Did you buy your age in place home and then change your mind?
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Comments (2)aimless-well not really? DH was so busy with gcing that he didn't want anything to do with the granite and that bugged me. He likes it but while I was busy sweating it out he didn't care or have time to care? For certain things like faucets and sinks it was a set it and forget it. I actually ordered on line the day after Thanksgiving (even that stuff is on sale) and what was done was done. I did change my mind on the 1/2 bath faucet but was able to cancel and order what I wanted. It was bugging me from the time I clicked 'submit order'. I was trying to be cost conscious and it was a little bit more. It is my favorite one. We did change our shingles at the last minute and so glad. We dodged a huge miss with that one. Funny though - now I work in the flooring industry (started at the tale end of our build) and thankfully I can honestly say I haven't seen anything that makes me regret the choices I made - I guess that's a good thing. ;) Granite-I read your other thread. I was choosing between 2 and neither were budget 'friendly'. I like what I have but I honestly think there are a few that I would have been very happy with. At the time though I tortured myself, lol. I would say if you already just feel meh, not really liking it then I probably wouldn't do it. It's too expensive at any level to just say okay to it if you already don't care for it so much. And just to freak you out a little more - I think they look different horizontal than vertical. I see things now that I didn't see then. Some that are wow so cool and a few - hmm didn't notice that before. Oh well. I picked out the exact slab at the stone yard. Confirmed visually that it's the one the fabricator ended up receiving and told him where to place the template. I'd do it that way again if it's any stone with movement or individual character. My slab had some really different sections. It was not homogenous at all. By the way - it is alaska white as well. I also liked river white too. So much beauty it's hard to choose just one! Hang in there. It will be okay in the end. The journey is the crazy roller coaster part. I wanted to jump a few times but I made sure I had my seat belt on and a bag of chocolate at all times....See MoreDid you buy your small home...
Comments (75)This is the SMALLEST home I have ever lived in. Growing up in New England in a 5000 sq ft Victorian was fun. When I married we owned a 2500 sq ft Cape Cod style home 4/3. When the divorce came, and I did not want to live there anymore, I sold my equity to my d ex h and his new wife, and had enough to buy my current home. It's 1100 sq ft, 3/1 (one bathroom homes should be against the law, imho) but it was on a 1 acre lot, the kids could walk home from school, I could afford it if child support stopped, and it did from time to time, so we never became homeless. It was built in 1959 and in 1995 Hurricane Opel sent a tornado to re-do the place. So I have a 59 slab and 95 house. Same floor plan, just modernized. I want to build a new home, but I cannot find a builder to build a 1200 sq ft home. They say 2500 is minimum build. Even when I am paying CASH. So, here I stay, in a large home by myself and my dogs. My kids are grown and one has finished med school and one is in med school. They are the real benifactors of having a small house payment (under $300) I could spend my modest income on my kids and not the house. My neighbor was an original owner, and he and I discussed house payments one day. He said he never new each month how he would come up with the $65 mortgage payment on his salary with 5 kids in a 3/1 1100 sq ft home! I live in the deep south, Alabama, and my electric bill for a/c is $65/mnth, and I keep it cold in here. I am a Yankee! God bless small homes. The sign on the door says "Cabin Sweet Cabin" J...See MoreHow do you change your husband's mind?
Comments (32)Dh & I talked about it, and have started working on an overall plan. I made chart listing changes one or both of us want to make, and whether they would help sell. Dh wants to approach it as if this were just a house we wanted to flip, putting the least amount of money & effort for the biggest impact. And that is probably a good idea. If it works out that we don't need to live within a few yards of mil and we keep the house, we can still expand the one bedroom and enlarge our closet without tearing up too much of what we do now. A few of you have mentioned that we've lived with this closet for 15 years and it is just now a problem. But that isn't the case really. The closet has always been something I wanted to change, and at one point it was for dh too. BUT, we have a walk in closet in the family room and dh took it over for his sporting equipment. We have a walk in closet in the garage and dh took it over for his work related stuff. So yeah, now the closet isn't a problem for dh, but even more so for me because now my stuff has been squeezed out of the other two closets. When we were talking today, dh said he has a lot of seasonal clothes he could put in another closet. One guest room closet is packed with our "this doesn't fit right now" clothes, and the other guest room closet is empty, but I told him I have dibs on it for MY sewing stuff. It's only 2x4' but beats nothing. And yes, we need face the fact that neither of us are going to lose weight and get rid of the clothes that don't fit. That will be another small closet open. jak1, that is probably the best idea - a free standing wardrobe. We have an armoire on the wall next to the closet now, but no hanging space. I could probably rework what is in it now, fold a lot of dh's t-shirts and maybe put baskets on top and ease the crowding in our closet....See MoreDid you splurge on buying your lot/raw land for your house?
Comments (68)The land was originally 500+ acres on a land grant from the Governor of NC before the Revolutionary War. So, it's been in my family for 200+ years. We're exactly the same, even the same state. Also have friends that live 30min away from our city because they "wanted to be by their parents, wanted to be out of the city, wanted cheap land with woods..." but nobody goes to their houses for entertainment and they're always the ones driving everywhere. Ick. I grew up in that type of area, and we moved to a more populated area with better schools while the kids were growing up ... but now we're looking to go back. However, I can't relate to the "nobody goes to their houses" part; our family tends to gather out in the country. It's easy to host gatherings: No parking problems, space for cookouts and picnics, kids love playing in the woods and have a barn instead of a playhouse, people feel free to bring their dogs, and we have a go-cart track, an archery range, and a rifle range shared by the family. You can't have a bonfire in the city. When we build, we're going to add a pool to the mix. Also, most kids don't like growing up in BFE, parents end up having to drive them everywhere.. Having grown up in the aforementioned "BFE", I understand you: We couldn't walk to friends' houses, going anywhere required a car, part-time jobs as teens weren't plentiful. However, growing up out in the country comes with some benefits that kids tend to overlook: ample space, learning old-fashioned skills, and programs like 4H. I think it's unfair to say that MOST kids don't like growing up in a rural area. We have no way to verify that....See Moredeegw
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