Experience with Sleep Number Beds?
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anybody have a Sleep Number bed?
Comments (19)Kat - I looked a the Dux bed - it better come with it's own masseuse! A single twin adjustable is $5700. Buying 2 of those is definately out of my realm of reality, but I would love to try it. The bed I am looking at is the P5 flex fit, 2 twin XL adjustable beds, base, mattress pads, sheet set, 2 pillows and pillow protectors, delivered and set up for $5200. (that includes a 30% discount for buying 6 or more items and tax) redcurls, I asked the girl about an insert to fill the gap and she said they dont make anything like that...? I really think I would like the bed...I just can't pester him about it or he will give in now and complain later....LOL...See Moretaking away the bottle/sleeping in their own bed
Comments (14)Well, for starters, it teaches dependence rather than independence. Teaching a child to be an independent member of society who can take care of themself isn't something you decide to do when they're 15, 16, 17. It's a process that starts with little things--like being able to sleep on their own, in their own bed. It is TOTALLY appropriate to expect a baby/toddler to be able to stay in their own bed, in their own room when Mom and Dad (or G'ma and G'pa are right down the hall. Secondly, and probably more importantly, it teaches them that they need to be in bed with someone to feel complete. I'm probably not explaining this well, it's a more ethereal concept, not as easily defined as independence. But as a parent, it's important to remember that we need to give our children the tools to keep themselves save from predators. If we teach them it's okay for a bunch of people to pile into bed together, it's a much smaller leap for them to get into bed with the wrong person (either as children or later when they start dating). I just think it sends the wrong message. I believe in teaching our children that Mom and Dad share a bed because their married, but others have their own beds. It was part of the moral/family living education in our family. And what happens if a family practices the 'family bed' and something happens to the parents? Death or divorce? when a new man comes into the picture, does mom allow her precious child in bed with a virtual stranger? Does anyone want their child sleeping with their ex's new boy/girlfriend? And what happens to the poor child, who has already lost one parent, if mom suddenly kicks them out of bed in favor of the new boyfriend/husband? Quite a blow to the child when they're at their most vulnerable. And then, there's the question, when DO you stop the family bed thing? I know one family who has a queen-sized bed, that now is packed with Mom and dad, a couple of teens and a few grandchildren????? That's excessive, but if your child's used to sleeping with you, how do you get up one day and say, "Today's the day you have to stay out of my bed?" Another woman (single) I know slept in bed with her son until he was out of college. They'd even take trips to B & B's and share a room/bed (Can't imagine what the proprietors thought of THAT). Look the thing is, it really does have to stop sometime--it's much easier on the child to learn from the start to sleep in their own bed, than to have the family bed yanked out from under them at some point in the future. Now, that's my opinion--you certainly don't have to agree with me, but looking at families I know who practice the 'family bed' also tend to be the ones who try to keep their children immature and babyish--rather than teaching them life skills needed to become independent, responsible, self-sufficient adults. In short, the 'family bed' parents tend to be much more clingy to their children. I'm not talking about healthy love here--but the unhealthy kind that keeps children from reaching their full potential as adults. Again, I'm speaking from personal experience--and from the point of view that a parent's job is to prepare their child to make their say successfully in the real world. Not everyone agrees with me--I know a lot of people who have children and always want them to be somewhat dependent, so the parent can 'save' them repeatedly as a show of their love. I take it as a show of love that my dd has learned the lessons I've taught, and is able to make her own way, without Mommy and Daddy running interference or bailing her out every other week. We can't all be the same, we each have a right to our own opinion. If you're comfortable with a family bed, then fine--stand up for your convictions, don't let my opinions sway you (and I only posted a fraction of the problems I'm aware of with the FB). Do what is right for YOUR family, while I do what's right for MINE....See MoreSleep Number beds
Comments (15)Have had mine for 10 plus years. Would never change it, great comfort for me. I sleep at 40. The bad reviews have not been an issue with mine. Specifically the complaints of middle balaster, don't even know it is there. And some have a problem with the sides not holding up, another none issue for me. I also like that I can take the pillow top off and wash it. Although I do have an extra mattress cover on too. One of the pluses is changing bedding...so easy since the top is really light. I'm getting old, not having to deal with heavy mattresses wasn't a plus I'd considered. My suggestion is to go with one of the the higher models as I suspect the components are better. Many have mentioned the Costco product and are just as pleased with them. Mattress needs are such a personal choice. Glad to hear others are happy with their SN. But remember that it may not be for you. Without defining all the best reasons, at my end would definitely recommend one. Has anyone not bought the base unit and used a box spring or thick plywood in it's place? The base unit is nothing more than a thick plastic board made up of 4 equal squares that you push together. You still need a frame that has cross supports under this. If another option works, big savings in eliminating theirs and using another option....See MoreAny married couples sleeping in twin beds? Need design advice.
Comments (100)Do you all think this is a crazy idea? I spent most of the day rearranging the furniture. Took the 2 IKEA bookcases away from the dresser side and tried them as headboards--sort of. Thought I was on to something brilliant until I discovered/remembered that one is the older model which had slightly thicker sides and so stands about one inch higher than the . Argh! (I moved the beds closer to each other which my husband likes. Will likely look for 2 adjustable lamps.) I know we could go get another of the newer style, but I don't know about how far the beds stick out from the wall now. Not that we were using that middle space, though. P.S. Yes, all of our curtains hang too high. We need a handyman to adjust them as my husband and I are incapable of hanging anything correctly. (Especially when not all the draperies are exactly the same length.)...See MoreElmer J Fudd
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