Good morning ladies and germs! *That got such a good respone on Davesgarden.com that I can't resist once more saying it!:) You guys are cool. I visited Chub Harper yesterday and I'm going to start again hammering away (Ken are you listening) on the ACS Database. Even though a grant through the ACS will be provided to someone to do the same, there's a lot of work that needs to be done so the world can have access to the best resource...that's ever been available. Thanks again ya all, and Resin - you're the horse that everybody never bets on, but they should! Don't ask... Riddles that make sense only to me I'm going to let fly - thanks a lot my friends. Dax

I'm not saying it's all my SIL's doing. I'm wondering if that isn't the case because of his upbringing and the things he's said about working his parents. This was said during a private conversation with my SIL, that I can not discuss on an open board. Not at this time anyway. I'm sorry I cannot explain more. I doubt I'll ever know for sure where the better gramma comment came from. It doesn't matter where it originated, it anyway, it still hurt like, pardon my french, H E double hockey sticks! As for Patty's comments that were quoted, she said "could be" meaning she wasn't sure either. We're just discussing the possibilities here, trying to find answers, not accusing anyone. Up until this point, I've had no real concern about our SIL. Even now I can't say that I don't like him. I'm not happy with his reaction to my needing sleep while on vacation, though if I were to write up a pros and cons, I'm sure the pros would outweigh the cons by a long shot. Being married, with in laws, myself, I realize it's not always easy blending the ways of both families into one that works for all involved. My MIL was downright rude about the way I did things when I first married her oldest son. Being brought up on the Thumper Rule, I was shocked! It seemed to me that there wasn't a thing I did right and she pushed the issue with my hubby, which to me it seemed he sided with her. Looking back, I realize he was just being quiet, not wanting to take either side, where I was hoping for comfort. I'm sure he didn't understand why I was being so "sensitive" as his family does not hold anything back! From the outside it might look like they don't love each other. From the inside, where I've been for over 34 years now, I've learned that it's their way of keeping each other accountable. Not a bad thing, but boy did it take a while to understand that. I'm very much a "Thumper Rule" sore of person still and find it very hard to "step on someone's toes" so to speak and tell them I don't like what they are doing unless they ask outright. I like harmony and was blessed to live a very harmonious life throughout my whole childhood. Up until the move to big bad Omaha, during the mid sixties, I thought everyone loved each other. Family or not. My family life was still "perfect". Maybe that's why I don't know how to deal with my current situation. I don't believe a MIL should butt her nose into her children's marriages. It's a new and personal relationship that needs to grow on its own. There will be ups and downs, but it's not my place to push my way in and tell either of them how to live their married life. However, after being treated the way I was, I feel I do have the right to let my feelings be known so they know why we will not be staying at their home again and the reason's why. Personally, I'd like to tell the in laws or anyone else that happens to stay at their home, that our daughter did not learn that way of treating guests from me, but I will not do so unless they bring it up. LOL ellendi you are so right. I want to have a good relationship with both my daughter and her husband. I pray they have as great a marriage as her Dad and I have had and his parents, have in their second marriages. I do believe it's best to talk to our daughter alone the first time. After that, if we Skype while her husband is there and he brings it up, I'll discuss it. Otherwise, I don't feel I know him well enough yet to bring it up over Skype. Which is part of the problem. Neither of us know each other that well yet. The first time we visited he was on duty during the day. When he arrived home, both hubby and I noticed a vibe from him that we felt, he needed family time, so we'd head back to our hotel shortly after he arrived home. The second time when hubby and I stayed with them, our SIL was off duty for the week and we did lots of activities together. We spent Christmas day on the beach. I don't go into any water with fishes (don't ask LOL) so I sat on the beach, playing with the baby while they all boogie boarded. A couple days later, I volunteered to stay home so they could go snorkling without having to worry about the baby on the beach in the sun. The beach they were going to didn't have a good place for those that didn't come to snorkel. No shade. Hubby and I had baby duty, of course, and it became very tiring for us both. One would change her while the other ran down to the kitchen to make her bottle. Neither of us got much sleep that week and were exhausted when we got home agreeing next time we'd try and get a cottage on the beach or stay in a hotel suite. I don't know if this trip would have turned out better had my hubby been with me. His guess is they wouldn't have treated me the way they did. We'll never know. Now I'm just waiting for the time to pass so I know our daughter is away. She and the baby sleeps until around 9:30 Hawaii time, which is five hours behind where I live. It's not even seven am there.

The IAQ can control humidity by either overcooling or through the DHM terminals on the EIM. The DHM terminals can either control a dedicated dehumidifier or a VS blower in the air handler. Either way, the IAQ has to be correctly programed, and the EIM DHM terminals have to be wired to the the air handler or dehumidifier properly. No bets on any of that having been done correctly. My new system is living proof that it can be done wrong. This thread reminds me that I need to correct it now that summer is nearly upon us. Even if the EIM is wired to the VS air handler correctly, the installer still has to program the IAQ for the correct brand. Rheem, for example, is different that most of the other makes. I recommend that you defend yourself by making sure you have all the relevant documentation on hand. You need at least five documents. 1. The VisionPro IAQ Operating Manual 69-1815EFS-06 2. VisionPro IAQ Total Home Comfort System 68-0287-1 3. Honeywell VisionPro Installation Guide 69-1816EFS 4. Honeywell VisionPro Installation Guide EIM 69-1823EFS-1 5. The installation/wiring diagram for your air handler. The four Honeywell IAQ documents are all different manuals, although there is some overlap. They are all available on line as PDFs. You will need to do a thorough Google search to get them all. The suffixes following the last dash appears to be the revision number. I would leave that out of the search. If you have a hard copy of any manual that covers the installer setup, use that instead of a download. Not all the downloads are current. If they didn't leave you one, demand it. Failing that, compare your PDF version with the actual settings on your IAQ. If the PDF is missing a setting or two, you have the old version. Lastly, you really need to learn all the programming of the IAQ, not just the owner part, but the installer part, too. There are far too many HVAC "pros" out there that don't have a clue on how to set one of these up properly. It's not just the dehumidification that you need to understand, but the AUX heat lockout settings as well. If not done just right, the IAQ will happily keep a very even temperature in your house by running the aux heat when you don't need it. That's how mine was left by the installers. Luckily, I spotted it before I got an astronomical power bill.

A FUNNY STORY. A few years ago my friend and I went to Las Vegas. She had a brother from California who was going to meet her there and I had a friend there. We live 4 hours from Sioux Falls SD. We had to drive down there, get on the plane and go to St. Louis and then straight out to Vegas. Well we got there without any problems. It was time to comeback and we got to the airport early and my friend told me to wait for her while she went to a smokers hut for one last cigarette. She said I cant get on the plane without you I will leave my boarding pass with you. I went to play some machines in the lobby there and there is no clock so you dont know what time it is. She came back and didnt see me and thought that I had gotten on the plane without her. She told the stewardess this and they went on the plane and paged me. Well it was time for the plane to be leaving so someone else told her they would just make her a new boarding pass. SHe got on the plane and first thought that they had just given her a new seat. Well she got up and couldnt find me. So she sits down and tell the stewardess " I think I just left my friend in Vegas" she says no maybe not so she checks her seat chart and asks what my name was so she checks the whole plane and says looks like you did. So my friend goes on tho St. Louis. Meanwhile I am still waiting for her to come back. Then I notice that the place is empty. I go up to someone and ask them and they tell me I just missed my plane. This is the first time I have ever flown on a big airplane. I flew once beforeon a 4 passenger one on a 3 hour flight. So I asked him what I should do. He told me to go down stairs and see if I can get on the next flight. SO I sm running down there and I had to stop because I am having an anziety attack and couldnt breathe. I got a ticket for the next flight and had to wait another 2 1/2 hours. My friend found out that I was on the next flight. She got to St. Louis and went to the ticket counter and asked if she should just keep going to Sious Falls or wait for me there. The clerk said "Honey if your friend didnt knnow enough to get one in Vegas, she sure will be lost here I think you better wait. So she got to sit in the airport all day. Well I finally got there and I didnt know if she would be waiting for me. I saw her and I was so happy. We went into a smokers hut and we were laughing so hard we were crying. Im sure everyone was looking at us. The first plane we were supposed to be on had mechanical trouble so we had to change planes. But it was in a different tarmack quite a ways away. we didnt have much time to get there. She is a nurse and there was an elderly lady that was having trouble and she was trying to help her and I didnt think we would make it, but we did. I was supposed to be at work by 6:00 the next morning. She said she would drive home and I could sleep and we would still make it. I said OK. We got to Sioux Falls and he couldnt land the plane because of fog. He tried a couple of times and then they announce we are going back to St. Louis. Mt feind wasnt very happy because she had just spent all day there. This was in April I think. We got to St. Louis and they said the plane was leaving at 5 the next morning and they werent putting us up in a motel. Well some of the more experienced flyers grabbed pillows and blankets, but not me. I had on shorts and a short sleeved shirt. This is in April and it wasnt very warm but it was when I left Vegas. My luggage is in SF. I told my friend that a few weeks ago I had read in a Readers Digest that most big airports had a chapel and I asked her if she wanted to go there with me because I thought they would have pews that we could lay on. She told me "If you think Im going any place with you again you are crazy and if your not here in :the morning im leaving your butt here" I went to the chapel and everyone else must have read that same magazine. People were laying all over and covering up with anything they could find including the rugs. Well I was cold and the only thing left was the altar cloth. So I used it and I thought Godf wouldnt want me to be cold and he would forgive me. It took me a long time to finally tell my mother that. Ny oarents were very strong Catholics. Well the next morning we left at 5 and got to SF and it was still foggy he tried 3 times and finally found a hole to come down in. Now I blame my friend and she blames me but we are still friends and still joke about it a lot. I hope you all enjoy this story. My husband got stranded once on the Interstate in ND when he was hauling mail to Fargo from Bismarck. A blizzard came up and they were stranded in a rest area and we didnt know where he was for a while.