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I bought a home with 20 fruit trees. I need some advice!
Comments (12)Personally I would be hesitant to hire someone to prune your trees unless money is no object. I was referred to a great book, I think by Harvestman, called Ecological Fruit Production in the North. It has a chapter called "The Swiss Pruning Method", and the author goes into detail about how to rejuvenate fruit trees. It will most likely take at least four years for you to get the trees to full production. I would step back and take a deep breath and realize you are on a journey; this is not a task to just cross off your to-do list. Personally I envy you for having so many established trees. I have brought back only a single pear and am working on two apples. I have learned so much from everyone here. You WILL have those moments you have envisioned, but it just won't be this fall, or maybe even next. Realize that the trees will be there for many years. Learn one step at a time and don't get overwhelmed. I was mentioning my little back-yard orchard to a friend who didn't know about my passion. She was so excited and said her mother, who is from Italy, would love to see my trees. It dawned on me that there are probably lots of older people who have a great deal of knowledge and are unable to share it. Maybe you could find an older person who has the knowledge and wisdom you need and who would feel it a great privilege to come and help. When my parents decided to keep sheep many years ago we heard about a man who was in an "old folks home" that knew everything about sheep. He virtually LIVED to come and spend time with us. It was a blessing for him and for us as well. Your new neighbors might be able to refer you to someone who helped the previous owner out in the orchard. Maybe the children of the owner would have some ideas of a person who could help. Sorry, long-winded and rambling! Congratulations on your new home!!!! Here is a link that might be useful: Ecological Fruit Production in the North...See Morefor those of you in bear country...I need some advice
Comments (23)hey everybody...first off, thanks for all your responses, including your condolences. We will be ok, in time. Secondly, if any of you are wondering why it's taken me so long to respond, it's because for some reason my computer friend here does not seem to want to open any threads I have posted on and keeps popping up an irritating little "operation aborted" box. I am guessing it has something to do with the anti-spam/anti-cookie program we run occasionally, but I am not sure. Anyway, some days opening my treasured forums site slows to a crawl and I don't always have the time/patience for it. Now, back to the topic at hand. I did order some pepper spray, but the company I worked with advised me to not go with the bear formula but instead order a police-issue type because the bear formulation is way too much for a human and could in fact be a lethal dose. I could just see her trying it out when we were gone and having it drift back in her own face...eeeks. I was WAY put off by the cost: which came up to 84$ and change for an 8 oz canister and two purse sized ones. I could have gotten three gallons of GAS for that much money!! :) I will just keep that bit of info to myself, and besides, she is pleased with the whole plan overall, and that is worth a million dollars to me anyway. I am willing to bet that she never once has to use the stuff, but knowing she has it and that it does have stopping power will be a huge confidence booster. I wish I could explain her personality in words that don't make it sound as if I am disdainful or disrespectful...her siblings have told me that she was raised "the baby" and as a result led a pretty sheltered life but that's all over now and it will be really really hard for her. Her son and I need to be as supportive as we can without becoming her security net....See MoreI need some good advice.
Comments (54)Often people who abuse or are addicted to drugs or alcohol, are very demanding. They feel and act like everyone 'owes' them. As far as your sister not liking you very much...well, that is because you (and only you) have a problem with her and her ways. You are 'on to' her, and thus you are the enemy. You are the one standing in her way of getting her way. As far as the selfishness...again, all they care about is themselves and their 'next fix, or habit. They show no concern for anyone but themself. Every night and weekend, partying...drugs, or alcohol, or most likely both. She has refied her house several times taking out over $300,000 in 4 years time  plus the 100+k in her retirement acct she cashed out. This all, or a very good portion, had to go on drug, alcohol, gambling, or some combination of those things. She does not want help, she wants a handout...as that would be what it would be living rent free. Your sister is driving 80 miles a day for a minimum wage job? That is crazy with gas prices as they are. My guess is that there is something else that she has in the town/city that she works in, other than her job. Your Mom and Dad, have been enablers. They have enabled her to do as she merrily pleases with no consequences for her actions. You and your Dad know now, that this in no way helped her...it just helped her to go on being irresponsible or addicted to whatever she is on/doing. The only way to help her, is to give her advice, and food if she is hungry. She is old enough to realize that she has to work, to pay the givens (living expenses). Since paying for one's living expenses has not concerned her before, it will not all of a sudden be a priority if she is renting (?) from family. Your Mom, at her age may never understand the concept of enabling, versus helping, but hopefully you can make her see that helping your sister to the tune of $70K actually never helped her one bit. It just prolonged the inevitable...of her losing her home. $300,000 in 4 years time  plus the 100+k in her retirement acct she cashed out. $100k a year would almost have to be drugs or gambling. I doubt if anyone could drink away that much money....but I could be wrong. Sue...See MoreI'm back! Need to make some final decisions. Expert Advice Needed!
Comments (8)All perimeter cabinets are simply white. My island will be stained oak. With the black top. However there will be an island table that is attached next to it that will have the white quartzite. I have pieces saved at the stone yard that are what I used in the kitchen so do not want to deviate. I originally wanted soapstone but not to be found here in my price range and when I found the quartzite, I could see my kitchen needed to be light countertops but I wanted the bulletproofness of the granite. Plus they didn't have enough quartzite for the whole kitchen. So I have a mix. Its all good. I would post photos but the computer isn't cooperating. Can you use the island top you are replacing for the wet bar? Or are you repurposing it elsewhere?...See More- 4 years ago
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