do you tip people who work on your home?
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Comments (12)Renee, you have done a beautiful job! I think it's perfect as-is! I had to laugh, as today's task is to re-pot "some of those cereus-trailing-cactus thingies" that I stole from my son's yard. I hope I get it right this time. Your question? I try to improve the view from my bedroom window, as I sit there online, for 12+ hours a day, with a few gardening breaks throughout the day. So I look at a huge Catalpa tree, and some Bird of Paradise... One important goal is to improve the view I see as I drive up the street TO my house. I landscape or garden for MY pleasure, not the neighbors, and I prefer to see a tropical paradise, like the one you are creating at your home. Well done! What city do you live in? Everything looks very lush and healthy. Honestly, I wouldn't change a thing. Best of luck! Thanks for sharing those photos with us....See MoreDo people comment positively on your house?
Comments (25)Unfortunately, there are those that didn't learn "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Some people love my home; then there are those that I can tell it's just not their taste, which I understand completely. We decided long ago our home would be built for us, even if no one else ever set foot in it. This was supposed to be our last home, so it was not built for resale at all, like others were built or purchased. With that in mind, it would not necessarily be appealing to the general public. No wine fridge (don't regularly drink wine, and I have an extra refrigerator in the laundry/craft room next to the kitchen, why would I install a wine fridge?), no pot filler (cooktop is two steps from the sink), no "movie or theatre room" (we seldom watch movies; if we do, we're doing other things at the same time, in and out). I did not use the "usual" materials in all rooms, and switched flooring a lot, even though I know that it's preferable design to stay with one or two types of flooring to preserve flow and not chop up the rooms visually. I love my walnut floors, my checkerboard beige and white tile in the laundry/craft room (always wanted black and white, but that was too much contrast with other design decisions), I love my purple wool carpet in the guest room, and the two different tiles in the adjacent bathroom. That feeling of being transported to a "feel" that I had envisioned for each room that I wanted, and enjoy every time I step into a room, was more important to me than impressing others with a "flowing" house with one type of flooring. The sheetrock guy told us a neighbor had come in during construction with his wife, ignoring the worker, and walked into what obviously was the hearth room which is open to the part of the kitchen--intentionally designed to be more cozy, for immediate family. The neighbor turned to his wife and said, "They call this a great room? This isn't a great room, they need to come to our house to see what a great room looks like." We never spoke to these neighbors about our house or plan, had only said hi to them at an HOA meeting before we even built. My husband's younger brother, who had just gotten his contractor's license "for fun" walked up the stairs and pointed out he could see some of the nails through the paint under the risers. A friend and her husband came, and he walked around and informed me I should have installed fluorescent lights in the garage bay ceilings (I SPECIFICIALLY had regular porch lights installed--I can't STAND being outside the property at night, especially entertaining, with soft lighting inside the house and those glaring fluorescents visible through the garage windows. It's incongruent, my neighbors do that--it's an OCD thing with me. ;) Also, last year a contractor came out to do some work and I brought him through the house to direct him to the back poorch, where he pointed out, unsolicited, that my kitchen cabinet drawers were uneven and it was because no doubt my builder used "cheap runners." At the time I had already arranged for a carpenter to address that issue--but I didn't appreciate a stranger walking in and immediately telling me my kitchen drawers were substandard, even though he was right. He also told me about what he thought my house was worth. He had no clue that he was being offensive and rude. Some people don't think before they speak and some intentionally think and speak with foul intent, usually from a petty or just ignorant perspective. My advice is to be confident in your decisions and not care if anyone likes or dislikes your home, although it's always a good feeling to know others are happy for you, or enjoy your home too--to me, that's the best part--sharing what you have with others. I would not ask anyone anything, don't offer to give anyone a tour of the home unless they ask, and make sure to "read" whether the person is genuinely excited for you, interested in your home or build, or is a very good friend. If any of these, you are probably safe discussing your home or bouncing ideas off of them. Also--I have had a habit of pointing to guests the "flaws" in the house and the few things I wish I'd stuck to my guns on, not to apologize for anything, but so that others with a sharp eye don't think I don't know it. I wish I hadn't done that. It's like pointing out a run in pantyhose (when's the last time any of us wore pantyhose?). Enjoy your home!...See MoreWhen people bring their fundraisers to work -- What do you do ?
Comments (40)Our official workplace asks us to donate to the united way we get the envelopes, this is as far as workplace fundraising should go. There is no negative response if you don't, no one knows if you did or didn't so there are not any judgments on your character either way. Fundraising by individuals does not belong in the work place. Anyone who brings in such fundraising junk into the lunchroom at work finds it moved off the kitchen table and shoved on top of the fridge or the shelf unit in the corner of the room. Expecting co workers to pony up for your kid is not ok. If you want to walk you kids all over your neighbor hood or hit up relations more power to you. But I suspect many don't want to make that effort when they can just dump it in the lunchroom and guilt there co workers who they see everyday to just give them the money. Our department collects money at least once or twice a month for showers, going away gifts secret Santa etc. There are also people requesting to be sponsored for this ride or walk as well. Those fundraising say if you don't want to donate you don't have to. But when you don't what they really mean is why can't you just give us money everyone else gave whats wrong with you. They speak negatively about those who do not want to participate. It doesn't matter that you may not have the money to share or you don't want to give to that charity or school, or you already give to you own favorite charity. I ignore their request regardless of how they feel and move what ever it is away from the table. And let it be know that the table is kept clear except when you are eating at it....See MoreDo you tip housecleaners in your home?
Comments (37)How I would deal with a cleaning service would be very different than how I deal with a cleaning woman I hired. A service is a business; I don't tip the saleslady at Macy's who helps me - Macy's pays her and her salary is between them. With my own cleaning woman, I pay her what she asked for. After a year, when I go away for a month (she comes every two weeks), I will give her a day's pay during that time as "paid vacation". I know she counts on her money but I don't want her in the house when I'm out of town - she's just too flakey. I always give each $100 at Christmas. Every 2-3 years, I give my yard man and my cleaning woman a raise. My yard man has been with me for nearly 12 years. I'm afraid he's getting to the top amount I can afford to pay him - at some point, all jobs reach that point. If I had a new cleaning service or cleaning woman in my house, I would definitely stay home the first 2-3 times they come. They may have questions or you may see them doing something you do NOT want them to do (rearrange your book shelves?) so being there is a good plan. I still have to stay around with my "new" cleaning woman (started last Aug) as while I have told her WHAT to do, if never occurs to me to tell her what NOT to do as things she does astound me. A few months ago, I was out when she cleaned my library and when I returned, the smell of PineSol was overwhelming when I sat in my upholstered club chair - it was so powerful, it caused me an asthma attack. I couldn't imagine what on earth she even need to use PineSol for in the library - had some been accidentally spilled? I called her and she told me she had "wiped down" my upholstered chair with a cloth with pure, undiluted PineSol on it so the chair would not "smell". My chair did NOT smell - I'm not a smoker and I don't pee on my chair! In 50 years of cleaning women, this was a first. Who knew I had to tell her not to do this? Thank God she didn't do it to the cotton/linen velvet LR sofa! At least my chair was cotton and a quick wipe down with clear water and a good room airing solved the problem. Yes, this IS the same woman who still cannot put the sheets on the bed correctly so we do it together. Believe me, if I could find someone else, I would. But since it is not impossible for me to do any cleaning, I'm stuck with her. I just have to try to anticipate her flights of fancy....See More- 5 months ago
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