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estrangement/how to make amends

dixiedoll
14 years ago

My son is an addict. He and his wife are now divorced.

His addiction was well hidden and my husband and I paid for three rehabs to help him and one halfway house so I feel we tried to help. My son has a little boy that is three. He is our only grandchild. Along the way on this journey of addiction things were said by everyone. Many feelings were hurt.

We did the best we could to help the former dil financially

but she considered it to be controlling even though she took the money we offered. She has since told me that she doesn't want me around my grandson . There are just so many, many hurt feelings.

My son and I are estranged because he has relapsed.

Is there any way you can think of that amends can be made on my part to her? She will not speak to me or acknowledge me whatsoever.

There are far to many details to go into. I just wonder if a rift such as this can ever be corrected.

My grandson, at age three, does not know me even though we live in the same town. I have offered to babysit but I have been told not to "volunteer". That I need to be asked.

That is the temperature of the relationship.

Thanks for any input.

dixie

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