it also needs to be for june, july, and august

You can trust this person for sure. They start out by scamming the Garden Web. Seems they have a rather loose definition of scam.

So this trash drops off the top. DA

Phyllis, my DH relocated to a place I wasn't to thrilled about either. Although I am a city girl, and we moved to Durham, which is not a real city, so that's why I was (am) not so happy about the move. Even nearby Chapel Hill and Raleigh aren't that great as far as cities go. One thing Eastern PA has over Triangle area of NC is transportation. Maybe he can commute to the train station, allowing you to live further from his job than right in the city or even suburbs. For a while DH commuted to train station near our home in northeastern MD to get to a job in DC. It wasn't fun for him, especially since he didn't like the job at all, but it can be done. If your husband does get a job and relocates the family, he should have to compromise on certain things as well. So he may have a longer commute. There are nice rural areas in eastern PA that are not too far from cetain cities. Just take a good look at all the options before deciding you are going to be unhappy. About the inlaws, I don't have any advice. I love mine, but since both our families still live in MD, we don't get to see them often enough. I also don't have kids, so there isn't the grandchildren issue to deal with. Anyway, take your time about finding a compromise that will work for both of you. I know uprooting the family isn't a fun thing to do. But you should be able to work together to make it enjoyable for both of you. Good luck. Meghan