Vaccine for pancreatic cancer!
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Comments (36)I so agree with folkv- keep the memories alive. It is so hard to know what to say and when to say it. But I feel that it really important to always speak of a child's parent. I think it can truly help them make choices in life even if that parent is gone. I have always tried to mention how my BIL would have felt about a given situation with both the kids and even my sis. He hated ties and I suggested to my sis that when his kids get married the groom should not wear a tie because dad would have thought that was funny. Would tick my mom off, she never liked my BIL, and that would have made my BIL laugh even harder. Even though someone has passed I feel their spirit lives on in us and can be so useful. ajsmama- I wondered how the service would go. Your post has brought me back 12.5 years to my having to watch my sis and her kids. It was something I would not even wish on my worst enemy. Please, stay in touch with these kids as much as you can. Family is so important even if it is just a card or call here and there. You seem to have such a caring heart, please share it with them. It will help you all. And one thing that is soooo important is that we allow ourselves to grieve and be sad. Everyone goes through the stages of grief but not in the same order. One may be quiet at first and yet the other is vocal. It may seem confusing but it is just our nature of processing grief differently. So don't be surprised by the kids behaviors, keep on your toes and don't avoid speaking about K no matter how difficult it may be. She is still their mom and always will be. Things, events etc will come up and it may feel uncomfortable. The best thing is to face things straight on. And you are right about the wedding thing. I told my sis that there is just no way to "avoid" everything without ruining the day. I told her that every guest there will be feeling the same thing, they all knew her dad. Sometimes the best way to deal with the sorrow is to not do the "oh, so sad her dad isn't here to see this" but rather "her dad would be so proud of her, this day is exactly as he would have liked it to be for her". I think it really is about how you choose to deal with it and to not focus on the sad but rather the joy of the day. She will figure it out and it will be a wonderful day. Again, wishing you all as much peace as possible....See Moremy husband died of pancreatic cancer
Comments (19)lldaunt, its ok to cry. We all need it. We've all done it and just when we think its some better, something else pops up and we start to tear up again. Its ok. I am a "list-maker" After G died, and I was rested somewhat, I knew I had to keep busy. I made a list of projects that needed to be done, and things I had to put aside while he was so ill. Some were kind of silly, but these things kept me going and on the right track. Like paying bills, chores, crafts, etc. Some of the things on my "list" haven't been completed yet, and maybe some will never be done. But for me, the important thing was to keep my mind and hands busy. I know that sounds terribly old-fashioned, but it got me over the initial shock and helped me to realize that I was capable to "going on". I journal every day. and my lists go there too. Why not start one about your life with your loved one? Make it as intimate as you want. If its for your eyes only, whatever you want to write. If its for your children/grandchildren to learn more about Frank, thats another slant to consider. I think that would be a very nice legacy to give to your family. Most importantly, take care of yourself. Get enough sleep, eat properly,& if on medications, make sure you are taking it correctly. Give your self time. You can't "heal" overnight. God Bless & Keep you Jan...See MoreImportant! New Vaccine protocols
Comments (7)These protocols are not really that new, nor are they Dr. Dodd's- a task force consisting of many distinguished veterinarians produced the guidelines, and Dr. Dodd is NOT one of the authors. The canine protocols first changed in 2003 and were updated in 2006. The feline protocols were first established in 2006. Dr. Richard Ford, one of the authors of the protocols, is one of my teachers, so I am very well familiar with the subject. Here is an article written by Dr. Ford on the subject. Please read specifically the section titled "The AAHA Canine Vaccine Guidelines and the 3 year vaccine." Oh, and NC State CVM does NOT follow Dr. Dodd's protocols; vaccines are left to the discretion of the veterinarian following a risk assessment for each individual pet. For example, Rotties and Dobes are recommended to return at 20 weeks for a 4th parvo booster due to their extended duration of maternal antibodies, while other breeds are not. Finally the statement that "Once the initial series of puppy or kitten vaccinations and first annual vaccinations are completed, immunity from MLV vaccines persists for life" is NOT true unless your dog or cat only lives to be 7 years old. They duration of immunity is greater than 7 years, but how much greater is unknown. Sorry to burst your bubble, but I do believe in giving credit where credit is due, and Dr. Dodd is NOT an author of the vaccine protocols, nor would NC State use her protocols when we have our own author of the protocols on staff. Finally, it is VERY important to read the section on the "3-year vaccines" because that is NOT what the authors intended. They intend for each dog and cat to be assessed for risk and vaccinated accordingly. Any vet who uses the same vaccine schedule for every dog is being lazy and not doing his/her job correctly, IMVHO. Here is a link that might be useful: Dr. Ford on the vaccine protocols...See MoreMy sister has pancreatic cancer!
Comments (60)My Dad died at age 79 in August of pancreatic cancer. Mayo thought he had a shot at beating it, but it wasn't to be. He did make it a year though-he had surgery to remove his pancreas, spleen, and gall bladder which made him diabetic to boot. It wasn't easy figuring out the shots, counting carbs, plus getting chemo. At least he had time to get all of his affairs in order. Hospice offers free grief counseling for a year for immediate family members. So sorry you lost your sister and your DH....See More- 12 months ago
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