cpartist, I like what you did with the spa. I worry that it will make the swimmable portion of the pool to small, though. Maybe I'll throw that question over to the pool forum. In an ideal world we would just make the pool longer, but it's just not possible with the code restrictions. I also agree about the bbq. Going to brainstorm this with our architects when they get back from vacation. I'm leaning towards pushing the pool against the carport (it was there in one iteration of our outdoor space) and moving the outdoor kitchen to the wall along the entry where the outdoor dining table currently is). It would be nice to walk out from the kitchen to the grill. Not sure it's feasible, though. Looking more at the numbers you crunched on the great room, I'm thinking we take another foot back from our overhang (it's currently 9' to provide shade) and give it back to the living room. Then we could have 4' between the dining / living and 5' between the kitchen island and dining table.

Beverlys mock up is perfect. as for the tv,,,some people like it there, some hate it. I don't mind it. (although, is it actually centered or is the photo askew?) what I do mind is that white mantel. that looks horrible against the stone. I'd remove that entirely. if you need something for your equipment, then do a reclaimed or darker wood mantel

Resist the siren song of the sectional. It won't be a great as you think it'll be. An apartment size sofa and two small scale swivel chairs set on a cozy rug will provide plenty of seating for family movie nights. Add some floor pillows for those who need extra cushion when sitting on the rug. Seriously. Do not hop on the sectional train.

We need the dimensions of the space and depth of the proposed benches to give you an exact answer. Can you please provide them? Typically you want the table to overhang the seat 2" which should give you the width of the table. As for the length that will depend on the space between the wall and counter top. You want to make sure you leave enough space between the counter and table edge so that it's comfortable to get seated. Also, do you prefer the table to be floating in the space or up against the wall?