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Comments (8)Good timing. We just got home from Harry's 61st reunion and those 79-year olds looked pretty darned good. And had a great time! Now I'm looking forward to my 50th next year in Indiana. We always have the best time and don't care that much that the guys have no hair and we don't weigh 105 anymore. We're just glad to see one another....See MoreDefine *Old Lady* decorating
Comments (142)I know I'm a tad late chiming in, but feel impelled to add my thoughts. I do totally understand the viewpoints that tend to paint OLD with negative brushstrokes. That being said, I find I am more and more bothered by comments, both on GW and in the outside world, that have a condescending air in reference to any decorating style that predates whatever the commenter considers "modern and up-to-date." I would love to be a fly on the wall in their houses in 30 years and watch their expressions when a younger person sniffs at their "yucky so out-of-touch with Current Style" decor. To me there is nothing wrong with surrounding yourself with items and colors and patterns you love, whether they were acquired 50 years ago or yesterday. I personally like what I liked 40 years ago, plus things I have found along the path to today. I think it is important to keep my home uncluttered, clean and scented with flowers and fresh air (and definitely not oriented to electronic media!) But whether others consider my style awful because it isn't oiled bronze square light fixtures and whatever the current fashion in hard surfaces is, does not bother me one iota....See Morecute...little old lady
Comments (2)When ya gotta go ... ... ya gotta go. Maybe she shouldda been in the Scouts ... ... What's their motto, "Be prepared!"? o j...See MoreOld ladies
Comments (70)I think we all sometimes read meaning or insult where it is not intended, or at least that is my take blfenton. Littlebug's comments are unnervingly identical to my own thoughts about my life at 58 YO, and how I view women who to my eyes have the luxury of time. I think what she was trying to convey is the sense that at some point the strictures and time demands of employment become more burdensome than the rewards. As Bill Clinton said once in a talk I attended, when you have more yesterdays than tomorrows you start to think more deeply about how you want to spend those tomorrows. I also look with yearning at women who do not have to get up every day and be somewhere for X hours, who can decide what they want to do, or take the time to do what they need to do without squeezing it around 40-or more-working hours. And I do think women experience this more. I personally would never, ever say that a SAH mother of babies, preschoolers or toddlers isn't incredibly busy or stressed during those days at home. But I will probably irk some folks here by saying that, to my eyes at least, once kids are launched, living a SAH life seems a lot more relaxed in general...in fact what else is retirement but living a SAH life?! Obviously people have many burdens and duties that may not be clearly visible. I know we all do ourselves as women a disservice to play that game of who's got it worse/who's got it better. It's only human nature to compare and judge and if this topic shows anything, it shows what a terrifically wide range of life experiences and personalities exist. You can be vital and engaged without having worked a day of your life for pay. You can be vital and engaged and be working while raising children. You can be any combination of those lives, or an entirely different life :). What is so useful for me is reading these stories and experiences. It opens my eyes and my heart to other ways of having a happy and productive life, especially as I get older and face inevitable changes of how my life will unfold. This conversation gives great guidance on how others seek to find connection and engagement, which is in the end for most of us the way we find our happiness....See Moremaddielee
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