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Comments (9)Hi, Ilene. You have certainly been a glutton for punishment. You are also good at owning other peoples' problems. If you have decided to become more self protective now and enjoy your pool and give more necessary attention to your husband, good for you. You are the one that will suffer if you don't slow down a bit and take better care of yourself and DH. There are social workers that can come to the assistance of your Mom if you are unable. You can make a referral to the Office of Aging in the county your mother lives in if you are no longer able to meet her needs. Definitely, you have the right to be the the one to decide how much and what you are able and willing to do for anyone. If your Dad is nicer to you, it is understandable that you would more easily be able to help him out--and your DH is the person you will need to lean on when you need help, so you certainly want to care for him! If you are still willing to have your Mom visit for the holidays, of course you have the right to set the terms-overnight or whatever. She's probably not going to have the good grace to appreciate anything you do in any case. You could be in for a surprise, though. As you begin to set firm limits and boundaries with her, she may beghin to show you more respect. Justy don't hold your breath on that. By the way, imo you express yourself very well. Some of us have just been so mangled by misguided English teachers that we can't see the forest for the trees when it comes to composition. If you still have problems with any of the above, give a copy of what you have written to a counselor and he or she will see very clearly how to support your move toward greater assertiveness. With the new health insurance we all now have, there will be more access to counseling for this sort of thing. It's easy to let one's family pull one down, especially in stressful times and by invoking undesired guilt....See MoreI'm a baby!!!!!!!!!!!!
Comments (16)ME TOO, I am in my seventies and still have a time with needles. Jannie mention the smallpox vaccinations. I still remember that Saturday in the early 1940's that mother walked me up the steps to the doctors office the get the smallpox vaccination. Can hardly remember what I had for dinner last night, but that is still vivid in my mind. After you received the injection , a plastic shield was placed over the area. The doctors office was on main street in our little town, when I see those steps going up those stairs, I still think of that day. I never look when the needles go in now, but still my heart races when I know its times for an injection. Had a blood clot issue about 5 years ago, and hubby had to injection me everyday in my stomach. When I was in the hospital they ask if I could inject myself. WHAT, that was going to be very hard if I could not handle the sight of a needle. He did that about three months for me. Yes, I am still very afraid of needles....See MoreI guess I'm not a very good stepmom
Comments (8)"I have never felt it really was a blended family, more like two families living under the same roof." You're right, it's not a family. I think in order for a blended family to be successful there has to be one set of rules for everyone in the house. The two parents should come to an agreement on these rules and apply to them ALL kids the same. It sounds like in this situation what's good for the goose is not good for the gander. While you have no problem with your husband correcting your kids, he has a problem with you correcting his. When the two of you discussed getting married, did you discuss family rules and how discipline would be handled? If not, I doubt there's anything you can do to save your marriage and why would you? Sounds like your husband has reached his limit. He's already kicked you out because he said he's warned you for three years not to interfere with his kids but you continue to do so, your daughter is suffering as well, she stays in her room all evening when she gets home from school. And it seems you are stressed out seeing your husband's kids heading down the wrong path. Why subject yourself to more stress? I think you are better off without him and his family. Your husband seems fine with his kids behavior, so why would you subject yourself and your kids to more of the same?...See MoreGeneral anesthesia for cavities in young children
Comments (33)Elmer, you are correct that special needs hospital dentistry is available at dental schools. I live in a state with one school of dentistry. Our wait - from initial consult with general dentist, to the procedure being performed: October 2017 to May 2018. I know a fantastic private dentist practice in a neighboring state- even longer time wait. He finally found a second hospital dentist to join his practice, but admits he could use more. I’ve met many many parents over the years in dental waiting rooms and hospitals. I have yet to meet a parent who was doing this for convenience, (what’s convenient about a seven month wait?) or indulgent parenting/spoiled brat scenario. What oftentimes appears to be a bad parent/spoiled brat is actually a stressed parent of a child with a challenging behavior or sensory disorder. Us moms of the spectrum usually recognize this very quickly when we see it, and I try to be patient with those who do not. My cousin’s child had hospital dentistry done, not special needs, but severe tooth decay- genetic, environmental, I don’t know- even though cousin was a model parent when it came to diet, discipline, and any other parent blame I can think of. A lot of folks seem awfully opinionated or judgemental about a situation they seem to have little real life experience in....See More- 3 years agolast modified: 3 years ago
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