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Have any of you had a fire?

dotmom
13 years ago

I was watching the news about a family in Wisconsin who lost their home and everything in it, to a fire. Have you experience this awful tragedy? We owned a store and lived over it and woke up in a smoky haze early one bitter cold winter day. Hubs & Son went down to the store, opened the front door and saw the place was full of smoke. They immediately shut the door and called the fire dept. They came up to get me I was trying to find my two cats, which I couldn't. Hubs had been working on the taxes at the desk, so he was able to dump those papers in his brief case, (which turned out to be so important later) The firemen made me leave because i was still trying to find my pets. As we so often read in news reports, we got out with just the clothes on our backs.

It is so devastating to lose all the things a person takes a lifetime to acquire. I am thankful we got out, but lost our business, home, things and pets. The fire Marshalls really investigate, as they should. We were really put through the 3rd degree. When they were questioning me, I had to tell them everything I do on a normal day. I told them I would do house keeping stuff and get things started for supper in the morning, Then I would go down to the store about eleven, clean and restock shelves, and in the aft, noon when it was usually quiet, I would knit for a while. They said they found my knitting needles in the basement where the floor had caved in. I asked them (sarcastically) if they found my afghan, it was almost finished. It was found the fire started by some wiring in the basement. The building was almost 100 ys old. There were some, I guess I would call them amusing things happen, the three of us were sitting in a room at the local small motel, pretty much in shock, and there was a knock on the door. It was a man from the next town wanting to sell us his store. In the local paper that came out there was a picture of the three of us, taken the day of the fire and we were a disheveled and it was obvious I had gotten dressed in a hurry. I had on a turtleneck, and it was insideout and backwards, with the tag at my throat. the fire was over 15 yrs ago, but my memories of it are still sharp.

When I hear about someone having to go through something so devastating like a fire or flood, I have so much sympathy for them. Any of you KTers experience something like this?

Comments (11)

  • evatx
    13 years ago

    Yes, on August 8, 1956, the house my parents, my twin and I lived in burned. Mother, Neva & I were at the beach with other sisters that day, and Dad had gone home from work, eaten dinner and walked down the block to watch tv with my brother-in-law. A neighbor ran down and told him our house was on fire. It was determined that the old house had faulty wiring. My older sister had at her house Mother's sewing machine, some photo albums and a box of our old toys so those were all our possessions left. The church had a shower for us and people were so generous with money as well as clothes for all of us and everything for the house.

    Afterwards when Mother heard of someone losing a home to fire, she gave everything she could spare to the family because she knew first-hand what they were going through.

  • Vickey__MN
    13 years ago

    My DD#2 lived in an apartment in Fargo..a couple of years ago she and her roommates were at work (she and one working the other was visiting them)they saw smoke and joked that wouldn't it be funny if it were their apartment. THe one visiting went home and ran back...it was their apartment building (not their) They lost virtually everything. Thank goodness for insurance. We learned a lot about insurance companies then, and found out we have a very good one! We also found out how level headed our daughter really is... and honest. She only claimed what she actually lost! When the insurance adjuster asked us if we wanted to approve her list I said no (she was a college student living away from home..how did I know what she owned), he said I was the only parent of the clients he had in that building that had that kind of trust in their kid...oh and the only girl. Then when the school held a meeting with the 8 students to see how they could help most were just ummm I don' tknow. When they asked her how they could help her, she said..I am takign summer classes, I lost my computer...which has been replaced, but obviously not the contents, I need replacement books, sylabus and time to catch up. She got replacement books, new sylabus' and extensions from her proffessors. She learned how to be methodical in responding. What is important and needed now (underwear!) and what can wait (Don't need to replace all 23 purses RIGHT NOW).

    Vickey-MN

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    These are sad stories. Thank you for sharing them. Like Vicky Mn. said, thank God for insurance. Because we lost our business and apt. We were under suspicion of arson. It was assumed by the fire Marshalls we set it because we were behind on payments or going bankrupt. Because my Hubs was able to throw the business papers in his brief case, we were able to prove other-wise. We were given quilts made by church ladies, which we are still using today. A ladies club I had just joined, gave me a check for 100 dollars, saying I should use it for pesonal things I might need. That one really made me cry. i didn't have a brush, moisturizer,shampoo, or anything like that. People were wonderful to us and I'll always be thankful, and when a gal I knew lost everything in a fire, I went through my kitchen and gave her some thing to get her started, plus a gift card to help with replacing things.
    Vicky Mn, you sure did something right, bringing up such an honest and level-headed Daughter.
    Casey, it is doubly hard to lose a home that had been in the family for so long. You can always rebuild, but it just isn't the same.

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    Sorry, I had to log off from above post, a neighbor stopped by.
    EvaTx, how fortunate none of you were home when the fire occurred.Pictures are one of the important things that are irreplaceable.

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