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Comments (40)I really like the LR color and the flow of colors you have throughout your house. Maybe it's because my LR and DR are the similar to your LR. My lighting is similar to yours. I have eggplant, teal, and orange incorporated with my accessories such as pillows and art for which that color works perfectly. Not every neutral color works well in that type of lighting, It took a whole lot of samples some of which are highly used and mentioned on GW to get it right for our rooms including many of the grays. When my neighbors and friends come into our home, the first thing they compliment is our wall colors. They want to know what we used. You'll see when it's all said and done. You will have the same reaction. I think your color consultant did a great job for you. Have fun decorating. My only suggestion is that you keep all your furnishings neutral with fabrics that have textures and have fun bringing in all the colors with your accessories and art. You have a beautiful home....See MoreHow do I not freak out and get totally overwhelmed?
Comments (9)You can do this. It will be all right. But you need to plan, not just let this happen to you. I find lists and folders help. The thing about organizing is that you have to do it, not just wish it (VERY BIG GRIN). That means, somewhere between the health and safety of your children, and the next most important thing you do, you have to make organizing a priority, if you're going to maintain organization. The folders method is great because if you keep up with it, it only takes seconds at a time, and half an hour once in awhile. Making a few seconds to put away a paper a high priority isn't so hard, even with the demands on your attention that you have. Here's one way to deal with the papers: You can start by color coding the world. Find a filing area that's not in the zone where the remodel will take place, but is easily accessible from where you spend most of your days. Get a file box or drawer for kids and family, one for kitchen, one for mudroom/powder room/pantry/laundry room, and one for the upstairs bedroom and bathrooms. If the boxes/drawers don't come in different colors, use big, colored stickers or paint so that you an tell them apart at a quick glance. Oh! And if you need to stack them you really want drawers, whether it's a filing cabinet or drawer style units. If they're going to be horizontal on the floor or a low table or shelf, top opening is usually easier. It helps to get the pendaflex kind that sit on rails or channels. They're easier to take in and out, and to keep from falling over. Invest in both file folders and pocket folders in 10 colors (you can put a pocket folder, or a standard file folder, inside a pendaflex folder in the box/drawer for ease of access). Have a color for each family member. Use the three most distinctive colors for the kitchen, other downstairs, and upstairs, and match them to the boxes. Every time you get a piece of paper put it in the appropriate folder. Like the baby's immunization papers. Just slip them in the baby pink folder, and you'll have them to hand. A few times a year you can go through the folders and reorganize them. Like have a plain color (manila) immunizations folder that all the kids' records get filed into eventually, and your and your husband's last tentanus boosters and flu shots too. Within your kitchen box, make folders for each kind of inspiration: Color, cabinetry, light fixtures, etc., and have a big one for general "I like this kitchen". Go through your computer bookmarks and print the pictures that you want to show your husband and architect and file them appropriately. Make sure the name of the website and/or bookmark is on each page. Stick them in your folders. Make a budget. Do your research and figure out the absolute least each thing will cost you to get what you need and write it down. Find the absolute most you think you'd be willing to spend on the same thing to get the look or whatever that you want. Write it down. Put these numbers on the covers of your folders so that you can just chuck out the pictures of specific things that you know you can't afford, or write "something with this kind of look" across them. This is a big investment of time to get started, and some money as well, but as things get going it'll really really help if you have all this organized. Really. I needed to find a piece of paper from my tile setter last night, and I couldn't find my tile folder. I was starting to panic a little because I knew I took it to the tile store. I knew I brought it back. I knew it wasn't in the car. I kept thinking and thinking about where it could have gone. Finally I remembered the laundry basket full of clean clothes which I'd done at my mother's house, which I'd carried upstairs the day before with birthday presents to wrap in it, etc., and hadn't touched. If I hadn't buried the folder under bags and mail, etc., and put it away when I got home, I would have saved myself half an hour and a lot of worry. The thing is, if you have your folders set up well, you don't really have to organize within them. Highly organized people do, but if you just can get the right paper in the right folder, and keep the blue folder in the blue box, you can find anything you want or need. If you get more than 20-30 pages in a single folder, it's probably time to split it into more specific topics, however. BTW, receipts and invoices should go in their own folder, rather than with their topics. Makes it much easier to figure out how much you're spending and on what. A few more things stand out in your initial post: Your husband works crazy hours, your children (lovely as I'm sure they are) have maxed out the number allowable for one adult to care for in a day care setting, so I'm sure they're a full time handful. So, first off, that overwhelmed feeling is a good thing--it's you telling you that this very large project is pushing you to the limits. But you can manage it. Before you pay large deposits and start tearing open your house, you and your husband should make plans for exactly how much time he can spend working on the house without going crazy. The realistic answer may be five hours a week, tops. Maybe ten. So make a list of the things that can be done in that amount of time--without little helpers--including set-up and clean-up time and see what tasks you can realistically assign to him. Also, well before the remodelling begins, figure out how you're going to handle the children in a construction zone. Start teaching them the rules, like never touch a tool with a cord on it, or we go up to this line and no farther. Find some friends with remodelling going on and see if you can, with several adults supervising, take the kids to see what it's going to be like, hear the loud noises, and start to learn the rules. Budget for a $10,000-$20,000 (minimum) repair that you didn't know you'd need until they open up the walls. If it doesn't happen, you'll have that much more for some of the nicer wishlist things, or that much more to send your kids to college, or whatever. The real budget killers, however, are the things that are only a little more than you've allotted. This tile is prettier, and costs $12.50/sq.ft. instead of $10. That cabinetry is only $1000 more. A glaze is only $600. Etc., etc. All those onlys add up to a huge amount!!! That's why I suggested to label each item with the most you're willing to spend on it, as well as what you really expect to spend. When you're doing trade-offs, as you make your decisions, it's easier to stick to that, than to juggle numbers in your head about how much you're sort of saving here that you can indulge there. As to the rest, it sounds like you have a handle on your budget and a good idea of what you want. That really helps!! A lot of people just want magic. :-) Keep posting here. You'll get lots of good, practical advice on what works and what doesn't, how to improve your layout, and all the little details....See MoreAnybody worried about frost tonight?
Comments (31)Cute baby. I cant have mine in the house since I have allergies but when Sophie was little I brought her in at night so the owl wouldn't snatch her. I lost a few tomato plants but they were dry as a bone. Everything else was fine, the eggplant pouted till noon and I put them out on a warm black tub. They better make some nice fruit for me to sell. I was trying to an inventory and wow before I could get done the day was over and cold came back. It was a strange thing when my friend came over. He never ever talks about pain sickness etc. He absolutely does not believe in it. I took him real serious when he came asking for help. He doesnt have any friends here so I watch out for him. I am trying to get ready for sale and I have so many plants to pot up and I ran out of the nice 4inch ones. I used styro cups till I can get more. $tree has 12 in a package so I hope I can find some when I run over Saturday...See MoreAre We Overly Freaked Out by Uncleanliness?
Comments (41)Can't tell you how many people have ask me how to disinfect/sanitize laundry. I always ask why they feel the need to sanitize. Usually it's just because they want things the cleanest and whitest possible but once in awhile it's to eliminate the flu virus that a family member has. Ok fair enough. I know how kids can sneeze their body fluids all over the bedding....but truth is that a good hot wash in detergent is going to reduce the germs enough that there's no worries. Unless someone is dealing with a serious infection or going thru chemo ect..or using kitchen linens around raw poultry there shouldn't be a need to sanitize. My boys love to play in the rock garden chasing the toads. At the end of a summer day they are filthy. Covered in dirt, grass, popsicle, and unidentifiable soils. I don't see where this will hurt them. They do wash their hands before eating unless I take out popsicles. At the end of the day a good shower restores them to sweet smelling boys. Ever notice kids that go to school in the winter with no coat, boot, hat are never sick while mine catch everything within a 20 mile radius. I've eased up on some winter gear. Boots are only worn in snow, rain or mud. Hats only if it's below 40 or windy...and shame on me but my 11 yo is now just this year wearing sports shorts twice a week for sports activities at school....course once our temp hit windchill of zero and below he WILL be wearing sweats. ....this morning he was about to walk out the door in sport shorts and a tee...I ask where he thought he was going with no coat or hoodie..lol. it was 58 here than so I agreed he could wear a hoodie. I figure nothing I've done to date has kept him from the viruses so I'm taking a different approach this year. ... I agree that exposure to germs, normal everyday germs help kids to build a good immunity system. That being said if we're at the er for something I use sanitizing wipes on the bottoms of our shoes before coming into the house even though it's a remove your shoes household..except for guests. Common sense...it all comes down to common sense. No problem giving a baby a pacifier that fell on the floor at home but wouldn't if it fell out in public....See More- 4 years ago
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