First too mant different things. IMO all the same cabinets with 2 different counters or all the same counters with 2 differnt cabinet colorsd Rainwashed from SW is a nice real neutral but still a color but not what you are planning. IMO it is too soon to choose wall color since it sounds like nothing is in yet. I know builders always want to paint before the floor goes in but honestly there is IMO no way to choose wall color at that stage. I never like real stone and fake stone in the same space a alundry roo is easy to paint later if what you choose doesn’t quite work as for the rest I guess choose something that seems right Is the light in ? If that is in and is all LEDs in 4000K you might bea ble to get some idea for wall color.the 4000k will allow the colors to stay true at night. I happen to like a really soft gray. green when I am forced to choose wall color with no context and then a white for the trim that is the same as the cabinets.Easiest get a door from the cabinet place in that white and get it color matched for trim.

Visited BM with wallpaper sample. Staff suggested Antique Jade which looked reasonable in store but reads too mint in kitchen on sample board. So I tried BM Color Capture feature on their app, snap photo of darker green in wallpaper and then selected paler color down the spectrum. BTW, feature was accurate using iPhone, not so much with iPad. Ended up with Grey Mirage which I’ll sample this weekend. Interesting that it looks sort of mushroom which was what I was going for months ago before going green. It’s a journey.

IMO you are doing this backwards. Wall color last choice , Counters after kitchen design and cabinets are chosen You cannot choose colors with no lighting in place You do not mention flooring which BTW needs to bechosen before any of these things are decided . I think you need a ID to help and honestly 20' high ceilings are horrible for lighting , sound control and huge $$$$ for heating and cooling for no purpose . Too late now to fix that but slow down these other things until the space is at least lit . IMO cabinet color trumps wall color for sure Lovely looking home why fake plastic stone ?

I agree with DeWayne, it is possible to have too much of a good thing. The two woods you're considering are roughly the same as far as lightness/darkness, but pine will be (if not in the beginning, then certainly over time) more yellow or orange and the two can't really coexist. There is a wide variety of what is called "Farmhouse" style. Do a search of the pictures on Houzz to see if you can find something else that calls to you but would work better with pine floors.