I used to run a wilderness outpost and every week had to plan menus for 19-23 people, very picky kids mostly. Fridge and freezer but no stove, only grill and open fire. Transported stuff in coolers. Plan, and also plan for flexibility like folks have said. Here are some tips I learned. Unless you family hates it, bring Bisquick or some other type of baking mix like that. There are a gazillion things you can make with it--pancakes, waffles, biscuits, dumplings, quick breads and muffins, coffeecake, shortbreads with fresh fruit, etc. Something like that is sure to cheer everyone up, since most people like those kinds of foods. Mayo + ketchup is French dressing Mayo + ketchup and pickle relish is Thousand Island dressing 1/3 red wine or blasamic vinegar or lemon juice + 2/3 olive oil is Italian dressing--add dash of garlic salt and italian seasoning if you want. Use rice wine vinegar and soy or canola oil and you have asian dressing--add cilantro, ginger and toasted sesame seed oil and dash of chili flakes if you want. Kids like shish ka bobs. Shish ka bobs can be tofu, lamb, pork, chicken or beef meat, cubed and mixed with veggies to taste. I like green pepper, cherry tomatoes, summer squash or zuchinni and mushrooms. Marinate for an hour or more in a bottle of italian or greek dressing. I like Ken's brand or Newman's Own. If you prefer asian style, buy something citrusy or make your own, your MIL can help. Bring soy sauce or tamari, I love that for marinade. Do you have a crockpot? Shredded beef or pulled pork are dead easy and make everyone happy. Search here or online for recipes. Worst comes to worst, keep lots of pasta and bottled sauce on hand. Don't know what kind you like. I kept spaghetti sauce on hand, but you can keep ingredients for peanut sauce if your family likes asian better. Canned baked beans can be jazzed up on your own with some brown sugar, hot sauce, onion, garlic, mustard, etc. Also good and easy in the crockpot. I've got a great recipe for calico beans for a crowd if you think that might be something your folks would like. It's basically a can of kidneys, can of black beans, can of white beans, hamburger, onion, etc. cooked in the crockpot. Let me know if you want me to post the whole recipe. Potatoes keep well and everyone loves them. Fried up in the morning with veggies of your choice or not, scrambled eggs and sausage or fresh caught fish, cinnamon toast--everyone very happy!! Can be covered in aluminum foil--get the heavy kind--and baked over hot coals. Use sweet potatoes for a fun change of pace. Not too close to the heat or they will burn. Too far away and they won't cook, have fun learning the difference, lol! Crackers and chesse and mixed nuts mixed with chocolate and dried fruit and/or granola makes good snacks, along with fresh fruit. Apples, grapes and bananas travel well. See my "new uses for old bananas" if they get brown. Celery sticks spread with peanut butter and dotted with raisins makes a great snack too--ants on a log it is called. Peanut butter, crackers and dried fruit also good snacks. Carrots sticks with store-bought hummus. Lots of ice tea is a good drink to have on hand. Lemonade goes over well and is dead easy to make with reconstituted lemon juice, which keeps well on the road. Add a few fresh sliced lemons to the pitcher to jazz it up. Granola bars for the kids--easy to take on the trail. Worse comes to absolute worst--pop tarts, lol!! Instant oatmeal for late risers who miss breakfast. Kids love to roast marshmallows. Add grahmn crackers and chocolate pieces--s'mores. Don't roast on dry sticks, use green ones, or better yet buy some metal weenie/marshmallow roasting sticks. Hot cocoa if the weather turns nasty, or if lactose intolerant--hot tang or hot lemonade!! Ginger tea for the grownups. Tea with lemon, honey and whisky for the really grown up!! Sangria for a punch--cheap dryish white wine, bottle of 7-UP, glog of peach schapps or cointreau, lemon, lime slices and other fruit you have on hand. Lots of ice. Serve in clear pitcher. Rice freezes extremely well. Make in batches and freeze lots. Woks do great on the grill or campfire.

I have quite a few refrigerator cookie recipes that I found for last Xmas when I needed so many at various times throughout the season. Black-and-White Cookies Makes about 5 dozen cookies. These cookies are known as icebox, or refrigerator, cookies. This type of cookie is made by forming dough into a log or rectangular block and chilling it thoroughly. You can also use different types of dough togethervanilla and chocolate, peanut butter and chocolateÂto make patterned cookies. Cookies are then sliced off the log or block and baked. When slicing the dough, give the log or block a quarter turn after every half dozen or so slices to keep the cookies perfectly square or round. 2 cups all-purpose flour 1?2 cup sugar Pinch of salt 16 Tbs. (2 sticks) cold unsalted butter, cut  into small pieces 1 whole egg plus 1 egg yolk 1?2 tsp. vanilla extract 3 Tbs. unsweetened Dutch process  cocoa powder In a food processor, combine the flour, sugar and salt. Add the butter pieces in 2 additions, pulsing after each addition, until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Add the egg yolk and vanilla and pulse until the dough holds together. Divide the dough in half. Transfer one-half to a lightly floured work surface and knead in the cocoa until incorporated. Lightly dust the work surface and a rolling pin with flour. Roll out each dough half into a 3-by-9-inch rectangle, 1?2 to 3?4 inch thick; trim the edges to even out. Place each rectangle on a large baking sheet and cover with plastic wrap. Refrigerate until well chilled, about 30 minutes. Meanwhile, in a small bowl, beat the whole egg until blended. Set aside. Remove the dough from the refrigerator. Using a sharp knife, cut each rectangle into 4 strips about 3?4 inch wide (you should have 4 strips of each color). Arrange 2 chocolate strips and 2 plain strips in a checkerboard pattern, brushing the beaten egg between the strips and gently pressing them together. Repeat with the remaining dough. Wrap in plastic wrap and use a knife to square off the edges of each block. Refrigerate until well chilled, about 30 minutes. Preheat an oven to 350°F. Lightly grease 2 baking sheets or line them with parchment paper. Remove the blocks from the refrigerator, unwrap and cut each crosswise into slices 1?4 inch thick. Place them 1 1?2 inches apart on the prepared baking sheets. Bake until the cookies feel firm when lightly pressed, about 15 minutes. Let the cookies sit on the baking sheets for 2 minutes, then use a spatula to transfer them to wire racks to cool completely. Holiday Ginger Cookies 1 1/4 c. sugar 1 c. butter softened 1 egg 3 T. molasses 1 t. vanilla 3 c. flour 2 t. cinnamon 1 t. ginger 1/2 t. baking soda 1/4 t. salt Frosting 3 c. powdered sugar 1/3 c. butter softened 1 t. vanilla 1 to 2 T. milk Combine first five cookie ingredients in large mixer bowl. Beat at medium speed, scraping bowl often, until creamy. Reduce speed to low; add all remaining cookie ingredients. Beat until well mixed. Divide dough in half; wrap in plastic food wrap. Refrigerate until firm (1 to 2 hours). Roll dough to 1/8 inch thickness and cut out cookies. (I do not like to roll and cut cookies, so I just rolled them in nice loaves and sliced 1/8 inch cookies. Also do not use the frosting.) Bake 6-9 minutes at 375 degree oven. Quick to make and a mild ginger taste. Land O Lakes Soft Baking Butter box. White Chocolate Raspberry Slices Cynthia Monroe, Manchester, CA Cynthia Monroe won a blue ribbon at the Mendocino County fair for these pretty, easy-to-make cookies. PREP AND COOK TIME: About 45 minutes, plus about 1 hour to cool MAKES: 3 dozen cookies About 1/2 cup (1/4 lb.) butter or margarine, at room temperature 1/4 cup sugar 1 teaspoon vanilla About 1 1/4 cups all-purpose flour 1/4 cup raspberry jam 2 ounces white chocolate, chopped 1. In a large bowl, with a mixer on medium speed, beat 1/2 cup butter, sugar, and vanilla until smooth. Stir in 1 1/4 cups flour, then beat until dough comes together. 2. Divide dough into thirds. On a floured surface, with the palms of your hands, roll each portion into a 9-inch-long rope about 1 inch thick. Place ropes 3 inches apart on a buttered 12- by 15-inch baking sheet. Press your finger into dough to make 1/2-inch-wide indentations at 1-inch intervals along each rope. Spoon 1/4 teaspoon jam into each indentation. 3. Bake ropes in a 350° regular or convection oven until edges are lightly browned, 12 to 15 minutes. Let cool on baking sheet. 4. Place white chocolate in a plastic sandwich bag, pushing to one corner; secure bag just above chocolate with a twist-tie or knot. Immerse corner of bag in a cup of hot water until chocolate is melted. Dry bag, then, with scissors, cut off the tip of the corner. Squeeze bag to drizzle white chocolate decoratively across ropes. Chill until chocolate is firm to touch, about 1 hour, then cut each rope diagonally into 12 slices. SANTA'S WHISKERS This slice and bake cookie filled with cherries and pecans is rolled in coconut. The cookie's name has been passed through generations of bakers. Preparation 40 min.  Chilling 1 hrs.  Baking 12 min.  Ingredients: *  1 cup LAND O LAKES® Butter, softened* *  1/2 cup sugar *  1/2 cup powdered sugar *  1 egg *  1 teaspoon vanilla *  2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour *  1 1/2 cups red and/or green candied cherries, halved *  1 tablespoon all-purpose flour *  1 cup coarsely chopped pecans *  3 cups sweetened flaked coconut Instructions: Combine butter, sugar, powdered sugar, egg and vanilla in large bowl. Beat at medium speed, scraping bowl often, until creamy. Reduce speed to low; add 2 1/4 cups flour. Continue beating until well mixed. Combine cherries and 1 tablespoon flour in small bowl; toss to coat. Stir in cherry mixture and pecans by hand; mix well. Shape dough into 3 (10x1 1/2-inch) rolls on plastic food wrap. Roll each in 1 cup coconut. Wrap tightly. Refrigerate until firm (1 hour). Heat oven to 350°F. Cut rolls into 1/4-inch slices with sharp knife. Place 1 inch apart onto ungreased cookie sheets. Bake for 12 to 14 minutes or until edges are very lightly browned. *Substitute LAND O LAKES® Soft Baking Butter with Canola Oil right from the refrigerator. Yield:  10 dozen cookies SLICE & BAKE SHORTBREAD COOKIES Form the refrigerated cookie dough roll into a variety of geometric shapes: circles, squares or triangles. Preparation 40 min.  Chilling 2 hrs.  Baking 7 min.  Ingredients: *  1 cup LAND O LAKES? Butter, softened* *  1/2 cup firmly packed brown sugar *  1 teaspoon vanilla *  2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour *  1/2 cup sugar *  1 teaspoon ground cinnamon Instructions: Combine butter, brown sugar and vanilla in large bowl. Beat at medium speed, scraping bowl often, until creamy. Reduce speed to low; add flour. Beat, scraping bowl often, until mixture leaves side of bowl and forms a smooth, soft dough. Divide dough in half. Shape each half into a 6x2-inch round log. Wrap each log in plastic food wrap; refrigerate at least 2 hours. Heat oven to 375°F. Cut logs into 1/4-inch slices with sharp knife. Place 1 inch apart onto ungreased cookie sheets. Bake for 7 to 9 minutes or until lightly browned on edges. Let stand 5 minutes before removing from cookie sheets. Combine sugar and cinnamon in small bowl. Roll warm cookies in cinnamon-sugar mixture. VARIATION: Marbled Slice & Bake Shortbread Cookies: Melt 2 (1-ounce) squares semi-sweet baking chocolate** in 1-quart saucepan over low heat; cool 5 minutes. Prepare dough as directed above. Remove half of dough from bowl; set aside. To remaining dough in bowl, add cooled melted chocolate. Beat at low speed just until mixed. Divide white and chocolate doughs into 2 pieces each. Shape each piece into a 6-inch log. Press and mold together 1 white and 1 chocolate log to create marbled effect. Shape marbled dough into 6-inch log. Repeat with remaining 2 pieces of dough. Wrap each log in plastic food wrap; refrigerate until firm (at least 2 hours). Slice and bake as directed above. Roll warm cookies in 1/2 cup sugar. *Substitute LAND O LAKES® Soft Baking Butter with Canola Oil right from the refrigerator. **Substitute 1/3 cup real semi-sweet chocolate chips, melted and cooled. Yield:  3 1/2 dozen cookies Vanilla Nut Ice Box Cookies 1/2 c. shortening 1/4 c. Br sugar (firmly packed) 1 c. sugar 1 egg 1 1/2 t. b. powder 2 c. flour 1/8 t. salt 1 c. chopped nuts 1 1/2 t. vanilla Cream sugar, shortening, eggs. Add rest of ingredients and mix well. Pour out on board and roll to shape of log and chill. Slice. Bake 425 degrees for approx. 10 minutes. Makes 3 1/2 doz. If wrapped in waxed paper, dough will keep several days. WALNUT BUTTER COOKIES The dough for these simple cookies can be done ahead and refrigerated for up to two days before being sliced and baked. 2 cups all purpose flour 1/2 teaspoon salt 1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter, room temperature 1/2 cup (packed) golden brown sugar 1 large egg 3/4 cup walnuts, toasted, chopped Powdered sugar Sift flour and salt into medium bowl. Using electric mixer, beat butter and brown sugar in large bowl until light. Beat in egg. Add flour mixture and beat until well blended. Stir in walnuts. Turn dough out onto lightly floured surface. Divide dough in half. Roll each half into 8-inch-long, 1 1/2-inch-wide log. Wrap each log in waxed paper and freeze until firm, about 30 minutes, or refrigerate up to 2 days. Preheat oven to 350°F. Cut dough logs crosswise into 1/3-inch-thick rounds. Place rounds 1 inch apart on 2 ungreased baking sheets. Bake until cookies are light golden around edges, about 15 minutes. Transfer to racks and cool 10 minutes. Place powdered sugar in shallow dish. Turn cookies in powdered sugar to coat completely. Cool on racks. (Can be prepared 3 days ahead. Store in airtight container.) Makes about 4 dozen.  Bon Appétit November 1998 Rugelah Dough 8 oz. small curd cottage cheese 8 oz. softened sweet (unsalted) butter 2 cups flour Mix butter and cottage cheese. Add flour. Mix like for pastry using cutter or forks. Form into 6-7" flat square. Refrigerate overnight or at least several hours. Cut chilled dough square into 3 equal sections. (Re-refrig. other 2 sections.) Roll out the section between an 18 inch length of wax paper folded in half lengthwise. Rolling the dough the length only brings the dough to about 4" wide by about 14" long and 1/8th inch thick. (Keep chilled, handles easier.) Filling 8 oz. seedless raspberry jam 8 oz. raisins 8 oz. walnuts Chop raisins and walnuts together in food processor (or grind together in meat grinder.) Spread each rolled-out dough with 2 heaping tsps. of the jam. Spread 1/3rd of the nut/raisin mixture evenly over dough. Using the wax paper to help, roll-up dough jellyroll style - about a 1 1/2 roll - @. page 1 of 2 page 2 of 2 Topping 1 tsp. cinnamon 3 Tblsp. sugar Mix together and sprinkle generously over top of each log. Roll the log up in the self-same wax paper and refrigerate for at least one hour. Baking Preheat oven to 375º F. Remove one log from frig.; unroll and cut log into one inch pieces; place on parchment covered cookie sheet so turned-under part is down and "roll" is standing upright - @ . Bake for 25 minutes. Remove from oven and cool completely . Repeat for other 2 logs. Makes about 45 cookies from 3 logs. Hope these help

Georgysmom--Trader's wine actually crossed my mind! (But I thought it was 2-buck chuck--must be inflation! LOL!) Jannie: I've been to Stew Leonard's once--the same small chain as the store in either Norwalk or Danbury, Conn., correct? The only thing I recall was that they had big animated animals. (not live ones!) Yeah, people--find me something that will turn me into a once-a-month lush! LOL! There is actually chicken stock in the recipe, so there'd be no purpose in substituting, I fear.

As far as drinks, since you've gotten lots of food help, my go-to is always Bobby Flay's sangria or a winter sangria using pomegranite juice. I also enjoy Ina Garten's pitcher of margaritas, and apple pie moonshine is fun and super easy to make way ahead of time (can be consumed as is or my preference is to add a splash of diet ginger ale to cut the sweetness). There are tons of recipes for that online. I just made some yesterday to serve at the holidays. A quart jar of the moonshine is also a fun gift. Edited to add we are also enjoying a cheater paloma using tequila and Fevertree Sparkling Pink Grapefruit.