We used an 8" spread on top of granite using an undermount sink.

blfenton, thanks for the encouraging words. three sinks ago we had a franke, and it cleaned up much easier and better than the Elkay that came after it. Our current sink came with the house and is okay but it is a 50/50 double bowl and a PITA!!! I can't even put a small frying pan flat on the bottom of it for cleaning even if I am angling it diagonally. The sink decision is such a big one ... I think it is one of those things that you don't really notice until you have a really good one or a really bad one. rococo- i love the caesarstone. I can get a very good deal on silestone, not as good on caesarstone, but I am not as jazzed about the silestone choices. My budget got a break today in a couple of ways. First, with the encouragement of those responding here today, I am much more comfortable with Ticor. As much as I really love the Stages sink, I can get two really nice Ticor's for less than the one stages and the Ticor comes with great accessories. Second, I was able to get hooked up with some very attractive pricing on my appliances which is a huge relief and takes a lot of pressure off the budget. Finalizing my appliance choices is at least one step in getting over the finish line. I have been as back and forth with appliances as I am with sinks, colors, countertops, etc. -- Back to the sink and your comment about size: In my last kitchen, I had an Elkay 21" sink and that was my only one. It was SO inadequate and I think that is why I am fussing over this so much. I want to spend the money and be REALLY happy with the result. mydreamhome, boxerpups has the Oliveri too. I had never heard about it until reading through some old posts yesterday where she mentions how happy she is with it and how reasonably priced it was. Leave it to me, the one I happened to like costs $1,000... it never fails! breezygirl - you're brilliant. I love the suggestion of switching prep and clean up. DH is on board too. This frees me up to make some changes to the sink selections and feel really good and settled about it. Do you worry about the walnut being damaged by the water? not sure, I'd have the stomach to do this. What type of finish is on your walnut? did you get it from grothouse? It is beautiful! Thanks again for your astute observation on the plan... I am SO thankful as I think this is a big break through. clueless, does the wood transfer the heat effectively? I heard that tile was the best at this but we are new to this. The house we bought has a radiant bathroom floor and this is tile and very toasty warm. Such a luxury - I love it... very much lookign forward to this in the kitchen which is currently FREEZING. davidro1, thank you for all the thoughtful suggestions. your point about flipping the base cabinets next to the fridge is a good one -- Done! I think I need to make a trip to Ikea ... I forget about it as it is about 1.5 hours away. Sorry about the illegible text - I increased the size but what happens is that Photobucket thinks my image is too big so it doesn't show up here unless I resize it down. will try again. Thanks for all your insightful comments. Briana, I couldn't agree more.. made the switch. it will be all one level - this new arrangement has the sink closer to the wall. I am reluctant to move it any closer as I don't want to knock my elbows against the wall while cleaning up. Am thinking of a six inch pull out cabinet between the wall and the sink base. Green Designs, yes, I did switch fridge/freezers. In the end, I just couldn't give up 48" of space and really didn't have a good location if i were to split them up and put one here and one somewhere else. We are going with a 30" built in Subzero. I really like the interior layout. It borders on being too small but as DH points out maybe this will mean we throw away less food. We will either have an extra fridge in the basement or if possible the fridge/freezer combo undercounter drawers (depending on how things work out with this friend who is helping me with appliances). RE: the sink, I love all those Euro accessories.... again, i need to get to Ikea!! I don't think I want to move the sink around the corner though as I really want a view into the backyard while at the sink. I like to watch the dogs play in their pen and I like to keep my eye on the kids while they're out there. Lavender, i love that sink - the countertops remind me of what i had in my old house. i'm going with undermount though as i want to optimize the cabinets in the corner and don't want to worry about leaving extra filler space so drawers can clear the sink. Re: your other post, I think I would do more prep by the window when alone and more on the peninsula when the kids are around. Currently that time is split about 50/50. I think equal size sinks will allow me options. I like the DW on the peninsula as I was concerned about having it between what will likely be a heavily used area. Plus in the morning when the kids are eating their breakfast, it will be so easy for me to clean up while being with them. cmm6797 - the prices I have seen on the Elkay's are as much as the stages (or maybe just because I love the Avado sinks... maybe those are more??). In the last house I had an $800 Rohl faucet... not this time around! Thinking about Moen - have been reading good things on these boards about them. I had to make a $200 repair to the Rohl which burned me up. I don't think it will seem like as big a deal with a less expensive faucet. I have been to a few places where they are hooked up to water so that you can try them out but unfortunately the ones I like the styling of have not been hooked up. I may have to roll the dice. I am just hoping for a pull down that doesn't act up, or droop down when it is supposed to stay put. sayde, I looked at Carrara the other day. The salesman told me of a company that if you hire this guy to seal the countertops, they will be guaranteed for life against staining. they don't obviously make any guarantees about etching. I just love marble. I had thassos in my last house in the master bathroom and just loved it. I did get a bad etch on it (had vinegar in the bathroom... long story, don't ask why). I was very bummed out afterward - it was a bad etch and the thassos had been so beautifully polished. if I were to do marble i would do honed for sure and i'd get the guy who guarantees to come and seal it. Thanks again for all your help today. This plan has come SO far since I first posted it about a month ago. I really appreciate all the help.

Shezzy: Thank you SO MUCH for pointing out the difference bet the Ladylux Plus and Cafe. I had totally missed that one was a pull down and the other a pull out. I guess the Cafe is the one! What did you use for a prep sink faucet? Would you recommend using the same one? Thanks again! Kailuamom: is your sink SS? Shipping may be a bit easier on SS than the Silgranit sinks. But thanks for the tip on shipping to Hawaii. My architect continues to tell me that general contractors don't like it when you order stuff yourself and really discourage you from doing it. The excuse is that supposing something arrives damaged then it's your problem not his. But they charge at least 5% over the price (which is probably way more than what I could get online) that it's really silly not to get some of this stuff yourself. Thanks again!

While standing for long periods at a deep sink can cause backache for taller people who have to bend more, there are other causes of back ache at the sink. And there are other ways you can mitigate the issue. Get a faucet that reaches farther toward the front of your sink. Some of the high arch faucets' spouts are very close to the rear of the sink, and make you have to reach farther, which means bending more. Even just a couple of inches make a difference. You can look for faucets that have a longer reach toward the front, of 9" or more. One nice one is the Hansgrohe Allegro E Gourmet, either the high arc version (10-3/8" reach) or the Semipro version (11-3/8" reach), but there are many other faucets to choose from. My point is, be mindful of the reach length of the faucet you choose. The type of floor you have can contribute to backache. Tile can cause back strain for some people. If you are able to, try a cork or wood floor. Also buy one of those gel mats to stand on in front of the sink (there's been some threads about those on this Forum, if you want to google). As noted in posts above, a sink grid will help because it raises the depth another inch or so.