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Comments (7)I'm in east tennessee. The winters are mild, but we do get cold enough that i think the bin would probably freeze at some point. However, it's worth poking around in there to see what I can find - I like to keep a variety in Sheldon's diet and free turtle food is my favorite kind :) I did a lot of reading about worms yesterday, thinking there may be a way to breed the canadians, but it looks like that is pretty much impossible. It definitely looks like Euros are the way to go, and I'll likely just mix them into my current bin - if the wigglers are happy the euros should be too. Here's my next stumbling block though - we're getting temps in the 30's and 40's around here lately...is it safe for the worms to be shipped in this weather? I'd hate to pay a lot of money for worm-sicles... Thanks for all the great advice!...See More15 year old son - friend died, now he sees no point in life
Comments (4)First of all, don't give up on the therapy--this is what many would consider an emergency, so DO NOT let the therapists put you off. Call your local children's hospital for a referral or, if need be, call the suicide hotline for advice. Yes, the threat is vague, but you're absolutely right that it needs to be addressed, sooner rather than later. Beyond that, try to get your son interested in doing something to make a difference. Maybe he could initiate gun safety talks for younger children, or perhaps there's some way he could volunteer with the police. Brainstorm with him to try to find something he (and perhaps the other 2 children involved) could do to make the world a better place now. Even if it's just getting a playground or Angel Garden installed in the local playground in memory of their friend. The more you can get him involved in making a difference, the more worthwhile life will seem to him. My nephew was similarly depressed when, in high school, he saw his best friend fall through the ice and die. There was a bridge keeper right above where the accident happened, but he had no emergency equipment available (it would have made a difference). I suggested to my Dsis that nephew see if he could raise money to get the equipment so nothing like this ever happened again. They went to the mayor/counsel, and THEY agreed that it was necessary and provided the emergency things for the bridge. My nephew was the catalyst and was able to feel that at least he helped stop this from happening again, hopefully. I reallly think, getting your son involved in something that makes a difference is the way to go here. Might take a little encouraging, maybe even a little subterfuge (you might present it that YOU want to start some sort of memorial effort, and see if it doesn't encourage him to get involved, rather than pushing the idea at him when he may not be quite ready for it yet). Very sad story--my condolences to all who have been affected....See MoreBAD Condo Rule -- No kids in pool during adult hour
Comments (112)Just one data point here. Most of the rules Livvysmom listed are at my neighborhood pool as well. 2. No Food, Glass, or Pets in pool area We have the same. People break the No Food part but the No Glass and No Pets are pretty strictly enforced for obvious reasons. 3. Persons having open cuts, sores, rashes or communicable disease are not permitted in pool. I don't think we have quite this rule because the kids always get cuts and the life guards put bandaids on them and send them back into the pool. 4. Children must be toilet trained, and if under 12 must be supervised by a responsible adult. Usually this has to be with health regulations for toilet training and insurance for the under 12. Our pool just changed the age to 12 (from 10) due to insurance. Swim diapers don't contain fecal matter so I'd rather children wearing swim diapers be banned than allowed. This is the first year my four year old son is allowed in the "big" pool because he did not toilet train until after he was three. 5. Adult (age 18 or over) hour is 3 pm-4 pm. 9. Only Coast Guard Approved personal flotation devices allowed, No swim fins, tanks, coins, floats or toys in pool area. The pool allows coins and toys (e.g., pool balls to toss around) but no fins, tanks (!), or flotation devices (waterwings and such). If a child needs a flotation device then the parent has to be with that child at all times. This is actually a safety issue so that parents don't get "lazy" about supervising a child who can't swim. People used to gripe about the flotation device rule until a 6yo child at another nearby pool drowned. He was wearing a flotation device of some sort, went to the restroom, took off the device and did not put it back on. Jumped into the pool. Drowned. The parent or adult in charge was not with the child at any point during this time. It's easy to blame the parent but I think putting a child in a flotation device gives a false sense of security for lots of people. 10. No horseplay, running, jumping or screaming. The extent of horseplay and screaming and jumping is usually up to the discretion of the life guards. Some are strict and some let the children (teens) play if they are the only ones in the pool area. 13. No Diving Obvious safety issues and insurance. We have a diving well. One member brought up the point that if the diving boards (low and high) were removed, the pool insurance would be alot less. The dive team parents objected to this notion....See MoreWhat would you do?
Comments (48)dreedree, this is the first chance I've had to respond to your thread, but I've read each post and would like to add my perspective, because something not too different happened to us once. By the way, our kids share a common heritage of being half Irish, half Chinese. But mine thankfully never received any comments about fitting into the demographics! Anyway, I think that as our kids are growing up, inevitably, some things will happen occasionally that are unfair. I believe we have to decide which battles to fight, and which to just let go of and chalk up to "lif'e not always fair." I myself made one decision that I regret, because it just seemed at the time like a futile effort. But I believe I should have persisted until I got the matter settled. When my DD was graduating grade 8, all the students who made the Honour Roll were asked to come up to the stage to receive their award when their name was called. My daughter made the Honour Roll, but her name was never called. For a second we thought perhaps they were giving her a special award, since she had earned the highest marks of her graduating class. But that wasn't the case. I obviously didn't want to make a scene right on the spot, so I waited until afterwards and went to the principal to ask why she wasn't called up for her award. He told me I could speak with him the next day at the school. When I went to talk with him, he told me that since my daughter was the Valedictorian, and had received a certificate for that, he hadn't felt it necessary to give her an Honour Roll award as well! My daughter was very happy to receive the certificate for Valedictorian. But it was not reflective at all of her scholastic achievement. She ended up giving the Valedictorian address because when the teachers asked the students who would like to throw their hat into the ring, no one volunteered. But since DD had represented her school in Public speaking for the past 5 years, she was comfortable speaking in front of large crowds, and agreed to do it. The Valedictorian certificate has her name and the date printed on it. But DD had nothing that says she earned a place on the Honour Roll. The Honour Roll award was a gold medal with the date, the student's name and "Honour Roll Recipient" engraved on it. It came in a nice box and had a blue velvet ribbon that it could be hung from. Her Valedictorian certificate was not only in a cheap plastic frame, but more importantly, it is not reflective of her academic achievement at all. When I pointed out to the principal that she should have received something commemorating her hard work to earn such good marks, he acted like I was being trite, because she had received something. It was especially important to her because the school had been giving out Honour Roll medals since grade four, and DD had earned one every year. So now, the other students who had also accomplished this(like her DB) would have 5 medals to put in their collection of school awards, but DD would be missing her medal for grade eight. We almost felt like she shouldn't have agreed to give the Valedictorian address, since that's why she ended up not getting an Honours medal! But when I tried to impress upon the principal that she shouldn't be excluded from the Honour Roll medal just because she happened to get a certificate for Valedictorian, he just said that he wouldn't be able to get a another medal now, it was the 2nd last day of school, etc. etc. I tried to offer to get it myself if he would put in the order, but he insisted the place makes medals and trophies in bulk and wouldn't make up just one medal. That sounds so much like what happened to your daughter! There were only 2 days left of school and the principal was obviously too busy to care. I debated about going over his head to someone higher in the School Board, but ended up deciding they would probably just consider me a whiny mother and not want to bother with something so 'trivial' when they were closing things up for the summer. My DD was upset about not having the medal, but she was also caught up in the excitement of graduation dinner and party, and didn't dwell on it too much, so I kind of let it go. DD is now a happy, well adjusted 20 year old who won a scholarship to university. But even today, whenever anyone is complimenting her on her academic achievement, she mentions that the one thing that disappoints her so much is having that empty space in her grade 8 album where her Honour Roll medal should have been displayed! So even though it wasn't a Pulitzer Prize, that medal meant a lot to her, and I shouldn't have capitulated so easily. Of course we always think of things too late, but I should have informed the principal that I would be calling back the following June when the school was ordering the Honour Roll medals for next year's recipients. Even if he wanted me to pay for it, at least the school could get one made up for her along with the bulk order. Unfortunately that thought didn't pop into my mind until DD was entering university, and it was too far in the past. So I thought I'd just mention that if the company just isn't able to make up a single badge at this point, don't hestitate to let DD's troop leader know that you will be requesting they order one for her in next year's batch, even though it will be a year late in coming. They would have absolutely no reason to not be agreeable to that!...See More- 2 years ago
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