Hi MCC - I also had major service issues with the LG washer / dryer combo I had for 4 years. Their was always one reason or another why I couldn't get service. And when I did get someone to fix they really didn't know what they were doing. I sold the machine cheap. I am using public laundry at this time and it is still a lot easier than going through the hassels. I wish you Luck. But I would never buy a LG product again. If you want to read more about my nightmare - google LG service nightmare. Peter

I'm soooo glad to hear surgery went well and that your sister is in such good spirits. I can tell that you are the morale booster of your family! Thanks for writing an entertaining account of the day-- I really enjoyed reading it and I think it speaks well of a public health system.

lol, I picked her up from school yesterday and we went back to her class to get her backpack & binder. I asked, 'you have everything?' and she said yes. Later, after 5pm she tells me she forgot her spelling words in her desk. Well, Wednesday is the night they have to put spelling words in alphabetical order and write them three times each. She knew this but I wasn't thinking about it, we had been at the doctor's office & radiology all afternoon, but she brought it up. She said she guesses she can't do her spelling since school is out. My first thought was she did it on purpose and I wanted to call her on it. I didn't. I thought about it for a while and a couple miles down the road, I said that when we get home, she can call her friend that's in her class and ask for the spelling words. She claimed she didn't know her phone number but I told her I do. When we got home, I double checked her binder and the usual spelling list wasn't there but the spelling words were. I found a loophole... the teacher sends home an optional sheet on Fridays. It's an activity they can do over the weekend and at the bottom, it gives the next weeks spelling words so they can start practicing if they want. Well, of course she was bummed that I found that and proceeded to write them out three times each but not in ABC order. DH had her redo it in ABC order. Then we watched TV for a while. She had a great attitude. Her mom sent DH a text message an hour after she went to bed to have SD call her. He wrote back that she was in bed and if she wants, she can call in the morning before SD leaves for the bus. She called before any of us were up and wanted to talk to SD so I went and got her up. I heard SD telling her about going to the doctor and say her arm doesn't hurt anymore. She started to ask BM how she was doing and then abruptly says ok, I love you too. Bye. BM apparently didn't want to 'chat'. That is the FIRST time BM has called SD in a very long time, I can't remember the last time she called her. The doctor called me a few minutes ago to say the X ray shows no break. He said she probably pulled a muscle if she fell on her hands playing on the trampoline. There's not much to do for it, he said to apply heat and showed us how to stretch the muscle. It will resolve itself in a few days if she rests it. and I do agree that some lying... about school work or brushing teeth, etc. are common at her age. I don't know if it's normal or alarming, and I understand the lies she tells her mom to get mom's attention, but she is old enough to understand that there are consequences for those kinds of lies when mom gets CPS or the police involved. There could be great consequences for DH and me. I was more concerned with her lying about injuries, being hit, and things she complains to her mom about but doesn't tell us. We don't find out until BM calls DH to chew him out or now, until she calls CPS. SD never complained to us about having to eat foods she doesn't like and when she told DH about her arm, she only mentioned it once and he didn't see a reason to go to the doctor and she never complained to us about it again. And we don't know if SD complained to her mom or if her mom is the one that is asking her if she was seen by the doctor but I don't know why BM would put it on her daughter to get dad to take her to the doctor if SD isn't saying it hurts. I'm probably overly cynical of BM, but I'd say she knows SD fell on the trampoline and got hurt and didn't want to pay for a doctor visit so she told SD to tell dad her arm hurts so he can make sure it wasn't hurt too bad. SD told him a couple of days after coming back from BM's, after she got off the phone with her. BM might have reminded her to ask dad. DH looked at it, and didn't think it was broken and considering SD had gone to cross country and was swinging her arms around earlier, concluded it wasn't too serious. SD never told him she fell down on the trampoline. I'm sure she didn't want to get mom in trouble, although we don't know exactly what happened so it could be an innocent **stuff happens with kids** accident or it could be she was not being supervised and got hurt. We don't know that and we already know BM isn't going to tell us if she did anything wrong. But, when SD came home this last weekend, she did tell DH that she collided with her sister on the trampoline and cut her lip. She said her teeth went into her sister's leg. That was on Sunday and on Monday, she didn't call BM but she did call BM on Tuesday and after she got off the phone, she again told DH that her arm hurt. On Wednesday is when CPS went to the school so it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see how coincidental it all is. I'll admit that I am pessimistic when it comes to BM. But, I've never been wrong about her actions.. not yet anyways. I have been surprised that she has done some things I've predicted because I honestly was fooled at first and she presented herself as a GREAT mother. But, maybe because of my 'control freak'ness, I noticed little details that went unnoticed by my DH about her. I mean, she did things that I found odd being a mother myself. I went through custody issues with my son's father and we would fight over who gets him more, not who has to take him. She was always asking him to take SD on her weekends but if he ever offered to let her make up the time, she said she was busy. She never asked to makeup the time either. Then, when she refused to help her daughter do a school project, that pretty much sealed my opinion of her... she actually told my husband that if I want to do 'mom' things (like bake cookies, which I guess really upset her) that I can help her with her school project too. Hearing her say that shattered my image of her being a wonderful mom because I can't imagine saying or doing that to my own child. It's been downhill since then and she has aspired to new lows as a mother, in my opinion. The only one I did not see coming was her moving away and giving us custody, that blindsided me because we had just spent several months (and thousands in lawyers) to fight for custody and she fought it so fiercely, I never imagined anything would cause her to give up her daughter so easily. Maybe that is why SD was so affected too, she saw how fiercely her mom fought to keep her, only to be discarded two weeks later for a stranger. (so, yes I have had a hard time not resenting and hating BM for doing that and I need to learn how to let that go, but it's hard)

LOL Don't get me started on "call waiting" I have a friend who abuses it and I find it very rude when she calls me to chat and then when she hears the beep puts me on hold or says I will call you back and chats with that caller. She loves talking on the phone and she will take calls from every Tom Dick and Jane from the time she gets home from work until she goes to bed. This friend has visual call waiting and call answer If the call isn't important, don't use the call waiting and let the call go into the answering system or just call them back when you are finished talking with me! I try not to call her anymore but when I do I can tell my call is a call waiting call. I try to hang up when I hear the difference in the tone but if she does answer after she has put her chatter on hold I just tell her to return my call when she was finished with the call she is on. I have call waiting only because I had to have it on when I was using Webtv. Call Waiting comes with my phone package. Unless I am waiting for a call I just ignore the annoying beep while talking to someone else because I think it is rude to put the person I called on hold. I don't get many calls so my call waiting beeps are very infrequent and if I am waiting for a call I tell the person that I might have to take the other call beforehand before we start chatting. Worse than call waiting is the person who has called you - same person above LOL and while you are trying to have a conversation she is talking with everyone else that is in the room with her. She never taught her adult kids to not interrupt her while she is talking to someone else. I can be in the middle of a sentence and her son will ask his Mom where his glass of water is, or can she take him out for dinner tomorrow, etc and she answers him and continues a conversation with him. I just tell her to call me back when she has time to talk without interruption which is NEVER! I rarely call her anymore but she calls me every night and lately I have just been ignoring her calls because when she calls she isn't talking to me. LOL I would never have interrupted my Mother if she was on the phone unless it was a dire emergency. Oh! and the above friend can't be without her cell phone either. She panics if she hasn't got it with her. She will go back to the house for it even after we are halfway to the mall. Why do people feel the need to walk through the mall talking on the phone while you are shopping with a friend! I don't get it!!! Her adult kids can't leave her alone even for 1/2 hour outing and I am not kidding. I would love to know why my friend feels she has to be available to everyone all of the time. The world will not end if she does not have her cell phone on her or if she doesn't take every call immediately while at home. Her adult kids will manage or perhaps even learn something if she let them do it on their own. LOLOL Anne