Ideas for hostess gift

3 years ago

Besides candles, which my daughter suggested, what do you bring for a hostess gift when you don't know the person at all? I've been invited to Thanksgiving at my daughter's boyfriend's mother's home. It now has been changed to her sister-in-law's. I think it's her sil anyway. I almost backed out but then she made me feel like it would be okay.

Anway, I haven't been to something like this in a long time. I normally know the person, so know kind of what they like or don't like. When I lived in Germany I always brought wine but I don't know if these people drink or not. I don't want to do candles because I have asthma and who knows if these people can tolerate them.

There is a little gift shop in town and I thought about dropping by there and seeing what they have.

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Kathsgrdn
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3 years ago

Thanks for all the ideas. I picked up a cute little serving plate with a spreader attached in a Christmas theme.

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nekotish
3 years ago
I have several ready-to-go hostess gifts which are my standard. A package of pretty cocktail napkins with a spreader tied on with ribbon.
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satine100
3 years ago
Im in the same situation and Im thinking of either cut flowers or small box of chocolates.
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carolb_w_fl_coastal_9/10
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Agreeing with Satine - flowers or a nice sweet. If you know they drink it, a bottle of wine.

Can you ask your daughter's boyfriend for any helpful insight?
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3 years ago
This time of year...a pot of mums, that could be planted in the garden or a center piece on a table. Or...a gift bag with coffee, tea towels, pot holders, a cute elongated white tray, for serving small snacks/cheese. I spend about $20-$25...done!
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chloebud
3 years ago
“Can you ask your daughter's boyfriend for any helpful insight?”

I was wondering the same thing.

Check the gift shop you mentioned for something cute or holiday-themed. A pretty potted plant is always nice. I’d be pleased with that from a guest I didn’t know.

I like nekotish’s suggestion of the napkins and spreader. Someone once gave me a small cutting board (6”x7”) with a couple cheese knives as a hostess gift. Still have them.
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3 years ago
A Poinsettia!
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Kathsgrdn
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3 years ago
My daughter was going to check with him but still haven't heard back. He's in school/studying and she is working two jobs so I don't want to harrass them. Thanks for all the suggestions. Will check the little gift shop.
whistle_b
3 years ago
If you are taking cut flowers please take them in a vase! Nothing any worse than taking care of last minute preparations and some one shows up with flowers that need a vase!!
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eld6161
3 years ago
I going to say the same as Whistle. I would do a small boutique in a vase. Since it's a large gathering,you can't go wrong with cookies or chocolate.
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Fun2BHere
3 years ago
Poinsettia or an orchid. Now is the season for orchids so they are usually relatively inexpensive.
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Chi
3 years ago
I like to give edible things. I know a lot of people don't like extra "stuff" they have to find homes for!
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LoneJack Zn 6a, KC
3 years ago
Hostess cupcakes and twinkies
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HU-154865359
3 years ago
You've got your gift. A little rosemary tree would be cute and possibly useful to someone. I like the poinsettia idea, box of chocolates, or flowers. I think a specialty gift of something made local like a pecan pie, local fresh fruit and nuts like pecans or jam would be awesome.
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Kathsgrdn
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3 years ago
Now I wish I had waited to get something. Went to Lowe's after meeting up with the people doing my bathroom and they had tons of beautful Poinsettas in front. I got myself a Christmas cactus because they remind me of Germany. Had a few in my apartment. I also decided on a flooring for the bedroom.
chloebud
3 years ago
I think what you got at the gift shop is perfect.
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