If your friends need some stressed or broken welds repaired on their Dixon Zero Turn or Ridding Mowers. Take it from me and tell them to just bring the Floating Deck where the repairs are needed âÂÂOnlyâ (vs helping to R&R the deck). Even for a friend that is too time consuming vs the welding repairs. I think they will Slow The Mower or Purchase A Tractor to cut th open City Property (that has never been occupied, appearing as Parks but new holes and Etc). This was our 2nd repair in about 5 yrs and I hope our last. There possibly had to be some neglect for the deck to need as many stressed or broken welds repaired.

Relax everyone, this thread begins with a political screed having little relationship to the "environment". Change "environment" to immigration or public education and the rant is equally applicable. Mother Nature has pro-enviro lobbyists, but they all compete from the same limited pool of financial support and figure-heads. What Mother Nature doesn't have is widespread and deeply committed citizens working toward pro-enviro ends. When environmental conditions become so bad (if they ever do) that the powers-that-be cannot divert public attention away from the mess, they political action might bring about marginal improvements. Environmentalism/love-of-nature/outdoor-ism/etc. is in the heart of each of us who claim to have voices to be heard about environmental issues. Environmental ethics win the hearts; hard politics win the programs. OTOH heavy-handed govt action has proven ineffective, often counter-productive in promoting the elements of environmentalism at the bedrock of our visions for the country.

Haahahahaa! Karen this is SO funny. I'm bursting into laughter reading these posts again, and remembering writing and reading them at the time. Well done! And my favourite part about Martha Stewart dropping in with her dish towel parachute!!! WAY too funny!

Hi again. Yes, he has a vistation order - has had ever since the divorce. So there's no doubt he should at least get visitation - the only question there is if they could somehow enforce it. I expressed my concerns to the attorney that it might be best if we got some transition visits before full time custody (so we could all get to know each other). He said he thinks DH can get custody now, but even if not he'll at least get visitation - but the trick there is that she will take off again and we're back to square 1. The attorney says they may be able to have child support order amended so that if he got visitation and she took off again, the court would order that CS be escrowed (DH would still pay, but she wouldn't get the $ if she ran) If she knows her money is at stake (she doesn't work, CS is her only income) then she might stay put and play fair. According to attorney, the only thing to be done about her not allowing him his visitation is to file contempt charges. Nothing criminal about it - simple contempt of court order. So unfortunately, yes, she can just take off with them and it's not really that big a deal from her perspective. Of course part of the statute is that she has to pay all costs associated with the proceedings - but like we'll ever see any of that money from a woman with no job. I don't know how CS works everywhere, but here in Ohio you get a debit card - so your current address isn't needed to get your money. It is put on your card each month and you just use the card like any visa/debit card. CS doesn't even have MY current address and it hasn't effected my receipt of support (I'm just lazy and haven't updated records in a year - my ex and I get along great so no worries there) So, she has never told the court or CS where she's been the last 5 years either. DH has paid THOUSANDS in attornies and investigators to try and find her over the years - but she keeps skipping. So he's hoping this time she stays put long enough for him to get some resolution to all this. As to DH wanting custody so he doesn't have to pay support - I don't buy it. He paid her CS even BEFORE the court ordered it - and when he had contact with the kids he also bought their clothing and school supplies and misc items (because she flaunts sick son church-to-church to get donations, free clothes, free school supplies - whatever she can. This woman has NO SOUL! She also eventually gets caught stealing from each church!) DH is genuinely concerned with making sure his kids have what they need. And despite his unrealistic expectations of what is to come, he truly wants to be in the kids' lives. Ceph - you are so right! I am focusing on the negative language with myself and I need to change that. I KNOW I CAN handle this - but honestly, I don't know if I WANT to. But I also know myself, and I will suck it up and do the right thing - I can't leave 3 kids who need help. Damnit! By the way - I am SOOO glad I found this site. It's really reassuring to know other genuinely good people are willing to admit their inner struggles and the fact that stepparenting is hard. It's nice to not feel alone!