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Comments (3)otnorot--I have a cym outside; very stingy as well (no spikes this year). I have a mini-catt intergeneric that I was thinking of putting outside this year so it could have more light (it hasn't been happy since I got it about a year ago) but most stay inside. At ten indoor plants, I don't think I have that many. ;-) Beautiful photo, thanks for the inspiration. What is the watering secret to catts (mine has never been happy and only has a couple roots now)? calvin_orchidlover--I will look for T5s, thanks. I think my tallest orchid is a brassia intergeneric. I took an "inventory" last night, after I posted my vent, and it actually seems okay in it's new home, just covered in drywall dust that I washed off. It has continued to grow during winter with no crinkled leaves AND has a new pbulb growing (that was a surprise). I may not move it back. The other larger plants can sit in front of my now-smaller window, and the rest would probably fit under the cabinets if the light is thin enough. I feel like such a whiner b/c the new kitchen is nice. As for foliage plants, I never truly gave them up. I have several pothos, a very happy marantas, some sans, aglaonema etc. Thanks for the responses :-)...See MoreI need motivation..how about you?
Comments (9)Yeah, I know what you mean -- August doldrums! What energy I still have is decimated by the need to harvest, blanch, freeze, can...oh, you know the drill! No time to worry about the small stuff like weeds -- and my poor flower beds are left to fend for themselves. Had a great crop of peas -- they loved the cool summer, and kept bearing and bearing -- Too much cold and wet for good tomatoes; constant wet invites wilt and other viruses. Squash and eggplant are my other failures this year. Have other gardeners in the area noticed a distinct lack of pollinators this year??? No honey bees, very few bumbles.... But carrots and parsnips and beets and beans, beans, beans! All doing very well! The hummers are attracted to the scarlet runners and keep them well pollinated! Potatoes are waiting to be dug, but they will store better in the ground until the end of September -- then whatever's left of the root crops go into the root cellar -- if I pile lots of leaves on the parsnips, they will overwinter in the ground, and provide our first spring veggies from the garden == sooo sweet with all that stored sugar!!!. Favorite crop this time of year? blueberries! Stick a quart container (the kind wonton soup comes in) in the freezer and toss in each day's picking (except what DH needs for his cereal!)By the end of August, we will (hopefully) have at least two containers full. The wet month has been good for the wild blackberries, too! Big, plump berries and lots of them! They get the same treatment. When the weather gets cooler, the frozen berries get dumped in a pot and it's jam time! Normally, there would already be several containers of raspberries waiting for their turn in the jam pot, but a combination of the wet and our neighborhood bear put paid to that crop! Have you ever seen what a bear can do to a raspberry patch in a single night! They like the tender new shoots (next year's berries, too!) as much as the berries, and literally strip the plants -- ripe berries, unripe berries, new leaves, all gone in a single night! Okay, I've blathered on long enough -- Veggies are my passion, can you tell???...See MoreHelp getting motivated!!!
Comments (19)First of all, HUGE congratulations on one year sober. Woo! As far as the housework goes, I HEAR YA! It's been a huge struggle for me to get it under control and find that elusive "balance" between housework, homeschooling, shopping, family time, fun, and other chores/responsibilities. Up until the past 6 months or so, it seemed the housework was always coming up short (WAY short) and it was dragging me down. What finally worked for me was realizing that I am much more motivated to keep the house done when it's COMPLETELY done to begin with, and I do well with a plan. So Claude and I made a list of what needed to be done (including catching up on the laundry, rooting out closets, drawers, etc.) and spent a week getting it done. It's super important that everything has a specific place where it belongs, and that the kids know where their things go. Then I made a plan and a schedule for the regular upkeep.... We have a 2 free hours on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings. In that time-slot on Tuesday we do the floors (sweeping, vacuuming, mopping and Spot-Shotting). On Wednesday we do the dusting and the 3 bathrooms. Weekends are free for family time or doing stuff with friends. We designate 1 day of the last weekend of the month for a deeper clean (dusting ceiling fans, cleaning the fridge/stove, wiping down the walls/baseboards....). I do a complete load of laundry every morning (including putting it away) after I've settled the older kids down with some schoolwork. Some days I have 2 loads. I do the bedding on Fridays. Sophie (7) watches the boys daily while I prepare meals and clean up (table, kitchen, dishes & sweep) afterward. The kids have classes/clubs most every evening, so we have to zoom out the door right after supper. We make sure to have the supper mess completely cleaned up before we go. Sophie is also in charge of feeding the cats, tidying the shoes at the front door and the maintenance of her room. We're still working on getting Benjamin (4) more involved (sigh). We certainly have a rule that a toy has to be put away before another comes out, but with babies and toddlers in a busy house, that's practically impossible to enforce. SO, we have "Eight O'clock Rounds" every evening. It's supposed to be at 8:00, but sometimes it's later. Basically, we have to do the "rounds" before bedtime. The entire family goes around from room to room together, picking up and straightening things that are out of place. It works, and feels great waking up (most) every morning to a tidy house. Also, knowing that it'll be fixed up in the evening, I don't have to stress every time the baby dumps a bucket of blocks. :) It might sound like the routine is very regimented, but it's what we found works. With homeschooling I just don't have a lot of time available for housework, so for me, I HAVE to have a plan. The house is pretty much always under control now, it really doesn't take much time out of the day, and I feel SO much better when a messy house isn't constantly looming. Find what works for you. Consider a schedule. Best of luck!...See MoreHow to get motivated to clean out/organize?
Comments (27)My DS and I have just finished cleaning out my dad's property so we can sell it: 2400sf house, two car garage attached to the house, another two car garage/workshop, attic and a large shed. All of these were FULL of stuff. We first determined things we knew we were going to keep, either for ourselves or to put in storage to sell later. We moved the larger things we were keeping out to make more room and to give us a feeling of some progress. Then we started with the obvious trash and got rid of it. That made it a lot easier to see what was left. Once thing that I had to be careful about was spending too much time with the sentimental things. We found a lot of old pictures, cards, and even letters between my parents right after they were married. I found very quickly that I would start looking at these things and an hour or more was gone. For things like those, you may want to put them aside until later. You can always go through a box of photos while watching tv. I found it helpful to focus on areas where I knew I could make fast progress. For you, that may be something like the baby clothes. You know you will never need those again. Unless there is a special item packed away in there that you'd like to pass on to your grandkids, you may be able to just take the bags/boxes that you know contain baby clothes and either put them in a pile to be donated or trash them if they are in bad condition. That will let you see your progress and encourage you. Yes, your kids will be grateful. My dad hung on to so much obvious junk: old catalogs, half empty containers of everything from motor oil to shampoo, old clothes, our old toys, etc. I am trying to really think about this for my own home....See More- 3 years ago
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