New to the idea of natives...feeling overwhelmed.
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Comments (4)I love my coneflowers. Butterfly bushes grow really fast and get way to big for my taste. If you like them give them plenty of room because they will take over a small area. Hosta is the easiest thing I have ever grown but they need quite a bit of shade. Everybody in TN has to have Irises and lots of them. I've learned to start with small trees and spread my garden from there. Good Luck! HAVE FUN!!!...See MoreOverwhelmed, need ideas, and yes this is lengthy!
Comments (27)I am so glad you took off the tile floor. We had the same in our home, and at first it didn't want to come up, but after the initial section it all came off., fairly easily. Makes one wonder why on earth anyone would cover the wood floors. Your home is gorgeous, it reminds me of the home I grew up in. It will be a real labor of love, but when it is finished it will be worth it in the end. I think the idea for a tapestry runner for your stairs is a great one. It will fit perfect there. Our stairs were not in the best condition either when we took off the shag rugs. They still are unfinished, but plan on doing the same. Isn't it amazing what you can learn from random people that stop by?? We bought our fixer upper from an estate, the PO's lived here 50 years. One Christmas when we were putting up lights outside, the adult children who grew up here were driving past and we invited them in. They could not believe how we brought the old house back to life! They told us all sorts of stories about the old house. As for colors, in my mom's old house we used a color from Behr called "Bagel" it was a neutral yellow type color that looked fabulous with the wood trim. We had the same wood moldings in that house. I wish I had some pics, but she sold the house before I had a digital camera. Can't wait to see your finished pics :)...See MoreOverwhelmed - ideas thoughts please
Comments (13)Thanks for the responses - and the link; very helpful. I have been visiting the site for some time, and have seen some gorgeous kitchens! Also think it's wonderful how ideas, suggestions, experiences and help are shared! The current though is to replace the cabinetry on the fridge wall - this is where we are thinking of adding the double ovens. There is a window above the sink, yet the lighting is poor - we do indeed want to add lighting. I really like the idea of adding a couple of doors with glass doors - I hadn't thought about that - have considered simply replacing all the doors. The cabinets are solid oak, custom made, and I'm ok with them -sturdy pullouts, etc. Not in love with the soffits, but removal adds to the budget and I'm not sure I want to spend the resources that way. I'm also quite short and have to 'climb' the way it is! :) Extending the cabinets on the wall where the table is has always been a priority, as the current design makes it difficult to have a chair on the kitchen side and still open the cabinet door. If we keep the current cabinet color (honey oak?), what are thoughts on counter top color and wood flooring? The flooring will be carried out throughout the entire level. Sink? Any opinions on style, brand, color? In addition to the kitchen update, I am in the planning stage of 'repurposing' our back closet and pantry along with a bit of the garage, into a laundry/mud room. The washer and dryer currently share space with a bathroom - NOT a good situation - especially with four sons, and any foster children we may have at any given time. I appreciate the dialogue and welcome the ideas!...See MoreNew mum overwhelming by her blue living room. any suggestion please
Comments (20)Totally get your overwhelmed feeling. I once picked out a nice shade of blue that looked way to harsh as well. Maybe your husband dislikes it as much as you do? Maybe he doesn't want to give you the blues, but is inwardly choking on this color too? I would try to find his honest perspective and if he is in doubt too, I would really and sincerely apologize very much indeed. Then I would suggest to go for at least two shades lighter and try it out on a bit of one wall first. And indeed, keeping the lower part in step with the woodwork, I'd paint that all white anyway. Although some given ideas might soften the pain a bit, it will never become what it is supposed to be. Alternatively you could make this the room of your newborn, if he is a son, and move the living room into his bedroom... just kidding ;) At least you'll never fall into this trap again for the rest of your life....See More- 21 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
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