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Comments (20)As you all know, I 'm not an assiduous forum follower,but seeing as Campanula, like me, seems to be trying to do a very big project on a very small budget, I though I'll throw in my 2 cents. I think the sooner you manage to swallow the Reality Pill, the better it'll be for your wallet. I've wasted an awful lot of money (and worse yet, time and energy) in the 16 or so years that I've been working on transforming a part of my land into a garden. First, it took a while to realize that gardening in the wilds just is too different from gardening in "garden soil"! I'm beginning to think that , for example, direct sowing of seeds may well be impossible for me, at least for several more years,just because there's too much competition from weeds (not to mention brambles and broom and vitalba...)One of the reasons I got so into roses in the first place was that they can hold thier own in some pretty rough terrain. In fact, I'm still at the stage where my focus will remain on woody plants,shrubs and trees. I myself never used herbicide; I always figured that that it was as bad as it's brother "cides",insecti and fungi. I tamed areas of deep bramble jungle by chopping the plants down, and covering them with thick black plastic sheet for a year or so. This year, I'm FINALLY focusing on doing a real mulch job on as much of the cultivated area as I can,using cardboard covered with organic stuff. I'm hoping that over the summer this will tame the weeds enough so that next fall, I'll be able to plant out some perennials among the roses. Eventually I'd love to underplant with perennials as a living mulch... I hope this doesn't sound discouraging; I don't mean it to be so. I think you'll definitely be able to do this, Campanula. I don't follow your threads that much (so please forgive any impertinence), but I gather that your DH and son do help you,and probably in England I imagine that you don't have to worry as much about drought and watering young plants as I do here in Tuscany,so you have several advantages going for you! I guess if I were you, I'd just focus on one small area for my first years' garden,cultivating that, whilst surrounding areas that I was plannig to incorporate into the garden in future I'd begin taming with the chopping/black plastic technique (or whatever other thick screening material you canfind or buy cheaply). Tru, it's not pretty to look at,but you can avoid poisons that way. For the first year or so, you get your Gardening Jollies working on the small cultivated plot, and planning what you'll do with the part that's "cooking" under the plastic. Then, next year or the following, you pull up the covering and can go to it on a larger scale, recycling the covering to do a subsequent area, etc. Good luck,and try not to get too discouraged. "Rome wasn't built in a day" to coin a phrase, lol...bart...See MoreGrafted vs Own Root - lesson learned years later
Comments (15)European roses are always grafted - the only own root roses will have come from personal cuttings. Since there is a huge climactic range across the whole of continental Europe, I am a bit mystified by the US craze for bare root to the exclusion of all else, especially when many old and beautiful gardens contain grafted roses which are practically ancient. In fact, I would go so far as to say that the argument essentially holds validity for commercial rose-growers, who use certain methods for both convenience and tradition. Of course they are going to claim superiority for this or that method - for those of us who simply buy and grow roses in our own gardens, the own root vs grafted is of less importance than selecting appropriate plants for climate and soil conditions. As someone who has an almost equal number of each, although I grow roses in a temperate climate, I find this dilemma is one of the least contentious - of far greater importance is the continuing care and maintenance which plants receive (or not) once planted....See MoreA lesson learned (I hope) A vent
Comments (6)Jannie, the way I read it, it's not that it was made in China, rather the seller was in China and had to return it to the seller, in China. The way I look at ebay is no matter whether it's "new in the sealed box" or not, it's still a used item. I wouldn't buy without a substantial discount unless I can't get the item locally or from a known source. I've had mostly good experiences with ebay, but a couple bad ones. One was downright fraud and neither ebay nor Paypal were cooperative on it and after looking around a bit more this vendor is notorious for these issues. Caveat emptor. And sometimes we learn lessons the hard way. I know I have a few times. Sorry for your troubles. Don't let it get you down too much, for your own sake....See MoreI have learned my lesson!
Comments (70)I know this is an old thread but it makes me grin. Rosie, are you still able to keep numbers down? I was around here when you were just getting back into av plants, (remember shihtzu4su?) and I do believe we did a trade or two and you sent me some kcups! I went thru the same thing you did... I was expecting my third child in 2015, and - get this - even LOOKING at a violet gave me an attack of morning sickness! At that point I had six shelves full of African violets and babies, and I couldn't handle taking care of them. So I started pitching.. And giving away, and narrowed it down to three shelves and one narrow window sill for minis. That winter I started pitching even some of my mature plants because they looked so awful, and I was paranoid about non-existent bugs. I was down to maybe 10 standards and 10 minis! After my child was born, I still wasn't interested in violets much anymore, tho the poor things did finally get repotted and watered! This spring I finally started caring for them again. Put them on wicks, groomed them regular, and actually fertilized them! They are rewarding me with bowers of flowers! I have a total of around 60 av plants now... (That's 40 plants and 20 diff varieties with leaves down) Most are minis, because they seem to suit me better. :) I understand the throwing out stuff now too... Whew. Was hard on me then but I do it callously now! :D Anyhow thanks for the chuckles. the way this thread switched directions half way thru had me laughing....See More- 3 years ago
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