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Behavior/tastes/sensory changes in the elderly

palimpsest
11 years ago

I know that everyone expects the deterioration of senses and faculties in the elderly, but I am wondering if anyone else has noticed unusual changes that are not really along the lines of "loss" or "deterioration" but just "different."

My mother who had an autoimmune degenerative disease (25 years in duration) that rendered her incapable of even holding a utensil or grasping a doorknob at the end of her life-- technically died at least once, and recovered from several comas in the last few years of her life. I mean nothing but respect when I say this, but we used to say that if an atomic blast went off, my mother and a few cockroaches would probably crawl out of the rubble. She was that resilient.

After she died and almost spontaneously revived the first time, she developed a regular craving for ice cream, and her language became a bit more...earthy, I guess. Not that she swore like a truck driver or anything, but she used to turn off any movie that had too much bad language in them and, now she was perfectly capable of using the F bomb in a sentence, not Toward someone, but just if she read it in a book or heard it in a joke or something.

After her last coma, in which she basically recovered from multiple organ failure, she developed a taste for root beer so strong that it became her almost exclusive beverage, and her hearing went from acute to practically bionic. She could hear my father coming down the hall in her facility before he was even ON her hall.

My father, who will be 89 next birthday, is still highly capable. He will drive 150 miles round trip to see one of his specialists, he watches Calculus and Trigonometry DVDs on TV, and he still has his near photographic memory.

Within the past year he has developed an extreme interest in baseball, and a more than passing interest in football.
I asked him, when, before this, did he ever watch sports, because I never knew him to do this. He said "I guess I Never Watched sports, because the last time I paid attention was when dad would listen on the radio and that had to be before 1942. But I wasn't too interested then." Apparently one day he changed the channel and couldn't get back to the one he was on (a regular occurrence, but I blame cable for this), and it was on baseball, and it went from there.

Now he can talk games and statistics and players with my niece's husband who is quite avid and knowledgeable. He has also wants to stop at particular place by my sister's house to get a hot dog, and he buys inordinate amounts of dark chocolate covered English Toffee. He used to spend a lot of time telling people what was IN hotdogs when they were trying to eat one.

Anybody else notice things like this?

This post was edited by palimpsest on Fri, Dec 7, 12 at 20:32

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