Houzz Call: What Did Your Dad Teach You About Making a Home?
Fathers share skills and wisdom with their kids. What did you learn from yours?
Erin Carlyle
May 25, 2017
Former Houzz Editorial Staff. Writing about the cost of renovation and what it takes to remodel. Former Forbes real estate reporter. Fascinated by cool homes, watching the bottom line.
Former Houzz Editorial Staff. Writing about the cost of renovation and what it takes... More
Many of us have learned some real-life skills from our dads. Some dads taught us how to fix a clogged toilet, others how to cook a delicious meal. After all, part of the work of being a dad is preparing us to go out into the world and thrive in our lives — and homes.
For this Father’s Day, please share in the Comments something large or small that your father taught you about turning your house into a well-run, happy home. Your contribution could be featured in an upcoming story.
For this Father’s Day, please share in the Comments something large or small that your father taught you about turning your house into a well-run, happy home. Your contribution could be featured in an upcoming story.
With furniture. Some dads can use their woodworking skills to make a coffee table, while others know how to keep the dining room table gleaming. Still other dads are whizzes at transforming old furniture into something fresh.
What skills did your dad teach you about caring for or even creating furniture? Tell us in the Comments!
What skills did your dad teach you about caring for or even creating furniture? Tell us in the Comments!
In the kitchen. James Vaughn does a lot of the weeknight cooking in the Vaughn household, while he and wife, Lynda, share the load on weekends.
Was your dad the primary cook as well? What did he teach you about cooking or about caring for your kitchen? Share your experience below.
Was your dad the primary cook as well? What did he teach you about cooking or about caring for your kitchen? Share your experience below.
In the garage. Houzz reader bimmerboy7770 loves to work on cars and motorcycles, and also enjoys woodworking, a hobby passed down to him by his grandfather, whose tools he still uses today. Did your dad pass on a love of working in the garage or wood shop?
Tell us: What did your father teach you to do at home? How did he help make your home what it is today? We’d love to hear your story! Post your memories and photos in the Comments.
Tell us: What did your father teach you to do at home? How did he help make your home what it is today? We’d love to hear your story! Post your memories and photos in the Comments.
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My dad taught me about using quality materials that last. He also loved to entertain. He showed me you don't have to spend a fortune to have a good time with friends.
I wish I had a photo handy - but my dad taught me how to build a house :-) My father built our home on 12 acres of land that he bought from my grandfather, in the late 50's. I could be found by his side every chance that I could -- watching him every step of the way. A favorite funny story in our household was the time I got so close watching him mix concrete - he poked me in the eye with the hoe! Except for the roof, he built the house entirely by himself, self-taught - nights and weekends - it took almost 3 years to complete. It was made of concrete block - a modest 3 bedroom ranch-style home built on a mountain - overlooking the valley; it was a favorite of ours to watch 'sheet/or heat' lighting below on a warm summer night. It was a wonderful place to grow up, but sadly we only lived there for 3 years. He was offered a "handsome sum" (he thought at the time) by a developer that knew a highway was to be built through the land (about 10 years later) -- but of course, my dad did not know that at the time. The house stood for several decades - and is now the site of large hotel. My love for construction continued throughout my career - first as a draftsperson and a project cost controller in the commercial construction industry for many years until the downturn in 2009. Although I got a job in another sector, there is a part of me that wishes I could go back to my roots, but too many years have past and my skills were left behind. My dad is now 93 years old and still going strong! :-)
I found out later that this was a stolen motto from some notable actor back in the day ... but My father was regular in telling me and my three brothers: "Never pass up and opportunity in keeping your mouth shut". And you know .... later in life I found out that in some circumstances, this mind set actually does work. Especially with a spouse on home renovation matters ...