Kitchen saga continues, on and on and on (frustrated gripe)
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OMG -- another delay!!! (long saga)
Comments (11)It is so very frustrating, isn't it? My kitchen took 9 months from demolition to completion (well, we still have a punch list of stuff, but no one has been here since before Thanksgiving, not pushing because completion of punch list means last payment). I was assured it would be done in the spring, and then certainly by July 4th, and then I realized I'd better cancel the party I had planned for my husband's birthday in August. When my mother said that I would be lucky to have it done in time for Thanksgiving, I laughed, but she was right. We had a major mistake midway that required a big redesign, and some brand new cabinets to wait endlessly for. Weeks where no one came, vacations that interfered with the job, a million little problems that added up to big delays. But you know what? I had a party on Sunday. Late Saturday night after I finished cleaning my kitchen to perfect, I sat staring at it, and I love it. All the bad times are just a funny story to tell. I was discussing the whole process with some women, and we decided renovations are like pregnancy. It feels absolutely endless while you are in the middle of it, and it is so unpleasant and painful at times. You swear you will never do it again, and you'll never get over how much harder it was than you thought. But then when it is done, you forget all the pain and agony, and just marvel at your creation. My advice? Vent like crazy here. Read stories about people's much worse experiences to make yourself feel better. Remain calm, and realize that just about any problem can be fixed, and human beings make mistakes. And as my mother likes to say "this too shall pass." And in the end, it will all work out, and you'll be thrilled with the end result. It really is worth the wait....See MoreNeed prayer about my kitchen!!
Comments (13)Thank you, thank you! I just finished meeting with her, and I felt so much relief because she said indeed something was very wrong. My sample door worked great with the natural hickory, but my actual doors have wild variation unlike the sample (I have 3 of my actual doors here and you can see the big knots, super dark striped patches, etc). The designer said it would have competed horribly with the variation in the hickory. She said intuitively I was picking up on it -but I obviously couldn't identify or communicate it- and that's why I was having so many problems moving forward and feeling so uncomfortable with it, which was a great relief because I was feeling like a huge pain in the butt to everyone like I should just shut up and do it. Just knock it off, stop being a picky client, get over it, just QUIT IT! But she said my reservation saved me an expensive mistake. So the answer is that we are staining the doors and panels darker more like a chocolate (a color she pulled from an Acacia floor sample) and she said the lighting in my house could handle it. And the floors will either be the saddle hickory or the natural hickory. Probably saddle. It works well when we hold the Acacia color next to either hickory floor. OH SUCH RELIEF! Yay, I am out of the rut. Finally, peace. And Rhome, you are so right, it's just a floor, the people who walk on it are really what makes my house a precious home. She said it will be kindof like this. This is my actual floor but in handscrapped. Mine will be smooth. I love how things work out....See MoreContinuing saga of unacceptable seam
Comments (49)I have never been thrilled with the seam in our Silestone (color = Gedatsu). I would have been way happier with no seam at all but that was not possible. The seam never upset me tooooo terribly but it was a little bit of a sore spot for me for a bit after the remodel. Now going on 4 years later I only notice and think about it every now and then, not often at all. And when I do I think, Oh that darn seam, I would be great if you weren't there! And I move on. So many other great things to concentrate on, I won't let that blasted seam ruin everything else. I hope this helps? AND while we're talkin', something I never wrote about is the fact that the underside of all the silestone wasn't polished! It is a chalky white. You can't see it unless you bend down and look up so it's not a big deal at all, but I really would have been much happier if they polished the underside! Anyone else have theirs unpolished? Was I to request it be polished? Did they screw us over by not polishing the underside?...See MorePart II: take a peek at my "soft modern" small kitchen design?
Comments (165)Hey feisty! Long time no see. What great progress you've made. And, yours is not the longest reno for a small kitchen. I'm right there w/ you, still! Don't start a new thread. Keep this one going so everyone can see the progress over time. I love love the tile! I actually chose blue like that for my backsplash. However, I haven't put mine up! So, as you can see, your reno is no longer than mine! I was moving along & doing well & then I brought it to a complete halt about 8 months ago. I'm now thinking about tearing my whole house down & building 2 on my lot! Keep one for me & sell the other. I'm still not sure if I'm going to do it, but I hate to put anymore $ into the kitchen, & whole house for that matter, if I'm going to knock it down. Still iffy on doing it, but am thinking seriously about it. We'll see. You have come a long way & it looks great. I think you should do the tile. I don't think it's going to be trendy & date the kitchen down the road. I thought the brass was going to be trendy, but it's still going strong. Go w/ what you like! I can't wait to see more!...See More- 2 years ago
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