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Comments (9)I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. I was diagnosed in my late 20's with no family history etc. Actually they misdiagnosed me as a type 2 and the endocronologist I first saw went along with that even though I weighed 110 lbs and was 5'7". Not exactly your typical fit for a type2 and he should have done more looking into my issues. It is likely your daughter was misdiagnosed during her pregnancy and like me she still had some functioning pancreas that allowed her to control things with meds/eating right. It can vary how long it takes the pancreas to stop producing insulin. For me it was over several years. For others it can be much shorter. Her pregnancy probably helped in diagnosing things at an earlier stage vs. her going into ketoacidosis. A very lucky thing imo. I switchd insurance and finally got a good endocronologist who said there is a blood test to check for specific antibodies and if positive you for sure have type1 diabetes and if negative - you could still have type1 it is just inconclusive. Mine was positive. She did the test because I didn't fit the typical type2 criteria. I wish the first endocrinologist had done this to save me lots of aggrevation. I went on the pump shortly after that and has used it for more than 10 years now. She also said it was likely caused by a virus and my immune system started attacking itself. Anyways as others said a good Endocrinologist is very important. Somebody who is up on latest technology and recommended treatment methods is important too. BTW the pump is awesome as far as eating goes. You don't have to necessarily be on a diet other than like any normal person you should eat good and healthy, but if you want to have a few extra cookies - no big deal. You also don't have to eat on a schedule. The only thing you have to be good about is checking your bloodsugar often. I find that a small price to pay vs. having to stick to the old way of treating diabetes which never worked for me as I couldn't feel a low coming on and would pass out as I wanted to have tight control....See MoreParents of teens/young adults- consider this
Comments (7)Hey Pecan, Thanks for jogging my memory on this type of situation !! I'm definitely going to make a copy of this . . We went through this last year after DS's surgery when we were trying to get our HMO to kick in surgery and medical expenses since we'd gone outside the system . .since they couldn't do the surgery, wouldn't do the surgery,etc. . . . . Remember those days????? Anyway, surgery was done 1 week before 18th birthday . . . I'd been the one to schedule it, sign for it, etc. etc. etc. etc. . . . . but the minute the 18th birthday rolled around . . . I suddenly became "not privy" to any of that info without DS's written consent !!!!!!!! Un-friggin'-believable !!!!!...See MoreAdult daughter leaves home
Comments (5)Ditto--you treat her like any other adult. You let her make her own decisions--even if they're bad ones. You expect her to be an adult if she lives (returns to) in your home--she pays board, she is responsible for her own transportation, for pitching in around the house, etc. Think about this--IF she is in a bad situation, being used as you say, she has for some reason, chosen this over living at home. There's something she's getting here that wasn't happening when she lived with you. Sadly, there is one other thing to consider--which I dearly hope is NOT the case. Often, in situations where a person makes a radical change in lifestyle/personality, there is a cause--could be drugs, at her age it could also be mental illness (that often hits in the early 20's). For now, probably best that you sit back and observe. Offer your support, but not criticism. Try to see her as another adult, NOT as your child who needs to still be taken care of. Good luck....See MoreNovels for Young Adults that Adults would also like
Comments (15)I love Elsewhere by Gabrielle Zevin. Repossessed by A. M. Jenkins. The Future of Us. Also anything by A. S. King. I have a teen, so I've been to teen book fairs and haunted the YA section of the library. DD's favorite was Struts and Frets by John Skovron. I also really enjoyed reading When You Reach Me by Rebecca Stead, a Newbery winner. That is aimed a little younger, but wonderful, especially if you liked A Wrinkle in Time, my favorite childhood book. One of the best things about having a child is being exposed to literature you wouldn't have known about. This genre is no less profound for being written for a different audience. We each bring our own experiences and understanding to the books. And yes, plllog, I agree - gotta love entire Anne of Green Gables series. DD has middle name spelled with an "e."...See More- 2 years ago
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