Debate: Leaving dogs in the car unattended
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Comments (35)I like the idea of having your DH volunteer at a shelter; is there one near you? We have never had a big dog. We've had four Westies in almost 50 years of marriage. Under 20 lbs. Rugged; not frou-frou. Small dogs don't have any less love than big ones...and they fit in the laundry tub. They don't require as much walking; their feet leave smaller 'tracks'; some don't shed; they aren't giant-mouthed, drooling 'destroyers'. They don't go through your screen doors and smear your windows. They can't reach the countertops, but they're still efficient picker-uppers of floor crumbs. They can't easily get up on your bed. They are alert guards. (Yapping is a training issue, not a breed issue.) They don't eat as much nor leave big stools. Our males did their business in a small graveled enclosure near our back door BEFORE they ran around in the fenced yard. (Yes, on walks, they do leave p-mail.) Our present Westie is home now with our dog- and house-sitter; $25/day. All dogs have vet bills and more expenses as they age. Ours now requires canned 'senior' dog food at $2.75 a day. He's going deaf. (So are WE!) Dogs. Children. Guys want 'em and we take care of them. DH walks ours, brushes him, takes him to the vet, hauls food for him, often feeds him. Like the three before him, Eliot is still in love with Mommy. (We should name the next one Reagan! LOL)...See MoreLeaving home UNattended for 1 year - advice please
Comments (7)Pomona: Can I chime in as someone who has done a lot of house-sitting? I saved a lot of money during grad school by house-sitting for professors--they got to go and teach in Europe for a year; I got to stay in their houses rent-free and walk the dogs. It would be a shame for you to give up this opportunity to travel because of your house. People can and do leave their houses for a year or more. Please consider researching more ways to accomplish this. But I also want to give you my perspective as a house sitter. I only house-sat for professors who knew me at first and who knew that I was a reliable person. Then my "reputation" spread and I started getting more offers than I could accept. I let the homeowners decide what they wanted to put in storage and what they would let me use. Some packed away all the good china and stuff, which was a relief to me--if anything happened to it, it was not going to be my fault. Some did not want to go to the effort of packing away their everyday dishes, pots & pans, etc., and wanted me to use them. I would warn them that I could not guarantee that I wouldn't break a glass or a plate--accidents do happen. But they were fine with that. One family had just redone their kitchen and added a gorgeous family room on to it. They cleared out all their spanking new furniture from the family room and asked me to put just a chair or two of my own in there for me to use. Again, not a problem--I wouldn't have to worry about spills or other accidental damage. Some families packed personal stuff away in one or two bedrooms and locked the doors. Some just told me not to touch certain things--a collection of art pottery, some expensive books. I simply didn't go near anything that I was told was off limits. One family had an oriental rug in the living room that they were very careful of--the dog had been trained to stay off it. I just never went into the living room except to vacuum and dust occasionally--I just didn't want to take a chance on damaging the rug. And there were both a perfectly good family room and an office I could use. I kept the house and yards in good shape, mowing, weeding, shoveling snow. The house looked lived in--car in the driveway every night, lights on at appropriate times--so that no one would get the idea that the house was empty and open for burglery. I cleaned up after hurricanes came through. I forwarded mail, returned forgotten library books, sent a lonely little girl pictures of her dog frolicking in the woods so that she would be sure he was OK. In one house, where the husband had not wanted anyone in the house (he wanted to put their very active dog in a kennel for 9 months), the wife overruled him and I moved in, with a lot of restrictions as to what I could and could not do. The second day I was there, a pipe sprang a leak--in the ceiling of the closet where they had stored all the clothes they weren't taking, including a couple of fur coats. Even though I had been told that closet was off limits, when I heard a dripping sound, I did eventually open it because I had to find the source of the sound. If I had not been there, the leak would have lasted for 9 months and all their clothes would have been ruined by mold and mildew, as well as the carpet, ceiling and walls. That was the only problem that occured while I was there (and in fact the only real problem I ever encountered) but I feel that I earned my keep on that one. You can set rules about visitors and guests. Some people showed me the guest room and where the extra linens were; some people didn't want anyone else in the house ever. I completely understand your reluctance to have someone else live in your home. But you can put things in storage to prevent damage or someone looking at your private life. You can carefully screen the people who look after your home--whether they come once a week or live there. There are people like me out there who will respect your privacy and take good care of your house. I guess I just don't want you thinking that the house is such a burden that you can't take this chance to live abroad. I got the opportunity to do that for a year while I was in grad school. I spent a year in London and had a wonderful time. So I hope you will have the same chance....See MoreHorrible deaths by vicious dogs -- 3 people in 2 days
Comments (77)cjhwillis, First off, I would like to point out that while a Doberman or a Rottie may not be a "Bully Dog" most people certainly consider them one. I work with a local Bully Breed rescue and trust me, any large mean looking dog is considered a Bully Breed by the general public. Point made since you are the first one to dispute this classification! :-) Also, when I was naming all the large breeds you mentioned I was doing so because the OP had stated that all dogs large enough to kill should be eradicated!!!!!! In addition, the Doberman also comes from Great Dane descent. There are also many, many dogs that have these different descents. I don't agree that because a breed has a bully breed in its descent that makes it a bully breed. Which brings me to my next point, (since we are getting down to specifics) you are misinformed on what technically is a Bully Breed. Mastiffs are one of the oldest breeds of dog dating back to Aristotle, Philip the Second, Alexander the Great, etc. / 400 - 300 B.C. Too many breeds to list have Mastiff in their ancestry. The only Mastiff that is considered a Bully Breed is the Bull Mastiff coming from a Mastiff and Bulldog descent. A bully breed has all to do with being of Bulldog descent, not Mastiff. Bulldogs were originally bred to fight Bulls in the Arena (hence their name) and was developed in the 13th century. Yes, they are of Asiatic Mastiff descent yet, as I mentioned, Mastiffs are one of the oldest breeds and there are too many dogs to list that are of their descent. Also, in your list of bully breeds you seemed partial to large breeds. You forgot to list the Boston Terrier which was originally called the Boston Bull and is from English White Terrier & English Bulldog descent. Avg. size 15 - 20 lbs. Also, the French Bulldog whose descent is from the Chincha Bulldog. Avg size is 22-28 pounds. Breeds that are classified as Bulldog Breeds (Bully Breeds) are as follows: Boxer, English Bulldog, Old Englishe Bulldogge, Amercian Bulldog, French Bulldog, Alapaha Blue Blood Bulldog, Valley Bulldog, American Pit Bull Terrier, American Staffordshire Terrier, Staffordshire Bull Terrier, Bull Terrier, Boston Terrier, Bull Mastiff, and Banter Bulldogge. You had listed the Cane Corso Itailiano as a Bully Breed, this breed is of direct descent of the Canis Pugnax (Roman Mollosian), no Bulldog in this breed. A great website for researching breeds is linked below. I recommend it to anyone looking to obtain a new pet dog, the information is invaluable. Cheers Sarah...See MoreNew dog! Do we crate train?
Comments (12)Totally dependent on the dog. I had never used crates until our current two dogs. It was necessary for both, but in totally different ways. The big dog needed to have extreme aggression dealt with and using an open crate was part of that training. Once the aggression was modified, there was no reason for the crate. The small dog needed the security at first. I put the crate by my side of the bed and made a cave by covering the top. Once she was house broken, and her confidence boosted, the crate is left open so she can use it as she pleases. However, if the small dog is not exercised fairly regularly, she can get a bit destructive---tissue boxes are her favorite. She will get into the living room trash during those times---but not the kitchen trash. Dogs are often destructive because they are bored. The more energetic the dog, the more easily it can get bored. Crating can be a good part of a dogs life if it keeps the dog from being destructive. But it is a very bad idea to take the place of exercise. Crating in a car is much better than allowing an energetic, hyper, or scared dog loose and create distractions for the driver....See More- 19 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
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