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vickey__mn

D(Dumb) brother did something right and actually honorable

17 years ago

He plead guilty yesterday to domestic abuse. I can't believe it. Sentencing is March 11th. SIL said he'll "Probably" get 21 months in prison, 9 months probation. Subtract time served..5 months = 10 months in jail. Judge could give more, but probably not. Not near enough time for what he did, personally. BUT maybe with counseling???

Sad part of all of this...she doesn't know who she can trust in our family. I told her I understand, I would love to have her visit, or let the kids visit and give her a break, and when she's comfortable with that to let me know. I'll keep in contact with her also. He told her for so long she couldn't trust my sister and me. She'll find out she can, I have not other motive than to be there for her.

My Dad hasn't talked to me since this all happened and I wouldn't agree that my brother may have had a reason to do what he did. Hey, it's treatment I expected right after my mom died, this just took 4 years to happen instead of right away.

My SIL has filed for divorce, B has petitioned for full custody, for some reason I don't think someone in prison and who has a restraining order on him can get full custody. So that is good. Her life is improving, she knows it, there may be times it doesn't feel like it, but she knows. I've told her I'm proud of her. She knows I'm speaking the truth.

Vickey-MN

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