. I cringe to think what an innocent I was. I marvel that I never felt endangered, despite going out alone with more than a few guys about whom I knew virtually *nothing*.

    This date is *viscerally* memorable: A boy I'd known since grammar school had recently gotten his pilot's license and invited me to go up 'for a spin' on a Saturday morning. I'd flown many times on commercial jets and had loved being up in the Goodyear blimp once in Florida. I loved to fly, and I was looking forward to this. It was a beautiful, hot summer day -- very calm. We took off in this tiny plane and peered down at our town and Lake Michigan. My date showed me some of the tests he had had to perform to get his license. We stalled, and he pulled the plane up rapidly. We did spirals and flew upside down. He had a ball, demonstrating his prowess. He didn't understand why I wanted to go home immediately after we landed.

    It wasn't his fault that I'd eaten a great big breakfast that morning or was soaking wet with sweat. Maybe I didn't *look* that green.


  • Hareball
    2 years ago
    last modified: 2 years ago

    I know women aren't perfect. We can be a special kind of crazy, but what in the world is wrong with some of these guys?!?! LOL

  • dedtired
    2 years ago

    Omg, just noticed this thread was started ten years ago. How do these things get revived? Kind of fun to see old names.

  • Hareball
    2 years ago

    Ooops I didn't even see that. It popped up so I assumed it was new. haha

  • User
    2 years ago

    Same! Whoops, and oh well:)

  • samkarenorkaren
    2 years ago

    Let's see...there was the guy who:

    1. Took me to lunch and snuck out of the restaurant so I got stuck with Bill

    2 blind date who after 3 hours begged me to marry him so he could get away from his over protective mother

    3 guy who asked out for lunch and then said "your not going to eat are you". He got me a coke

    4. Online date who said when date was over "I have to go home and analyze our date" (he's still analyzing it)

    5 guy who said he wanted the perfect sex partner and nothing more

    6. Guy who ended up having no car or job but wanted me to move in with him to provide rent and sex. Oh and he said clothing was not an option at His place.

    SamKaren Your resident dj

  • seniorgal
    2 years ago

    A l-o-n-g time ago, but I do remember it. Young man who ran the on-base bowling alley where friends and I used to go on our lunch hour. He asked me out several times but I refused. Then he asked me to go to the Biltmore (to me that meant going to the hotel's very nice restaurant). I said yes. He and another couple picked me up, we walked down the block to the hotel. Instead of going to the restaurant we took the elevator to a room. H-m-m- I thought that was odd. They pulled beds out of the closet and set them up. It dawned on me that this was NOT a dinner date. I started to leave-told him he had the wrong girl. He did walk me home. Asked me out several times after that but i refused.

  • Lynn Heins
    2 years ago

    I've got one! 17 years old, in a dance barn with a jerk of a fellow. He and I hopped on the mechanical bull and I broke my face. I had a concussion and broken eye socket. He dropped me off at my house and was afraid of my parents so he tried to drop me off 1/4 mile from the house. Classy, huh?

  • kathyg_in_mi
    2 years ago

    Old posts can be a lot of fun too!